Hamster Wheel Forgiveness

[Shakazulu]

A cycle of forgiveness and anger for my ex occurs on a weekly basis. We've been split for nine months and dated for eight. Some days I'm completely past it and some days I'm battling anger/not forgiving. I've been actualizing deeply for the past four months and passed the victim stage yet triumph continues. Suggestions?

Edited August 17, 2017 by Shakazulu

[Spiral]

N1, Block you ex everywhere.  

N2, Meet new people, make new friends.Plus points if they happens to be the opposite sex.

You are you angry at him/her? Did he/she do something wrong?

 

[Shakazulu]

@Spiral I'm angry because she cheated on me and she's telling the world it's my fault. On top of that her and mutual friends are crucifying me because I don't contact her whatsoever. Also because she's attractive, guys are talking behind my back and calling me gay because i broke up with her. They don't see the person I dated. This attention seeking, manipulative, negative person. 

[Shin]

2 hours ago, Shakazulu said:

@Spiral I'm angry because she cheated on me and she's telling the world it's my fault. On top of that her and mutual friends are crucifying me because I don't contact her whatsoever. Also because she's attractive, guys are talking behind my back and calling me gay because i broke up with her. They don't see the person I dated. This attention seeking, manipulative, negative person. 

Cut everyone she knows out of your live, focus on yourself, then attract new friends.

[Shakazulu]

@Shin sounds good ✍?️