NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[Chives99]

19 minutes ago, Shroomdoctor said:

@Chives99 yes i have Seen the effects porn had on me.

you can't really compare the two if you stopped porn for  a week you wouldn't be crawling out of your skin, feeling sick and trembling, take a look at any coke addict  on google images they look like something out of a horror film

[Shroomdoctor]

1 hour ago, Chives99 said:

you can't really compare the two if you stopped porn for  a week you wouldn't be crawling out of your skin, feeling sick and trembling, take a look at any coke addict  on google images they look like something out of a horror film

Yes, Coke is the worse drug if that is the point you are trying to make.

[LaucherJunge]

@Chives99
You have to consider that it also depends on the duration and frequency you are using a drug.
I don't really know how frequent people take cocaine on average but someone who takes one line a day would surely not have the withdrawls of someone who takes like 10 lines a day. And add to that if you do it for a week, it will still be mild in comparison to what happens if you do that for years.
Same with porn and fapping, when you do it for a few years just once or twice a day, the withdrawls may not be too bad. But if we are talking about people who have been doing that for like 20 years and totally lost control, binging it regularely so that even the craziest fetishes don't get you off anymore, that is a point where the withdrawl must be hell. But yes, I would agree that cocaine has more harmful potential. 

Common withdrawal symptoms include

Insomnia and other sleep difficulties

Anxiety, stress and other forms of fear

Headaches and pains and stiffness in muscles, joints, teeth, jaw, genitals and other parts of the body

Fatigue and weakness

Depression, despair and other forms of sadness

Agitation

Lack of Focus / attention / concentration (brain fog)

Mood Swings

Frustration, irritability, annoyance, short-temperedness and other forms of anger

Flu, nausea, fever and other forms of sickness

Little or no libido, flatline (Can take days to manifest, and last a long time)

Pornographic flashbacks and sexual dreams

Horniness, sexual cravings, sexual thoughts and urges to use porn and/or masturbate

Desire to avoid socializing

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-does-withdrawal-from-porn-look-like

I would also add shaking to this list, because I was literally shaking like crazy in the beginning and I was fapping for just like 1-2 times a day and could still easily get off to vanilla porn, there are much much worse cases.

Edited January 4, 2018 by LaucherJunge

[Spiral]

I've noticed that if you have lots of stuff going on, being on noFap becomes easy. I haven't had cravings for a quite some time now. 

Edited January 4, 2018 by Spiral

[Random User]

I do NoFap but still jizz my pants in my sleep at least once a week. Even twice in one night on occasion. Can't seem to shake it. Fuck it. Still feeling great for not playing with myself to pixels.

Edited January 4, 2018 by Random User

[Shin]

24 minutes ago, Random User said:

I do NoFap but still jizz my pants in my sleep at least once a week. Even twice in one night on occasion. Can't seem to shake it. Fuck it. Still feeling great for not playing with myself to pixels.

How many ejaculation did you have per day prior NoFap ?

[LaucherJunge]

The cool thing that I noticed is, even when I see a random nude picture or scenes in movies/series, which is hard to avoid nowadays, I seem to have the capacity to choose whether I want to be turned on by it or not. I think this might be due to my constant awareness.

[LaucherJunge]

@Jol356
Getting rid of addictions is a big part of spiritual growth actually.

[Spiral]

Day 4 is for some reason the most difficult for me if you look at it in isolation.

It's like my body is telling me "wow man these are old liquids, are you expecting me to deal with this?"

[Random User]

@Shin Throughout my teens at LEAST once a day. Started to calm down towards 19 I think. I'm 24 now and 2-3 years prior to giving up it was anywhere from once a day to 3-4 times a week. Last year prob 2-3 times a week TOPS. More like once a week. 

And it wasn't always to porn. 

Edited January 4, 2018 by Random User

[Shin]

1 minute ago, Random User said:

@Shin Throughout my teens at LEAST once a day. Started to calm down towards 19 I think. I'm 24 now and 2-3 years prior to giving up it was anywhere from once a day to 3-4 times a week. Last year prob 2-3 times a week tops. 

Prior to Nofap it was once everyday, and after that I maybe had something like one wet dream per month top.

Do you meditate everyday, are you conscious most of the time ?

[Random User]

@Shin Yeah they've been weekly or near enough since starting NoFap 3-4 months ago. Well I'll admit I've masturbated without porn twice since then.

I do meditate most days but it certainly isn't every day. Maybe miss 50 days a year and really fallen off the wagon over christmas missing a lot of days. But I plan to keep up the consistency from now on.

I don't know if I'm conscious to be honest I really can't tell. I guess I notice opportunities to be assertive, show integrity, and when I'm being negative a lot more than I used to. 

I could probably work on stopping myself from having wet dreams as these dreams are pretty much always lucid. I've always been able to have lucid dreams.

[Aquarius]

What if we never masturbate(d)? Is "nofap" (or rather no masturbation) for girls too? :3 Does it have the same good effects if we don't masturbate? Personally I feel like I'm quite sensitive, actually oversensitive down there because of no stimulation. I mean sure, if you masturbated your whole life then nofap is great, but think about the fact that you were once a fapper so you had that initial boost or whatever. Just my thoughts.

[Shin]

53 minutes ago, Aquarius said:

What if we never masturbate(d)? Is "nofap" (or rather no masturbation) for girls too? :3 Does it have the same good effects if we don't masturbate? Personally I feel like I'm quite sensitive, actually oversensitive down there because of no stimulation. I mean sure, if you masturbated your whole life then nofap is great, but think about the fact that you were once a fapper so you had that initial boost or whatever. Just my thoughts.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/4j3q1h/question_what_are_benefits_of_nofap_for_women/

[pluto]

I copied this from a friend.

