NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[Shin]

32 minutes ago, 8Ball said:

@Shin Goddamnit, made her oegasm three times using my fingers, but my dick never really went fully hard, even with viagra. Haven't been taking care of my diet, exercise and sleep the last couple of days.

Even though she came three times and I came twice by rubbing my 70% hard penis up and down her vagina, I can tell that she wants me to fuck her. Doesn't really matter if I can work my magic with the fingers, she wants the real deal. Not even viagra helped me get hard

Great night nontheless, but I gotta get back and hit the gym. Get those testosterone levels up.

That's already 300% more orgasm than most of her exs, so I think you're good ?

[Shin]

On ‎29‎/‎10‎/‎2018 at 10:14 AM, 8Ball said:

@Shin Goddamnit, made her oegasm three times using my fingers, but my dick never really went fully hard, even with viagra. Haven't been taking care of my diet, exercise and sleep the last couple of days.

Even though she came three times and I came twice by rubbing my 70% hard penis up and down her vagina, I can tell that she wants me to fuck her. Doesn't really matter if I can work my magic with the fingers, she wants the real deal. Not even viagra helped me get hard

Great night nontheless, but I gotta get back and hit the gym. Get those testosterone levels up.

 

[Marinus]

Hi everyone, I'm also in for the fun, on day 11 atm! 

[alea]

Day 20, extremely sad, stressed; sadness of a break up(long and serious relationship) / stress of some annoying things. 

I abstain from women, stick to some good habits(exercise, studying, socialise, psychotherapy etc.) but life has no meaning now. I think I depleted all dopamine in my brain

[alea]

Day 20, extremely sad, stressed; sadness of a break up(long and serious relationship) / stress of some annoying things. 

I abstain from women, stick to some good habits(exercise, studying, socialise, psychotherapy etc.) but life has no meaning now. I think I depleted all dopamine in my brain

[Shin]

5 hours ago, alea said:

Day 20, extremely sad, stressed; sadness of a break up(long and serious relationship) / stress of some annoying things. 

I abstain from women, stick to some good habits(exercise, studying, socialise, psychotherapy etc.) but life has no meaning now. I think I depleted all dopamine in my brain

Your gf was a huge source of dopamine, you'll get used to be single again if you don't resist it.

That's a good moment to meditate more and learn to embrace solitude 

 

[alea]

@Shin thank you for the reply. I totally agree with you, she was a big source of dopamine. But, I like quality friendships and family. Sorry, I don't have meditation practice, let's move to nofap.

[8Ball]

Exactly six weeks as of today! Yesterday I did sole cardio for the first time in a long time, and today I'm cleaning up my diet and going to hit the gym hard as f*ck!

I'm an amateur mountain climber so I need to get in shape for the Alps next summer!

[Shin]

4 hours ago, 8Ball said:

Exactly six weeks as of today! Yesterday I did sole cardio for the first time in a long time, and today I'm cleaning up my diet and going to hit the gym hard as f*ck!

I'm an amateur mountain climber so I need to get in shape for the Alps next summer!

Do you still have urges to fap or watch porn ?

For how long did you try to stop pmo ?

[8Ball]

@Shin No urges, but easy when you have access to sex. Occasionally I might be thinking that it would be nice to watch a really hot clip, but I know deep inside that it's not worth it.

Guess I started when I was 20. I'm 26 now. During this period I never went all-in so to speak except for maybe half a dozen times. Longest was around two and a half months.

How are you holding up there?

[Shin]

17 minutes ago, 8Ball said:

@Shin No urges, but easy when you have access to sex. Occasionally I might be thinking that it would be nice to watch a really hot clip, but I know deep inside that it's not worth it.

Guess I started when I was 20. I'm 26 now. During this period I never went all-in so to speak except for maybe half a dozen times. Longest was around two and a half months.

How are you holding up there?

I don't have any craving anymore, even when I'm depressed or sad.
Even when a hot girl is naked in front of me and ask me to fuck her.

It's as if I have a total mastery of my sexual desire.
It's amazing.

Edited November 1, 2018 by Shin

[Jack River]

59 minutes ago, Shin said:

I don't have any craving anymore, even when I'm depressed or sad.

Couldn’t we say that being depressed/sad arises from craving? A type of reaction. 

Edited November 1, 2018 by Jack River

[Elysian]

2 hours ago, Shin said:

Even when a hot girl is naked in front of me and ask me to fuck her.

I could choose not to, but to not even have the desire to in the first place? I can't even imagine. 

[archi]

@Shin If you claim you do not have craving why do you still live ?

[Shin]

47 minutes ago, archi said:

@Shin If you claim you do not have craving why do you still live ?

I only meant sexually calm down lol

[Jack River]

I think we are taking about psychological craving. It’s a mental/psychological issue. It’s direclty related to self looking for security/contentment in thought. An action based off believing self is beyond thought itself and all important. It’s due to forgetting or not seeing the truth in the fact that self is only a function and can only bring about relative satisfaction. But we move in the direction of pleasure to satisfy or bring about a sense of wholeness. This cannot be done. 

Edited November 2, 2018 by Jack River

[Jack River]

All psychological reactions such as depression, anxiety, insecurity are a result of self looking answers by engaging in pleasure. Desire in pursuit of pleasure sustains the illusion of self and brings about these psychological isssues. 

[Shin]

The days after a relapse/wet dream

 

In a nutshell

 

 

 

Edited November 6, 2018 by Shin

[8Ball]

I think I'm around day 48 or so, so almost time for celebration when I hit that 50 mark.

I have to admit I've had some cravingsthe past few days. Had a dream a few nights ago where I dreamt I was watching a lot of sexy porn videos. It was so vivid that I basically woke up the day after and thought to myself if I had really PMOd again or not. It's weird how it works but I guess this is part of the "healing process".

Things are going great with the girl I'm seeing. We talked to eachother and both of us feel that things are working out great and that it can go far between us. The sex is great and all, more so for her than for me, my orgasms aren't very strong and my dick doesn't work properly. When we fool around I can get a full blown erection that lasts a short while, so I have to be quick and finish off in her.

[Shin]

1 hour ago, 8Ball said:

I think I'm around day 48 or so, so almost time for celebration when I hit that 50 mark.

I have to admit I've had some cravingsthe past few days. Had a dream a few nights ago where I dreamt I was watching a lot of sexy porn videos. It was so vivid that I basically woke up the day after and thought to myself if I had really PMOd again or not. It's weird how it works but I guess this is part of the "healing process".

Things are going great with the girl I'm seeing. We talked to eachother and both of us feel that things are working out great and that it can go far between us. The sex is great and all, more so for her than for me, my orgasms aren't very strong and my dick doesn't work properly. When we fool around I can get a full blown erection that lasts a short while, so I have to be quick and finish off in her.

 

Nice,

Do you consider yourself as a couple now ?

I heard in nothern Europe countriescountries that it's only after several sexual date that you might consider to see yourself like that.

Could be complete bollocks ofc, why I ask ?

 

On 11/2/2018 at 0:47 PM, archi said:

@Shin If you claim you do not have craving why do you still live ?

I