NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[Shin]

Just now, 8Ball said:

@Shin Elaborate.

I don't think you need it, and it's not healthy.

[8Ball]

3 hours ago, Shin said:

I don't think you need it, and it's not healthy.

Hopefully yeah. I'll give an update on how it goesm

Can't belive I've been on NoFap for over a month with pretty much no desire to watch porn or fap. Hitting the gym tonight. Stay strong people!

[Shin]

15 minutes ago, 8Ball said:

Hopefully yeah. I'll give an update on how it goesm

Can't belive I've been on NoFap for over a month with pretty much no desire to watch porn or fap. Hitting the gym tonight. Stay strong people!

Try without it first.

Then explain if it doesn't work out, no reason she won't be comprehensive if you do some nice fingers and mouth work first  

Edited October 23, 2018 by Shin

[Shroomdoctor]

@8Ball I would actually use the viagra like once or twice to get some good experiences without worry. Its something my doctor also recommend to me. You actually dont need it but it helps when you are super nervous.

[8Ball]

I think my problem with not being able to get an erection was that with the two women I've been in bed with before, I just didn't find them attractive. It was just a one night stand... a ONS without penetration lol. When I slept with a prostitute a little over a month ago, I took some viagra and managed to stay hard most of the time, and even though she was beautiful and all and super into the whole experience, I just couldn't connect with her with everything being,  you know fake and all.

But now, over a month without porn or masturbation, and getting to know I girl the past three weeks or so, I'm starting to really like her. Perhaps that's what I need. A deeper connection. Intimacy, because we both show eachother affection and we care for each other.

I asked her just now if she wanted to come over to my place tomorrow to watch a movie. I made it clear that it's just a movie and chilling out, nothing more. I told her we'll save that for later. We were supposed to have dinner outside tomorrow but I felt it would lower the guard down for me if she's already been to my place and that we can watch a movie, hugging and lying down close to eachother and of course kissing which we've been doing since the first date. I'll also add some touching this time but nothing more. Just a fun date at my place to increase our intimacy a bit and she said she's totally down to spend the evening with me and save the real "movie-watching" until Sunday as planned.

In Leo's video on how to have amazing sex, he makes a point that you shouldn't be memorizing all the things he said if you're not experienced with girl. Start slow and work your way up. Kissing isn't a problem though althought I could add some more touching and kiss more pationatelly.

So I'll start out just like Leo said. I was raised in a home without love so I'm pretty emotionally  detached, way more than what's healthy. And I like this girl and want to start off slow. Update tomorrow evening! I'll also see how my dick reacts, if I can get a boner just by doing some foreplay, sensual touching, kissing/licking on the neck etc.

[8Ball]

UPDATE: DAY #35

Read my previous post first.

So the day started out as it was supposed. Just watching a movie, talk a little after and bond, kiss and be intimate with each other. Then I was supposed to drive her home. Well, we watched the entire movie, she was looking so sweet and pretty thst evening so I just had to hold her hand gently move my fingers in circles on her hands. We watched The Conjuring so we were close to each other all the time.

We had a few glasses of wine, and towards the end of the movie I started to place my hand on her leg while scratching her arm with my nails. Aftet placing my hand on her butt and gently kissing her a few times on her face, she started making out with me. And boy, that was a crazy make out session.

Around 30 - 40 minutes of foreplaying. I tried to remember as much as I could from Leo's "how to have amazing sex" video and boy oh boy did his video help! At times I remembered "eye contact dude" and "you're kissing her, grab her on the ass you coward." But how, the few tips Leo says in the video with the greatest result in getting a woman wet as fuck, is kissing/licking the neck and gently blowing, and touching on the breast around the nipple area without touching the nipple. She was extremely sensitive there. I could've done more dirty talking though.

Now my dick didn't work too well but this is her night. I'm doing this for her. Decided to give her an orgasm with technique Leo talks about in his squirting video. Now this is after about 40 minutes of intense fore play, I was super excited to give her an orgasm becausr she told me I'm teasing her so much that she's driving me crazy.

