NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[Sahil Pandit]

@Shin What is the root of shame? 

[Shin]

Just now, Sahil Pandit said:

@Shin What is the root of shame? 

I wouldn't have use shame in that quote, but I don't know for what word I would have replace it.

[haai14]

This guy says its all placebo but because of law of attraction it makes it work. How can you be sure that it has all that psysical affects and its not just you believing it and because of that changing the reality.

[Shin]

1 minute ago, haai14 said:

This guy says its all placebo but because of law of attraction it makes it work. How can you be sure that it has all that psysical affects and its not just you believing it and because of that changing the reality.

If it was a placebo, I wouldn't be that horny, and my balls wouldn't be that hot

Even if it is placebo, just look at the daily report on the reddit.

Would you not do it just because it's placebo, even if it works ?

Sounds like self deception to me

[haai14]

@Shin I meant the positive effects  But yea if it works it works. But i was on it for like 100 days didnt really notice anything so i dont know should i start again.

[Shin]

12 minutes ago, haai14 said:

@Shin I meant the positive effects  But yea if it works it works. But i was on it for like 100 days didnt really notice anything so i dont know should i start again.

It's not just about having more energy and confidence.

It's also about rewiring your brain to enjoy real women and real sex.

More importantly it's about self control, which boost your confidence to a great degree.

Of course it does, since you choose not to give in to lust and choose to do something productive instead.

Nothing that he says is wrong, but most people who do nofap are addicted to it, so of course it isn't placebo for them, their brain are heavily fucked up.

@haai14 Depends what you mean by continuing.

If you mean getting back to porn or masturbation, it's stupid since it's just a waste of time and energy.

If you mean having sex with girls, then there is nothing wrong as long as you do it to make your partner feels as good as you.

If you do it just to get some pleasure out of it, just for you, then it's a masturbation in disguise .

 

Edited February 8, 2018 by Shin

[haai14]

@Shin I mean its like 10 mins and if i like doing it why not? And why its bad to just enjoy yourself? is it like if both of you enjoy its somehow more spiritual. I know in sex the most important thing is connection but still just enjoying yourself its nothing better then both of you (if you look just from your perspective), you will just have a good time nothing more nothing less. I think its nothing bad about it if you do it not often and not as a coping mechanism but just for fun sometimes. I really dont understand why is sex better then it (i know it feels better). Psychological it can be if you have a masturbation problem but physically its the same thing.

[MarkusSweden]

Does same thing apply to girls, do they benefit from stop masturbation?

I can't really se the problem though, do it if you like! 

Edited February 8, 2018 by MarkusSweden

[Shin]

10 minutes x 30 x 12 = 3600

3600/60 = 60

60 hours wasted jerking off all by yourself to get 5 seconds of pleasure.

Not only that, but you will be tired for the next 24 hours, but of course if you do it all the time, then you don't know the difference.

If you think that's smart, then do it by all means.

Edited February 8, 2018 by Shin

[MarkusSweden]

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Edited February 8, 2018 by MarkusSweden

[Monkey-man]

On 06/02/2018 at 4:55 AM, JustinS said:

@LiakosN Yeah this is pretty much it.

1) Whenever you feel horny, get your ass on the cushion asap. For me usually in the morning or at night. 

2) On the cushion with closed eyes, visualize with our mind's eye the most beautiful succulent divine feminine you have ever witnessed in this known          Universe. Feel the longing of the feminine with your masculine. Let the lust take over you. Breathe deep, shake your body, or start moving your hips        if you have to. Long for that penetration! How bad do you want to merge and become One? 

3) Once penetrated and making sweet love to the Divine feminine within you, escalate and ejaculate if you can. You probably won't but it will feel like it.      You will know once you have ejaculated when your lust/horniness has almost completely diminished. 

4) Do this a couple times and it may awaken your Kundalini. 

*I am not a professional Kundalini advise giver, I'm still new to it. Just personal experience and from what I've read.* 

That’s legit. Awakens feminine side within ya.

[Shin]

Just realized something.

If we can't say no to masturbation, how could we say no to cheating our girlfriend ?
Could you really say no to a really hot girl if you can't even say no to some pixels and your imagination ?

Edited February 11, 2018 by Shin

[Shroomdoctor]

130+ days...and the realization of the deep disconnect with my family and the emotional pain got me right back into old ways.

@Shin

[Shin]

3 minutes ago, Shroomdoctor said:

130+ days...and the realization of the deep disconnect with my family and the emotional pain got me right back into old ways.

@Shin

[MarkusSweden]

@Shin You're in the "NoFap" thread and swinging again?  

I bet you are a naughty one just facing some inner dissonance. 

Nothing can compare to a proud fap! 

It shouldn't be a quilty pleasure!  

Edited February 11, 2018 by MarkusSweden

[Shin]

I prefer having wet dreams banging hot latina chicks than masturbate  alone like a looser.

Edited February 11, 2018 by Shin

[MarkusSweden]

22 hours ago, Shin said:

 

Edited February 12, 2018 by MarkusSweden

[Shin]

@Shroomdoctor So how are you doing ? BTW thank you for Models, it looks interesting (was doing what the guy says inconsciously until now).

If there is other dudes doing it, we could say where we're at, let's say, every monday  

Edited February 12, 2018 by Shin

[Shroomdoctor]

@Shin The last two days where kind of a mess, but I have newfound determination to get back on track. Thanks for asking. How are you doing?

Yeah, I really liked the book. Got to read a again sometime.

[Shin]

3 minutes ago, Shroomdoctor said:

@Shin The last two days where kind of a mess, but I have newfound determination to get back on track. Thanks for asking. How are you doing?

Yeah, I really liked the book. Got to read a again sometime.

56 days, had a wet dream two days ago.

I think I was lucid in it and I said yes, then 4 seconds after I cum lol (to my defense the girl was a 10 ... ).