To Date Or Not To Date? Help Please..

[Will]

Looking for some tips on how to evaluate if will ever get back into a relationship..

what are the plusses, opportunities for growth that I could not get myself..

In my 40s now, so its not really about a family. its really just about developing the deepest relationship apart from yourself..

Its a really tricky subject because I have to be really aware of what my ego and body want. and im really hoping that I could find a truly interdependent thing, and see how that goes..

Relationships Ive already done..

• the feeling obliged to do the right thing
• The nice and easy one yet we dont really connect
• the passion filled train going in opposite directions

Now just wanting to explore something a bit more like a flowing.. non clingy, transcending give and take, more like just doing because you can.. like art..Like when two energies come together they express through each other but never force the other..

Has anyone seen this or have any stories about what this would look like??

 

 

 

 

[Markus]

I recently watched some of Johnny Soporno's stuff, intro to seductive reasoning 101 (4 parts on Youtube). He's in an open relationship. In any case, I think he has an interesting perspective to listen to and he seems a pretty content person.