I insert my finger and start pumping. She moans and can't control her body movement at times. I can tell she enjoys this. But after 1.5 minute I'm pumping so fast that my arm cannot take it anymore. She doesn't cum but it felt good. After a while I try again, same result.

She then confides in me that it's been years since she had sex and that it's hard for her to get an orgasm and that she's used to stimulate her clitoris so I try doing that, no orgasm.

I tell her my dick isn't working properly right now but by then we've been on it for an hour and she's somewhat satisfied.

We get up from the couch after having some deep conversations and move into the bedroom. We shower before doing so. Instead of sleeping, we make out and we're instantly excited for us again. 

Eventually I cum after being jerked off and I told her that I'm positive I can make her cum aswell. So we foreplay for a good fiften minutes. Pussy is wet and I start the pumping. She says she's close now and tells me not to stop, I go even faster and ignore the muscle pain. Eventually she cums and her body moves uncontrollably. Tje best orgasm ever she said. Holy fuck I thought, I'm a 26 year old virgin (not counting sex with a hooket at the age of 25) and she's been saying how crazy I make her and that I was the one who gave her the best orgasm.

We sleep for about three hours, wake up and kiss. She wants to ride me and I agree. I move my hips up and down while she rides me, se genuinly moans and I cum inside her after about a minute. I tell her sorry but she makes me so hot I couldn't delay it for even a second.

[Shin]

1 hour ago, 8Ball said:

UPDATE: DAY #35

Read my previous post first.

So the day started out as it was supposed. Just watching a movie, talk a little after and bond, kiss and be intimate with each other. Then I was supposed to drive her home. Well, we watched the entire movie, she was looking so sweet and pretty thst evening so I just had to hold her hand gently move my fingers in circles on her hands. We watched The Conjuring so we were close to each other all the time.

We had a few glasses of wine, and towards the end of the movie I started to place my hand on her leg while scratching her arm with my nails. Aftet placing my hand on her butt and gently kissing her a few times on her face, she started making out with me. And boy, that was a crazy make out session.

Around 30 - 40 minutes of foreplaying. I tried to remember as much as I could from Leo's "how to have amazing sex" video and boy oh boy did his video help! At times I remembered "eye contact dude" and "you're kissing her, grab her on the ass you coward." But how, the few tips Leo says in the video with the greatest result in getting a woman wet as fuck, is kissing/licking the neck and gently blowing, and touching on the breast around the nipple area without touching the nipple. She was extremely sensitive there. I could've done more dirty talking though.

Now my dick didn't work too well but this is her night. I'm doing this for her. Decided to give her an orgasm with technique Leo talks about in his squirting video. Now this is after about 40 minutes of intense fore play, I was super excited to give her an orgasm becausr she told me I'm teasing her so much that she's driving me crazy.

I insert my finger and start pumping. She moans and can't control her body movement at times. I can tell she enjoys this. But after 1.5 minute I'm pumping so fast that my arm cannot take it anymore. She doesn't cum but it felt good. After a while I try again, same result.

She then confides in me that it's been years since she had sex and that it's hard for her to get an orgasm and that she's used to stimulate her clitoris so I try doing that, no orgasm.

I tell her my dick isn't working properly right now but by then we've been on it for an hour and she's somewhat satisfied.

We get up from the couch after having some deep conversations and move into the bedroom. We shower before doing so. Instead of sleeping, we make out and we're instantly excited for us again. 

Eventually I cum after being jerked off and I told her that I'm positive I can make her cum aswell. So we foreplay for a good fiften minutes. Pussy is wet and I start the pumping. She says she's close now and tells me not to stop, I go even faster and ignore the muscle pain. Eventually she cums and her body moves uncontrollably. Tje best orgasm ever she said. Holy fuck I thought, I'm a 26 year old virgin (not counting sex with a hooket at the age of 25) and she's been saying how crazy I make her and that I was the one who gave her the best orgasm.

