How To Deal With People Who Hate You For No Apparent Reason

[Benevolent]

On February 26, 2016 at 1:23 AM, 8LanguageStud said:

I do agree with this to some extent.  What I don't agree with is accepting blame for other people's negative emotions.  That's masochism.

I am not advising to accept blame, but to utilize a situation in order to grow. 

You are still too focused on your frustration with their behavior. 

I was simply advising to change the only thing you have control of...your perspective. 

[Will]

On 20/02/2016 at 0:55 PM, 8LanguageStud said:

But, how should you handle the external reality of these situations?

There could be some part of you that is getting you into these situations so yeah if its happening all the time you might have to acknowledge it and admit that you could have some hate there.. Go deep man!!

In general you can just ignore but if its relevant to you, then its relevant to you.. Its never an external thing.. dont be confused it always comes from you!!

[Annie]

“If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us.” - Hermann Hesse

With those words in mind it's a bit easier to deal with weird situations because it reminds you that people's "hate" towards you doesn't neccessarily have anything to do with you directly.