How do I get over the fear that I am unlovable?

[BobbyLowell]

I think that I know that I am lovable but maybe I don't know for sure. How do I get over this? People in my life are giving me cues that I am unable to be loved. I love myself but then my friend (a horrible one) gave me cues that no one else can love me. I'm sure of these cues it's not like I'm just being insecure plz don't tell me that. 

[Shin]

What kind of cues ?

 

[Spiral]

If you can love yourself surely you can be loved  also everyone can be loved. Your "horrible friend" is just horrible, don't worry about it.

[petragr]

what I have noticed about people who feel unlovable , they sometimes act very insecure and shy , are the most lovable ones ! 

I feel like that often too , however I have to go out and be surrounded by nature and after being  all alone walking among the trees in the forest  , I feel love and I don't worry anymore whether or not I am lovable . At that point I may have become lovable.....