Self-forgiveness As A Path To Enlightenment

[AleksM]

A lot of people and the desteni community rely on self- forgiveness to attain self realization. Everyday you try to notice your reactions and analyze them after with putting them into writing. You analyze your reaction, write about it, state that you forgivee yourself and then make as self-correction statement. I don't see anybody talking about this on this forum. So I Will just make a thread about it.

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Forgiveness is self-forgiveness. Self-forgiveness is basicly removing subconscious patterns, definitions that prevent us to be fully conscious, present in this moment.

If we allow that we function based on some subconscious patterns that divide this reality into two poles (good/bad,ugly/beautiful...) than we allow ourselves to create in ourselves the energy of friction, which we call emotions and feelings. And that energy takes over us and leads our life in the direction where we cause pain to ourselves and to others. So it's necessary to remove all those definitions that are not real.

We are like biological robots (or computers) that react based on certain programs that create in us certain emotional reactions. This programs are like land mines that explode when we come into contact with a certain object, image, event. Our mind compares this reality with Our accepted impression and this triggers a reaction. And this explosion is friction between reality and our definition that creates the energy which we call emotions and feelings. Emotions and feelings are always created by friction by two poles that oppose to each other. One pole is always the Reality and the other pole is our definitions.  And whenever we have a definition that prevents us from accepting Reality as it is, at that moment we created friction, conflict between us and Reality.  

For example:

A green frog is beautiful.

So when I come into contact with this green frog I assign a greater value to this frog than it is in Reality. The green frog is green and nothings else... it is not more or less important, more beautiful or less than a red frog or a brown one.  But it became more important because of my definition. Because I defined it as something more valuable and this value was created in my mind. And with that I created in myself Inequality. I put a greater value on some part of creation than the other part of creation. And with that I created imbalance. Because I created this definition that something is more valuable I myself allow myself to create this energetic movements that I label as pleasant movements (feelings of admiration, love...). And this feelings have nothing to do with reality. This are just a consequence of my own personal illusion and deception. And if I want to function in this reality as a sane person, I need to release this definition. And I do this with a statement of self-forgiveness. I do this the following way:

I forgive myself that I allowed myself accept the definition that the green frog is beautiful.

And with that I remove this land mine, this switch from myself that caused in myself a good feeling in relationship to a green frog.

The green frog IS.

~ Valentin Rozman (translated from Slovenian by me)

 

The act of forgiving yourself out loud, speaking has a physical effect on the body. It actually alters your DNA. When you notice a reaction coming to the surface, forgive yourself out loud like mentioned above. Also Put everything into writing. This is how you do proper self-forgiveness.

@MiracleMan You can learn how to do self-forgiveness properly with this free course http://lite.desteniiprocess.com/ They also have forums, blogs and other advanced courses to go deeper. Valentin Rozman studied personal development and spirituality for 20 years and he told in one of his videos that those tools triggered the biggest transformation in his self.

http://desteniradio.blogspot.si/2016/11/desteni-radio-3-what-is-self-forgiveness.html 

http://desteni.org/ 

http://desteniiprocess.com/ 

https://eqafe.com/ 

http://destonians.com/ 

 

I have just copied an pasted this fro ma reply I did in the past.

This is from yesterday.

Also copy paste.

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When you react, forgive yourself, the best is to put it into writing, analyze your reaction by writing about it. Where have you been when you reacted, what people were around, how you felt, what you did (start with, I forgive myself).... Then write a commitment for self-correction. (" start with I commit to...")

 

Edited November 8, 2017 by AleksM