NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[Psyche_92]

3 minutes ago, Ether said:

@Psyche_92 You wanna impregnate her? lol

No. I just don't value casual sex. I prefer deep intimacy, which can only be obtained in a good relationship.

[Ether]

@Psyche_92 Same but the feeling always fades, doesn't it?

[Psyche_92]

2 minutes ago, Ether said:

@Psyche_92 Same but the feeling always fades, doesn't it?

Probably

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[Ether]

@Psyche_92 Its ok Im also looking for a permanent feeling in a place where i probably wont

[Ether]

Had the urges but didnt fap. Saw the index of porn's site but didnt touch my panus

[Shin]

Nice ?

[Ether]

@Shin Talking with me?

 

[Vytas]

As a guy who lacks motivation for this challenge (have done a few streaks of 30 days in the past), I wonder if here are any guys who have gone through this and could approve that no PMO in a long run really boosts mental clarity, concentration and energy levels? As for myself those 30 days didn't seem to help with concentration. Just the opposite sometimes. I wonder if this won't just make me anti-sexuality dogmatic. 

Would appreciate the input  

 

P.S Currently struggle with the choice - which one to pick: 1)forceful action mode (like no PMO) and 2)"take a chill pill, go with the flow" mode. Which one is more healthy and fruitful

Edited March 11, 2018 by Vytas

[Shin]

I only relapse once in 80 days, and I don't think about sex that much.

If I do, It's girls I like only now.

The thing is, you got to do things everyday that challenges you everyday.

You got to be on your edge everyday, then it's fine.

[Vytas]

@Shin Do you think after 90 or 120 days of no PMO it is possible that the concentration skill will get better? This is probably  the most important aspect. Because for me what happened after a month of no PMO it was super hard to study when my mind was jumping from object to object like crazy. 

And one more thing, do you give any rewards for your ego when you reach small goals like 30, 60 days and so on, for example a day to slack off and watch tv? I feel like on this road one could get really pissed off on the world, as there would be less sources of pleasure. Am I wrong here? 

Again just wondering what are your mindsets and action plans?

 

Maybe even some of you are doing no PM challenge but with some weird ass tantra technique are getting some internal orgasms.

Just wandering whats out there

Edited March 11, 2018 by Vytas

[Shin]

Nono, these are all traps.

No rewards, this is just a trap to be lazy.

If you plan a nice trip with your girl or friends in the week end that's something else, but week days there is no day off.

Even weekend day, you still do your habits/routine.

The crazy sexual mind is withdrawal symptoms, it will get better, but you'll always be horny, it will always be slightly uncomfortable, unless you master your sexual like a god (and even then I'm not sure).

[Shroomdoctor]

 

11 minutes ago, Vytas said:

@Shin Do you think after 90 or 120 days of no PMO it is possible that the concentration skill will get better?

Yes. It most certainly will.

 

 

11 minutes ago, Vytas said:

@Shin And one more thing, do you give any rewards for your ego when you reach small goals like 30, 60 days and so on, for example a day to slack off and watch tv? I feel like on this road one could get really pissed off on the world, as there would be less sources of pleasure. Am I wrong here? 

As I have the most massive ego backlash ever right now, the only thing im holding onto is NoFap and like 10 minutes of meditation. I give myself the permission to slack off and work through the emotions that are coming up because I know it will get better again. You can give yourself some rewards, but do not slack off on those two things, if possible.

 

 

12 minutes ago, Vytas said:

Again just wondering what are your mindsets and action plans?

At the moment working myself up again to my habit routine, working through my emotions getting back to 100+ days no pmo, doing some dating and starting on LP and one side hobby.

[Psyche_92]

20 minutes ago, Vytas said:

a day to slack off and watch tv?

How can you even watch tv? Everything on it is so fake and empty lol. 

 

[Ether]

@Psyche_92 thats just your mindset but it seems very real, i have it a lil bit too. just the same repetive thoughts

[Vytas]

@Shroomdoctor thanks for the input.

@Psyche_92 I am not watching tv. Much worse, I would watch something like h3h3 or pewdiepie... 

Basically what happened. From mid January til mid February I was doing no-fap challenge, was studying for my degree, doing yoga, even getting into kriya (before Leo mentioned it  ), but than in the late February when I was doing huge changes in my diet, do to big failure (lack of knowledge on KETO and intermediate fasting) I had super big ego backlash. Basically, failed/ stop doing all these routines, hobbies, commitments. Now, starting to pick momentum again from zero. Just thinking if this challenge won't be too much and whether it is worth while. As changes in diet/ hobbies are already enough 'weight'.

[Shin]

17 hours ago, Vytas said:

@Shroomdoctor thanks for the input.

@Psyche_92 I am not watching tv. Much worse, I would watch something like h3h3 or pewdiepie... 

Basically what happened. From mid January til mid February I was doing no-fap challenge, was studying for my degree, doing yoga, even getting into kriya (before Leo mentioned it  ), but than in the late February when I was doing huge changes in my diet, do to big failure (lack of knowledge on KETO and intermediate fasting) I had super big ego backlash. Basically, failed/ stop doing all these routines, hobbies, commitments. Now, starting to pick momentum again from zero. Just thinking if this challenge won't be too much and whether it is worth while. As changes in diet/ hobbies are already enough 'weight'.

Yeah, go slower with your habits implentation, like one every two month if it's challenging, otherwise one if it's easy.

Prioritize always the oldest habits too.

You should be fine if you do that

 

When you horny as fuck, but don't think about porn or to masturbate:

 

 

Wish the same for all of you !!!

Edited March 12, 2018 by Shin

[Ether]

day 3

 

i usually most the times masturbated in tuesday's and wednesday's mornings because i had free time but i will try to not touch my sausage

[Psyche_92]

My whole body is vibrant when i spot a cutie of my taste .

 

 

[Shin]

5 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

My whole body is vibrant when i spot a cutie of my taste .

 

 

Dude, I thought a new guy was starting NoFap.

I was hyped and all ?

[Shroomdoctor]

@Shin Do we know this guy with the weird profile pic?