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NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

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should i jerk off to get relaxed legs?

 

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Hey, fapstronauts! I need some advice.

I have not relapsed for 6 months now, and so I don't feel any urges. About 3 weeks ago, a little thing started for me, I was meditating, and a serious fantasy came up out of nowhere, displaying my old fetishes and such. I went along with the ride, ending up with blue balls. Now when meditating, im more prone to fantasies, but I never give in... but they always come like thoughts, out of nowhere, sometimes making me hard as well.

I sometimes stumble upon some hot photos on the internet, but now it's starting to get intentional. I have no urges to fap, and If I would happen to relapse, it would probably be out of curiosity. Although I can feel the fantasies and my curiosity release the dopamine and making me sluggish.

Does this act like a detox, or will this feed into the old bad habits?

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40 minutes ago, Elton said:

@Psyche_92 have you completed the reboot?  

i'm 114 days pornfree and 38 days mo free. 

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Welp, survived the weekend without an "O."  A girl was supposed to come over Saturday night, but that didn't happen. I was ready to give in and whip it out when she texted that she couldn't make it, but I exercised instead. 

Here's a personal question for guys that have been there and done that......if I get to fantasizing about sex, for the next hour I'll get pre-come dripping outta me, like a horny dog. Doesn't bother me, but I don't remember reading about it with no-fap. Hopefully the nonstop horniness will ease up on me soon because it's a drivin' me itchy!!!   

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5 minutes ago, PsiloPutty said:

Welp, survived the weekend without an "O."

So, are you still fapping and watching porn? 

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3 hours ago, Psyche_92 said:

So, are you still fapping and watching porn? 

Aside from some boob pictures that the girl texted me, I haven't looked at any porn. I see sexual scripts running in my head all the time, though. 

Masturbating and stopping just short of orgasm is borderline masochism, so I haven't done that more than a couple times. 

Man, learning how to not scratch the itch is the hardest part. My ego wants to do it, and I'm sure it's only because I'm telling it no. 

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13 minutes ago, PsiloPutty said:

Aside from some boob pictures that the girl texted me, I haven't looked at any porn. I see sexual scripts running in my head all the time, though. 

Masturbating and stopping just short of orgasm is borderline masochism, so I haven't done that more than a couple times. 

Man, learning how to not scratch the itch is the hardest part. My ego wants to do it, and I'm sure it's only because I'm telling it no. 

Eheheh goodluck. Took me 4 years of trying to get to 90 days. This shit is the furthest from easy. Better keep up with it now.

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@Psyche_92   Yeah, and I'm guessing that "keeping up with it" doesn't involve edging, which is why I think that'll have to go if I want to get more relaxed with the new lifestyle. Edging is like trying to quit eating junkfood, but still keeping a box of Little Debbies under your bed just to sniff and look at when you get hungry. It's fuckin masochism, and it will probably keep me focused on my penis for as long as I keep doing it. NO MORE EDGING

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12 minutes ago, PsiloPutty said:

Yeah, and I'm guessing that "keeping up with it" doesn't involve edging, which is why I think that'll have to go if I want to get more relaxed with the new lifestyle. Edging is like trying to quit eating junkfood, but still keeping a box of Little Debbies under your bed just to sniff and look at when you get hungry. It's fuckin masochism, and it will probably keep me focused on my penis for as long as I keep doing it. NO MORE EDGING

Yep. 

You might want to read this:

https://www.nofap.com/porn-addiction/

https://www.nofap.com/rebooting/

Contains some good information. 

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Thought about jerking it today but i didnt

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