Sex and personal development

[Marios Tsagoulis]

I want to make something clear because i have discovered that it has become a pattern to most people

SEX IN NOT A DISTRACTION

it CAN be a distraction...But...

As i walk the path of personal development and enlightment i am becoming more aware that i demonize and cutting off things without even realizing it!

Leo does a good job in inspiring us and helping us but there is one problem....HE IS MORE AWARE THAN MOST OF PEOPLE...

that means that whenever he talks about something he has already emboded it!

What im trying to say is that if you want something so badly that it distracts you from everything GO FOR IT!

I dont mean chasing sex for all of your life..

I am saying it  as a transition phase

From leos point chasing sex is literally a distraction! And he is right!

But that does not mean that is a distraction for YOU!

I make excuses of how things have to be and how i have to be a "good spiritual seaker"

In my case i want so badlly sex not because my DICK gets hard. But because i want connection....

And people with "higher conciousness" will say

"You are just disconected from yourself"

No M********** let me experience first hand what chasing sex does to me...

Even that means doing one night stand (people will argue in this one)

And of course i dont mean just go and do pick up (although i can help some people) 

BUT just open yourself up...and become aware that you may demonizing things unconciouslly.

I always said "i dont demonize sex" but whenever an opportunity occured i denied it and felt like it is not what i want .i was LYINGGGGG

AND I SAY IT AGAIN 

from a higher conciousness view what im saying might be silly and just not important. And you are right

But PLEAZE people dont go to this trap

Dont be a puppet of "higher conciousness beings"

Chase money sex appearence...

BUT dont get lost in it!

Im becoming aware that i just try to empower my self with this topic but it might help some people who are stuck

Good luck guys!

 

[YaNanNallari]

Leo has a video called "Awareness alone is curative". It talks about something like this.

[Marios Tsagoulis]

On 3/12/2017 at 1:29 PM, YaNanNallari said:

Leo has a video called "Awareness alone is curative". It talks about something like this.

Im not talking about awareness here.

Im a talking about not suppresing what you want...

And i say it in a deep level. I dont mean not suppress something in terms of "your mind"

I mean not suppresing it physically and emotionally.

The best video to articulate what im saying is "comprohension has many degrees"

Just because you think you are not suppresing , that doesnt mean that you are not suppresing

And i talk about sex because SEX IS IMPORTANT for people who have suppressed their sexual enegy.

Sexual energy is not entirerally sex but sex is the easiest way to access it....

Someone will think that this is a shallow  topic 

AND THATS AN INDICATION THAT YOU DEMONIZE SEX OR WHATEVERR (MONEY,FAMILY,RELATIONSHIPS)

Not many people can handle advanced ways of living.

I learned it the hard way.

Suppressing your UNCONCIOUS emotions so baddly that after a will they explode.

Im not talking about expressing what you feeling...

Im talking about DOING WHAT YOU ARE FEELING (like having sex-and not like letting go...)

I dont mean always do whatever comes to your conciousness...

[YaNanNallari]

@Marios Tsagoulis Have you even seen the video I mentioned?.. You're being a bit wild or even disrespectful here. The video is partly about allowing yourself to do things that you demonize to see whether they are actually good for you.

[Girzo]

19 hours ago, Marios Tsagoulis said:

I always said "i dont demonize sex" but whenever an opportunity occured i denied it and felt like it is not what i want .i was LYINGGGGG

I want to emphasise this LYING part. I catch myself doing it a lot... "I don't demonize girls," "I don't envy other guys," "I am not butt-hurt," and then I have to tell myself, "You stupid quack you do exactly the same thing as they do."

Example, there was this girl who started hitting up on a guy 2 days after we have had intercourse. We were together in a group on a vaction trip. After the trip I started making up a story that it did hurt me and it was partially true, but when you consider the fact I wanted to go and have sex with some hot Spanish girl too, the whole narration of being hurt is NONSENSE  It's not the reason to judge someone, because they do the same fucked up shit as you do, but more effectively. That's just making yourself a victim and giving others a power over your well-being.

