How To Treat Adversarial Interests?

[Ilyaa]

I have encountered a problem, the girl(she has a boyfriend) that I have been seeing asked me to delete my texting story with her. She says she's afraid that someone's someday gonna see it and her boyfriend will know. Almoust completely ridiculous, not really logical, there is a lot of other evidences that have same low probability of showing up as proofs of us seeing each other. For example, guard in my building that have seen us coming together. Should I kill him too, lol? 

Anyway, I do not want to delete it - I have felt at first that I am not alright doing so, so I refused, somehow dropping it off rather easily. But after few days it has came up again, in more fierce manner, making argument between us quite tensed, she grow in her belief that it is right thing to do and started blaming me for not relating with her it, that she cannot trust me as I am refusing to make such a simple thing for her, etc.

 

Now I am feeling even less inclined to do so, because if I give up now...Well, it is gonna feel like giving up to her bullshiet. And I do not want to delete  it anyway, even dropping everything else.

But it has grow, so now feels pretty bad, and I do not understand how to turn it around, just let it slide. And I am emotionally attached to her, kind of in love, but standing my ground, she sees that, but I am not sure about this situation because it got more serious that usual shiettest. It not seems like she's inclined to take any logical arguments here, so explaining wont work here.

 

So, any particular advise on this situation?  May be not showing that it has hurt me too, trying to keep going like nothing happened, or have another conversation trying to get her stop worrying about it, dropping her ground about this messaging history(How?)?

And, in general, how in first place you deal with such situations where person wants you to do something that you do not want to do because your emotional reasons, but that first person can't see it? Obviously I care about this first person, so "fuck 'em" isn't really an option :\

Edited October 21, 2017 by Ilyaa

[SFRL]

Find another girl this one is no good. 

She is bullshitting you as much as she is bullshitting her boyfriend, and not just over the texts, you got to realize that.