Stuck In A "real Rocky" Cave

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 In this short passage, I am seeking to get as many responds from you guys  as I can, because they may open something new for me which I wasn't aware of. I am 22 years old, and I am a university student living in  North Africa. I have social anxiety. I lack money. I am bad at relationships. In short, my life is FUCKED UP. The only thing I am positive about is that change is possible. However, I have been following personall development for 4 months now, and nothing has changed. I only realized that my mind is believing that idea that my life can be changed. I don't have a CLEAR life purpose. when I practice mindfullness, meditation, affrimation. It leads to nowwhere. They seem no different from the prayers I do five times a day or the motivational videos I watch in youtube...ect.  What do you think guys? You can ask me any question. Sorry for my English, I am not a native speaker.

 

[MonikaBcn]

you've been gathering knowledge I believe, but did you take any action? did you do anything else apart from what you normally do?

prayer, meditation or affirmations are not enough  less thinking more doing.

 

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2 minutes ago, MonikaBcn said:

you've been gathering knowledge I believe, but did you take any action? did you do anything else apart from what you normally do?

prayer, meditation or affirmations are not enough  less thinking more doing.

 

Hi, Monika. I admit I haven't done enought actions, but it is really hard especially to fix my finacial problems. Without money, I am sure I will do the rest. For example, How can I spend a nice weekend if I had Zero money, or How can I go to the stadium...ect 

Maybe I need to take some real BOLD actions!

Thanks for replying

[Isle of View]

What about doing some paid job for someone?
You'll have some web-portals in South-Africa with jobs?

Write that you are looking for some new experience, tell something about your interests and that you're a student.

Or what it is you would like to do instead?

 

Chris

[Brian Greendahl]

I try to start out simple. When I get stuck I start my day with a morning ritual, prayer, meditation etc. I make a gratitude list and ponder on that for a few minutes. Then I make a list of things I can do today to better my life. Even if it's just small things. Then I take that list and set out to accomplish the items listed, checking them off as I go. I recreate this list everyday. It's amazing what you can do when you itemize what you want to do and take action to do it. It's just a small step to getting unstuck but it's a start.

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On ‎23‎/‎02‎/‎2016 at 5:08 PM, An actualizer said:

 In this short passage, I am seeking to get as many responds from you guys  as I can, because they may open something new for me which I wasn't aware of. I am 22 years old, and I am a university student living in  North Africa. I have social anxiety. I lack money. I am bad at relationships. In short, my life is FUCKED UP. The only thing I am positive about is that change is possible. However, I have been following personall development for 4 months now, and nothing has changed. I only realized that my mind is believing that idea that my life can be changed. I don't have a CLEAR life purpose. when I practice mindfullness, meditation, affrimation. It leads to nowwhere. They seem no different from the prayers I do five times a day or the motivational videos I watch in youtube...ect.  What do you think guys? You can ask me any question. Sorry for my English, I am not a native speaker.

 

What is your relationship like with your family?

[Leo Gura]

Start by making a list of what you actually want out of life. Think big.

You can't use techniques to lead you somewhere when you have no clue where you want to go exactly.

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58 minutes ago, step1 said:

What is your relationship like with your family?

It's not good at all. I spend most of my time on my own. I only sit with my familly during breakfast, lunch...ect 

[step1]

12 minutes ago, An actualizer said:

It's not good at all. I spend most of my time on my own. I only sit with my familly during breakfast, lunch...ect 

What is the reason you don't get on with your family?

 

Also I like what Leo says.  The only thing I can add to this is that when I was in your position I didn't know what I wanted from life, because I didn't know who I was as a person...  You have to find yourself.