@YaNanNallari You could have added that to your first post. 

[Marios Tsagoulis]

On 3/12/2017 at 4:15 PM, YaNanNallari said:

@Marios Tsagoulis Have you even seen the video I mentioned?.. You're being a bit wild or even disrespectful here. The video is partly about allowing yourself to do things that you demonize to see whether they are actually good for you.

Im sorry my man. I didnt want to be harsh. Yes i have seen the video and i remember what he was saying. I rushed to respond because my emotions were strong that minute.

It was like a catharsis..i just wanted to express my self..

Once again sorry for that response.

 

[Ayilton]

On 12/2/2017 at 9:14 PM, Marios Tsagoulis said:

I want to make something clear because i have discovered that it has become a pattern to most people

SEX IN NOT A DISTRACTION

it CAN be a distraction...But...

As i walk the path of personal development and enlightment i am becoming more aware that i demonize and cutting off things without even realizing it!

Leo does a good job in inspiring us and helping us but there is one problem....HE IS MORE AWARE THAN MOST OF PEOPLE...

that means that whenever he talks about something he has already emboded it!

What im trying to say is that if you want something so badly that it distracts you from everything GO FOR IT!

I dont mean chasing sex for all of your life..

I am saying it  as a transition phase

From leos point chasing sex is literally a distraction! And he is right!

But that does not mean that is a distraction for YOU!

I make excuses of how things have to be and how i have to be a "good spiritual seaker"

In my case i want so badlly sex not because my DICK gets hard. But because i want connection....

And people with "higher conciousness" will say

"You are just disconected from yourself"

No M********** let me experience first hand what chasing sex does to me...

Even that means doing one night stand (people will argue in this one)

And of course i dont mean just go and do pick up (although i can help some people) 

BUT just open yourself up...and become aware that you may demonizing things unconciouslly.

I always said "i dont demonize sex" but whenever an opportunity occured i denied it and felt like it is not what i want .i was LYINGGGGG

AND I SAY IT AGAIN 

from a higher conciousness view what im saying might be silly and just not important. And you are right

But PLEAZE people dont go to this trap

Dont be a puppet of "higher conciousness beings"

Chase money sex appearence...

BUT dont get lost in it!

Im becoming aware that i just try to empower my self with this topic but it might help some people who are stuck

Good luck guys!

 

So you saying its no problem in chasing sex  ? I have been watching Johny Sins on YouTube  , he is famous pornstar who does vlogs,  He seems very actualized human being  , Watching his life is literally changing my perspective on  porn and sex  ! He has a girlfriend and they are madly in love   ! I want to be like him 

[Ayilton]

Watch the episode " Self Acceptance " he goes in this issue  ! The secret is to love your sins to death  ! It's that simple 

On 12/3/2017 at 3:38 PM, Marios Tsagoulis said:

Im not talking about awareness here.

Im a talking about not suppresing what you want...

And i say it in a deep level. I dont mean not suppress something in terms of "your mind"

I mean not suppresing it physically and emotionally.

The best video to articulate what im saying is "comprohension has many degrees"

Just because you think you are not suppresing , that doesnt mean that you are not suppresing

And i talk about sex because SEX IS IMPORTANT for people who have suppressed their sexual enegy.

Sexual energy is not entirerally sex but sex is the easiest way to access it....

Someone will think that this is a shallow  topic 

AND THATS AN INDICATION THAT YOU DEMONIZE SEX OR WHATEVERR (MONEY,FAMILY,RELATIONSHIPS)

Not many people can handle advanced ways of living.

I learned it the hard way.

Suppressing your UNCONCIOUS emotions so baddly that after a will they explode.

Im not talking about expressing what you feeling...

Im talking about DOING WHAT YOU ARE FEELING (like having sex-and not like letting go...)

I dont mean always do whatever comes to your conciousness...