Sexuality And Pornography

[Ross]

I for whole my life had sexual feelings for women. I started watching pornography when I was 14. And straight porn felt amazing. Now 6 Years later, I still watch straight porn but it just doesn’t give me the thrill like it used to. Recently I bumped to gay porn and started watching that and for some reason I get a sexual thrill from it even though I have never been attracted to a single man in my life. It’s weird because I don’t get repulsed by it, even though I can never imagine being with another guy. I can still  ejaculate to straight porn. When I see gay porn, the main reason why I feel thrilled is because it’s seen as taboo so it’s kind of naughty in a sexual way. But still, why is this the case? Are there other straight men who watch porn with alternative sexual themes? I have been in locker room many times and I never get an erection so why is this? And also I notice that the sexual thrill I get from gay porn feels a bit different when watching straight.

[Shroomdoctor]

Everything that is "taboo" becomes exciting when normal stuff starts to bore you. Maybe you are a bit too involved in porn?

[Spiral]

@Rossporn addiction! Skip porn for a month and you'll get very satisfied with straight porn again.

Bonus points if you skip porn completely.

Edited November 15, 2017 by Spiral

[Ross]

The thing is even if I gave up porn for sometime and then come back and enjoy straight porn, I will still get amused by gay porn as well, so what I’m trying to ask is why am I watching gay porn even though I’m not gay? 

[YaNanNallari]

You don't have to like a single guy to be bi to a degree. I find my own fantasies to feel a lot more rewarding, comfortable and interesting than porn. Anyway don't fap too much or you'll lack energy compared to what you could have.

[reez]

Stay away from porn, doesn't matter if it's hetero, homo or any other kind of porn. It's damaging.

[Moreira]

you are desensitized with straight porn and the novelty ghets you excited. Nothing wrong. But you should quit porn in general because this will make you porn induced erectyle disfunction in the future.

[Drum Teacher]

@Ross I agree. Porn is pretty damaging. I never thought it was a big deal before I became aware of it. Once I stopped, my sex life started to flourish in a big way. 

Edited November 16, 2017 by Drum Teacher
Added a few more words.

[ajasatya]

16 hours ago, Spiral said:

Bonus points if you skip porn completely.

 

3 hours ago, reez said:

Stay away from porn, doesn't matter if it's hetero, homo or any other kind of porn. It's damaging.

 

58 minutes ago, Moreira said:

But you should quit porn in general because this will make you porn induced erectyle disfunction in the future.

 

41 minutes ago, Drum Teacher said:

I agree. Porn is pretty damaging. I never thought it was a big deal before I became aware of it. Once I stopped, my sex life started to flourish in a big way. 

i have nothing else to say. just wanted to group up these great replies.

[Santiago]

Dude the same thing happened to me... at first I used to get off just watching a photo of a girl, then normal videos, then lesbian videos, then domination videos and bdsm, and at the age of 24 I began fapping to gay stuff... the other stuff didn't do it for me anymore..

And I have never liked a guy in my entire life, I don't see men attractive or anything, but it's so exciting to imagine myself in this forbidden and different scenarios and that's why you like it, just because you lost sensitivity to normal stuff...

I am starting nofap today, to see if that helps.. you should do the same!

[Ross]

That’s great guys cheers

[Viking]

But what to do with the sexual energy buildup that not masturbating creates? I tried not masturbating in the past and it just was so distracting it wasnt worth it. 

also, are we talking about watching porn or ejaculating? I have never had sex and probably wont in the next 5-7 years so is it okay for so long not to do anything?

[Ayilton]

On ‎15‎/‎11‎/‎2017 at 9:25 PM, Spiral said:

@Rossporn addiction! Skip porn for a month and you'll get very satisfied with straight porn again.

Bonus points if you skip porn completely.

you are crazy

[Spiral]

@AyiltonWhy?  don't you think it would work?

Edited December 18, 2017 by Spiral

[Shin]

On 17/11/2017 at 10:55 PM, Ilya said:

But what to do with the sexual energy buildup that not masturbating creates? I tried not masturbating in the past and it just was so distracting it wasnt worth it. 

also, are we talking about watching porn or ejaculating? I have never had sex and probably wont in the next 5-7 years so is it okay for so long not to do anything?

You do something you like to do way more passionately.

Like, life purpose, hobbies (you really like, not the neurotics ones), get to do the shit you know you have to do, get a sex life, etc ...

[LaucherJunge]

@Ross Do yourself a favour and read the book "Cupids Poisoned Arrow". Do you have any idea what porn is doing to your mental health? It is comparable to heroin, just that the physical symptoms are not there.
 

[Ayilton]

On 12/18/2017 at 4:08 PM, Spiral said:

@AyiltonWhy?  don't you think it would work?

It can of course  ....Its just me I couldn't think of that 

[Privet]

@Ilya That's withdrawals, meaning you ejaculate so much that your body is so used to it that it feels sick when you stop, just like drugs. This is possible to overcome by just waiting until your body adjusts for absence of sexual stimulation (may take months of feeling fucked), some people go celibate for years or even for the rest of their life.

And we're talking about any kind of sexual stimulation. Even just fantasizing or staring at women is addictive.

@LaucherJunge They are there. And they can be pretty hard if you are heavily addicted.

Edited December 20, 2017 by Privet

[Viking]

@Privet but I cant control fantasizing and my staring, though I try to be mindful of that. so are we talking about addiction or abstaining from ejaculation? why do all this? im so confused. Its so hard to tell if its a placebo or not. is the end result self control?

[Alexo45]

16 minutes ago, Ilya said:

Its so hard to tell if its a placebo or not.

Exactly what i've been thinking.