NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[Psyche_92]

55 minutes ago, PsiloPutty said:

So, intercourse is OK right? Like completely OK?

I don't know. To be honest, i'm not going to have sex with a girl until i'm sure that i'm recovered. I don't want to smash a girl to release my urges on her, caused by my addiction. 

[PsiloPutty]

Up until yesterday, it'd been more than a year since a girl sent me sexy (mild) naked pics, but it's happening now. It's fun, don't get me wrong, but damn I'm not supposed to be looking at anything porny. Not gonna fap it, though.

Edited March 22, 2018 by PsiloPutty

[Psyche_92]

Highly advice anyone to read the book: "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" by Marnia Robinson. I know someone already mentioned this book on here, but i just want to emphasize the insights this book can give you. It's definitely a must read.

[Shroomdoctor]

Can you elaborate what it's about? 

[Psyche_92]

19 minutes ago, Shroomdoctor said:

Can you elaborate what it's about? 

It explains why you feel tired, unmotivated and all the other negative side effects after having an orgasm through sex or masturbation ( changes in neurochemicals ), and also how this relates to growing apart from a loved one when you are in a relationship. It scientifically explains how your reptilian, mammal and rational brain work together with your reward circuitry, which is responsible for your motivation to thrive after anything in life. There are also chapters about porn and karezza ( sex without orgasm to increase bonding with your mate and release oxytocin ). Written by the wife of Gary Wilson, who is the founder of Your Brain On porn website: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/

Edited March 23, 2018 by Psyche_92

[Psyche_92]

27 minutes ago, Shroomdoctor said:

Can you elaborate what it's about? 

How is your streak going btw .

[PsiloPutty]

Found a used copy of that book online and ordered it. Was going to ask about related books, but *bam!* the answer was here waiting for me this morning. Thanks for the suggestion. 

[Shroomdoctor]

@Psyche_92 going strong. and you?  Feel extremely agitated though. 

Edited March 23, 2018 by Shroomdoctor

[Psyche_92]

Just now, Shroomdoctor said:

@Psyche_92 going strong. and you?

Pm .

[Shroomdoctor]

Just now, Psyche_92 said:

Pm .

[PsiloPutty]

@Shroomdoctor

How long have you (not) been at it? I've had agitation, along with all other emotions being heightened as well. Even though meditation has been helping, I hope the emotions find their equilibrium soon.

[Shroomdoctor]

@PsiloPutty 39. Sadly in my experience the bad phases really only stop at around 100+ But it is worth it.

[Ether]

28 minutes ago, Shroomdoctor said:

BOI

[Psyche_92]

12 minutes ago, Ether said:

BOI

BOI. Are u still on NoFap, or did u leave it behind?

[Ether]

@Psyche_92 I jerked of on tuesday, been doing it unintentionally since then

[Psyche_92]

2 minutes ago, Ether said:

@Psyche_92 I jerked of on tuesday, been doing it unintentionally since then

[Ether]

@Psyche_92 Well, I do

[Ether]

@Psyche_92 I meant, being doing nofap unintentionally ever since

[Psyche_92]

Just now, Ether said:

@Psyche_92 I meant, being doing nofap unintentionally ever since

Ahh ok .

[PsiloPutty]

37 minutes ago, Shroomdoctor said:

@PsiloPutty 39. Sadly in my experience the bad phases really only stop at around 100+ But it is worth it.

Eh, shitballs. Looks like I'll have a while to wait for the payoff. I have a date this weekend......is it bad to reeeeally hope it goes awesome?     I would think the no-fap would be far easier for a dude who had a consistent woman in his life.