Congruency - True Inner Self Vs Portrayed Outer Self

[brianman3]

I think this is my current major sticking point in my self-development.  Who I feel like I am on the inside, and how it does or does not match up to who I portray myself to be in the world.  I get the idea that the closer these two personalities get to aligning, the happier one becomes.  Yet, it's not easy, particularly when your true inner self is not aligned with what society expects us to be as normal and good people.  If your true inner self aligns to societal expectations, you don't need this video.

To complicate matters, I am certain that this topic of Congruency is closely related to the imaginary/non-existent "self" Leo has been alluding to, but I am not sure how it all works in our practical and seemingly real lives.  So, if you're up for the challenge, Leo....