NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[Strikr]

feel right to me, be a king /end it's so obvious now, makes me laugh.

she couldn't be more clear and right, thanks yoda

[Shin]

1 hour ago, Mikael89 said:

That's old news, and known even by 2 year olds. Might aswell make a video about the topic "The earth is round."

I have tried nofap for a month before, if I remember right. No effects whatsoever. Useless.

Nowdays I can't do nofap anymore, it's totally impossible, I get so horny that my body starts to act on its own and starts fapping. It would be easier if porn would not always be one click away. And sometimes you even accidentally see a hot girl somewhere online (like for example in those kind of videos above), and then it's game over.

So nofap can be a effective to confirm that we do not have free will, that we are slaves.

If it was a old news to you,

You wouldn't have the problems you have.

It's not because you understand something intellectually, 

That you grasp it experientially.

It's 2 totally different thing.

[Max_V]

@Shin I guess I have a different definition of ‘mindset’ in my mind than you have. When I think of the concept mindset, I think of someone actively trying to remember that they have to think a certain way.

I’m not one for the pickup you are talking about here. The Natural Lifestyles on youtube represent the sort of seduction I get really excited about. Learning to become attractive through mastering your own masculanity and awareness.

David Deida and Mark Manson also talk about this in their books.

[Shin]

1 hour ago, Max_V said:

@Shin I guess I have a different definition of ‘mindset’ in my mind than you have. When I think of the concept mindset, I think of someone actively trying to remember that they have to think a certain way.

I’m not one for the pickup you are talking about here. The Natural Lifestyles on youtube represent the sort of seduction I get really excited about. Learning to become attractive through mastering your own masculanity and awareness.

David Deida and Mark Manson also talk about this in their books.

Yeah, mindset to me is what is your actual and natural way of being.

Nothing forced or any need to think.

Edited October 9, 2018 by Shin

[8Ball]

One unexpected benefit I noticed just now is that my penis is much larger when flaccid. It used to be like a frightened turtle.

Still no urges, feeling great, staying strong. Going to the gym now to unleash all the energy. My goal is to leave the gym totally crippled ?

[Shroomdoctor]

@Max_V @Shin I still think Pickup can be far more than just an assembly of "techniques", but learning how to authentically attract women and keep them happy and interested without having to lie or act a way that isn't true.

 

I also think one should not do so much philosophy but try it out in the real world and when you have consistent success, THEN you can talk.

[Shin]

1 minute ago, Shroomdoctor said:

@Max_V @Shin I still think Pickup can be far more than just an assembly of "techniques", but learning how to authentically attract women and keep them happy and interested without having to lie or act a way that isn't true.

 

I also think one should not do so much philosophy but try it out in the real world and when you have consistent success, THEN you can talk.

Then do it ?

But what you describe isn't just pick up, pick up isn t about keeping women or making them happy past the sex act.

[Shroomdoctor]

@Shin That is a generalization and not true.

[brugluiz]

Day 21 here. Feeling more energetic than normal but still a bit unfocused.

[Max_V]

@brugluiz If that lack of focus stems from the sexual energy try doing this:

Sexual energy, if left alone, most likely goes to two places. Your mind or your genitals. If it goes to the mind, sexual imagination happens. If it goes to the genitals, that strong root feeling of needing to release it happens.

So, instead of letting one of those  happen, you learn to move the energy through your body. When you notice that energy becoming intense and almost taking you over and going to one of these two areas, Inhale into your lower stomach, then into the Diaphragm, and finally into your chest. Picture in your mind the energy going to these places and coming together. Then when you exhale, imagine it going through and along your spine into your head.

This calms the energy down and makes you aware of whats happening instead of it taking you over and resulting into needing to release it.

Practice this daily.

If you want more info, read The Way of the Superior Man. I got most of my insight into this from that book.

[Shin]

31 minutes ago, Max_V said:

@brugluiz If that lack of focus stems from the sexual energy try doing this:

Sexual energy, if left alone, most likely goes to two places. Your mind or your genitals. If it goes to the mind, sexual imagination happens. If it goes to the genitals, that strong root feeling of needing to release it happens.

So, instead of letting one of those  happen, you learn to move the energy through your body. When you notice that energy becoming intense and almost taking you over and going to one of these two areas, Inhale into your lower stomach, then into the Diaphragm, and finally into your chest. Picture in your mind the energy going to these places and coming together. Then when you exhale, imagine it going through and along your spine into your head.

This calms the energy down and makes you aware of whats happening instead of it taking you over and resulting into needing to release it.

Practice this daily.

If you want more info, read The Way of the Superior Man. I got most of my insight into this from that book.

Even when I do this, I still got my balls on fire all the time  

[Shin]

I have no idea if this is related to Nofap/Semen retention/whatever the name, but I strongly sense women nowadays.

They all smell the same, and it's super attractive.

What the hell is that, pheromones ?

[bejapuskas]

@Shin Its just a concept.

[Shin]

42 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin Its just a concept.

How is it a concept ?

I didn't even thought about it, hence why I ask the question.

[bejapuskas]

@Shin Isnt your horniness only a thought?  It was a joke from the beginning, but we can actually have a serious conversation from that.

[Shin]

2 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin Isnt your horniness only a thought?  It was a joke from the beginning, but we can actually have a serious conversation from that.

What are you talking about, the "phéromons" thing or the balls on fire ?

 

[bejapuskas]

@Shin Arent these two interconnected? I listened to Wim Hof talking about that he can consciously control his horniness. Maybe we are just unconscious of that ability... Wim is way beyond us two I think, but yeh, it might be a concept.

[Shin]

57 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin Arent these two interconnected? I listened to Wim Hof talking about that he can consciously control his horniness. Maybe we are just unconscious of that ability... Wim is way beyond us two I think, but yeh, it might be a concept.

In my experience there is no horniness anymore.

Now is that because I'm potentially asexual or because I abstained for so long that it changed my brain chemistry, I wouldn't be able to tell.

Edited October 12, 2018 by Shin

[bejapuskas]

@Shin Yeh, the same happens with me, maybe we are just missing on something important or we arent managing our diet / testosterone levels well enough. Its very cool that I dont fap anymore, I dont need a girlfriend anymore, but it seem ridiculous to me, if everyone developped this mindset, humanity would die of probably... We have a lot of work to do Shin  

[Shin]

36 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin Yeh, the same happens with me, maybe we are just missing on something important or we arent managing our diet / testosterone levels well enough. Its very cool that I dont fap anymore, I dont need a girlfriend anymore, but it seem ridiculous to me, if everyone developped this mindset, humanity would die of probably... We have a lot of work to do Shin  

Not everyone will, it's too challenging, not even talking about rationalizing about how just mo is good or normal, when it really isn't.
Not saying that those who do are better or anything like that, but it's just unrealistic to think everyone will do it.

It's not because you don't need something that you can't want it.?
I personally still want a girlfriend, I just became highly selective about that.

Edited October 12, 2018 by Shin