Edging gives you blue balls is true to an extent. What really results in having blue balls is massive amount of energy being stuck in your genital area.

While edging, when you come close to the point of no return, slow down, close your eyes, touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth as you squeeze your PC muscle strongly, you will feel the energy in various parts of your body. A mild and blissful sensation. It is a sign that you are moving the sexual energy away from your generals and letting it go wherever it needs to go.

Your body's intelligence knows where it should go.

By the way this is an excellent video on the subject i had saved a while back

 

Edited January 5, 2018 by pluto

[Paleas]

It has been so long since I last fapped that (used to fap 1-2 times a day), now when I get horny as fuck, I don´t even think about masturbating, something in my mind has clicked. I have so much sexual energy built up because of this that I sometimes find it difficult to release without a steady flow of available females or focusing that vital energy into something useful like my life purpose but that is easier said then done in my case. There was this one day tho, I was so extremely horny that I was like fuck this, So I started studying pick up hard. I just could not take it any longer, this was only about a month ago, still haven't approached yet so I am usually balling my eyes out while driving home.

Dropping fapping is easy, at least for me, like it is literally just not touching your dick. What I found is that it is not useful to fill the gaping hole (fapping) with more bullshit like TV, computer games or more addictions but actually trying to go deep and find the root cause whether it be depression, anxiety, loneliness, fear of death or whatever you have, this is key. 

What I also noticed is that when I go out now I am wearing clothes that are tighter, show more skin, trying to grow my hair out, almost trying to look gay, becoming more of a woman in a sense and it´s continuing to develop into strange territory, I am not gay but I want to like as gay as you can get before people really start to take your gayness seriously. I never dressed like this before nofap. I think I was suppressing something inside of me that was dying to get out.

 

[pluto]

22 minutes ago, blazed said:

@pluto

Or you guy's can just stick to science.

https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/blue-balls#causes

"When people with male sexual organs are aroused, the blood vessels to the penis and testicles expand to allow a greater volume of blood flow. Over time, this blood causes the penis to expand and stiffen, leading to an erection. The testicles also increase in size, causing them to feel heavier.

Typically, this blood is released after orgasm or as a result of a decreased physical arousal. Too much blood may stay in the genital area of some people who become aroused for an extended period without a release or decrease of arousal. This can cause pain and discomfort. The testicles may even start to turn blue due to the excess blood and increase in blood pressure.

You are more likely to develop EH if you’re easily stimulated. Masturbation techniques that delay orgasm also increase the chances of EH."

I can link more websites stating this.

Why do I care about what your "friend" says? and what the virgin boy on this thread says about blue balls, please stop making everything about new age philsophy, stick to basics. Jesus. Christ.

I understand where you are coming from, i used to think that way many years ago but i connected to something greater which gave me a whole new understanding and perspective of how the universe works. Trust me i have done all the physical experiments, there's much more too it.

I understand how things work on an energetic level which automatically allows me to see the physical at a greater degree that our modern science have yet to realize, accept or understand for themselves.

The day science begins to study non-physical phenomena, it will make more progress in one decade than all the previous centuries of its existence. - Nikola tesla  - This has been happening literally in-front of our very eyes if we look how much we have progressed in the last 5-10 years. I guess my focus is there so i am seeing it but you do not

Everything is Energy, Frequency and Vibration, Ultimately.

 

Edited January 5, 2018 by pluto

[Moreira]

11 hours ago, pluto said:

I copied this from a friend.

Edging gives you blue balls is true to an extent. What really results in having blue balls is massive amount of energy being stuck in your genital area.

While edging, when you come close to the point of no return, slow down, close your eyes, touch the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth as you squeeze your PC muscle strongly, you will feel the energy in various parts of your body. A mild and blissful sensation. It is a sign that you are moving the sexual energy away from your generals and letting it go wherever it needs to go.

Your body's intelligence knows where it should go.

By the way this is an excellent video on the subject i had saved a while back

 

Where is the PC muscle? Woul Kegel excersises be useful?

[Spiral]

@Moreira Yeah, that's how you train your PC muscle.

You can get way more dopamine from doing that over and over again. So don't, it would be worse then fapping. It's meant for sacred sex!

[pluto]

14 hours ago, Mighty Mouse said:

Hey mister expression of lost knowledge, what the fuck does any of that have to do with BLUE BALLS...

Are they blue because an astral being from the 8th density cried blue tears of compassion on my balls? Or could it perhaps be due to excess blood and increased blood pressure.

Maybe the whole thing about blood causing boners is a myth, maybe my boner is really an antenna tuning into the higher vibrational frequency of my tantric spirit animal.

One can't help but wonder, do numbnuts ever have blue balls...?

Hey, whats up. I believe it has a lot to do with energy when you are already spiritual and understanding of energy works. I am aware of the physical aspects but i am trying to get myself back to my source-understanding where things are understood on an energetic level which is where all healing takes place.

Everything physical is nothing but a vibratory frequency, with the correct tuning you can shift things in and out of alignment and i was having a conversation with @LaucherJunge not either of you to jump in and try lecture me about physical understanding of things if i needed that i would of asked for it.

I agree with both when it comes to a physical result but i am thinking passed that because i know when you can tune-energy well, physical problems cease to exist so i was trying to see if others had any understanding on how this can be worked on an energetic level since i have lost track these days because i focus too much on helping numbnuts like yous and forget about source intelligence.