How Do I Be Cool, Or Popular?

[SelfPeace]

https://medium.com/@ramiaidy/what-the-is-the-mainstream-fbdc4178547c

^ he compares "The Mainstream" to the PRESENT MOMENT of culture (i.e. world of information). Very interesting read and take on the concepts of being cool from a consciousness perspective.

Edited November 6, 2017 by SelfPeace

[Source_Mystic]

I think Being authentic is more  important than being cool or popular. Popularity really is a illusion and a trap. It is a illusion because you think all the people that acknowledged you as  cool are really there for you. I assure you they will not be. It is a trap because you will find yourself doing things that go against your authentic self just to be popular. All  this will do take you off the path you should be on.   I can tell you from personal experience when your life gets really challenging it is your friends that stand up for you not the masses of people that find you charismatic. I invest in relationships where individuals  genuinely  care about my well-being and I care for theirs. That is what you really want. 

Edited November 8, 2017 by Source_Mystic

[Kserkkj]

@SelfPeace Investigate why you want to be cool/popular. Why do you need attention from others, why does it make you feel bad when it's not being given. What do you believe is true to experience unpopularity the way you do now.