We sleep for about three hours, wake up and kiss. She wants to ride me and I agree. I move my hips up and down while she rides me, se genuinly moans and I cum inside her after about a minute. I tell her sorry but she makes me so hot I couldn't delay it for even a second.

Can you continue to fuck after cumming ?

If you think you can't, force yourself.

Btw nice 

It's really more about quality/intensity and emotional connection than techniques and duration.

When you get that, so easy to make them scream ?

Edited October 25, 2018 by Shin

[passerby]

I'm on day 42 of no masturbating, or ejaculating, occasionally look at porn. TBH I haven't noticed any effects negative or positive. I was mostly hoping I would have increased energy (as I think i'm borderline chronic fatigue syndrome), but I haven't gotten anything extra. Also I thought I would end up having crazy morning erections and/or a larger limp penis, but its actually been the opposite, hardly wake up with morning wood, and my limp dick seems to be even smaller than before (never had any erection problems before). I honestly don't care that much as I don't plan on every  having sex or fapping again, but its still weird.

[bejapuskas]

@passerby Try quitting the porn and other addictions to get the maximum effect.

[Shin]

 

[Shin]

@8Ball

Fuck her so good she would refuse to leave your appartment ???

[8Ball]

@Shin She's coming over tomorrow. Jesus Christ, we had amazing sex last time. Wouldn't have been able to go through it without NoFap and Leo's video on sex, and perhaps viagra, but I think I'll be able to do it without viagra tomorrow. We had great intimacy last time. This is why I couldn't ejaculate when I lost my virginity to a prostitute 5 - 6 weeks ago. The genuine intimacy wasn't there and for now, that is exactly what I need to be able to perform.

[Shin]

2 hours ago, 8Ball said:

@Shin She's coming over tomorrow. Jesus Christ, we had amazing sex last time. Wouldn't have been able to go through it without NoFap and Leo's video on sex, and perhaps viagra, but I think I'll be able to do it without viagra tomorrow. We had great intimacy last time. This is why I couldn't ejaculate when I lost my virginity to a prostitute 5 - 6 weeks ago. The genuine intimacy wasn't there and for now, that is exactly what I need to be able to perform.

 

 

[Shin]

 

[bejapuskas]

@Shin this is literally happening to me as I am on the journey, great vid man!

[Shin]

5 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin this is literally happening to me as I am on the journey, great vid man!

The bone in the backward or using your life essence to grow ? ?

[bejapuskas]

@Shin ...  I remember like 10 years ago, me and my friends from primary school used to call it a bone down there... 

 

[Echoes]

 

[Igor82]

Haha, Congratz @8Ball !!!

 

Man, reading this thread just surges me with motivation. I fucked up the challenge 22 days in, where I was very out of touch with my motivations, and ended up relapsing... Now I have to pay my friend 150$, and I shall not fail again!

I think I will schedule in 15 minutes of browsing nofap stuff every evening, as this just reconnects me with my direct nofap motivations again! (My indirect motivations being my ultimate vision which im working on to build daily since a week ago)

The benefits are phenomenal! NOt to mention that I have not seen many social benefits (im lacking social circles, but I will attend toastmasters tomorrow).

Thank you guys, I know im not posting much, but the same goes for the whole forum, I say this from the bottom of my heart: I am very grateful for being able to access this level of motivation wisdom and knowledge (even entertainment) that all of you are sharing within this forum. I feel very very lucky!

[8Ball]

@Shin Goddamnit, made her oegasm three times using my fingers, but my dick never really went fully hard, even with viagra. Haven't been taking care of my diet, exercise and sleep the last couple of days.

Even though she came three times and I came twice by rubbing my 70% hard penis up and down her vagina, I can tell that she wants me to fuck her. Doesn't really matter if I can work my magic with the fingers, she wants the real deal. Not even viagra helped me get hard

Great night nontheless, but I gotta get back and hit the gym. Get those testosterone levels up.