Is It A Low Confidence Or Something Else?

[Ritu]

I am little curious about my behaviour , whenever I meet new people I get a different kind of feeling like my heart beat gets little high and I  get more conscious about my behaviour , about the way I talk , how I sit, even how do I walk . This makes me more uncomfortable , specially when I am in front of my opposite sex .

How should I deal with it?

[CuteCornDog]

5 minutes ago, Ritu said:

I am little curious about my behaviour , whenever I meet new people I get a different kind of feeling like my heart beat gets little high and I  get more conscious about my behaviour , about the way I talk , how I sit, even how do I walk . This makes me more uncomfortable , specially when I am in front of my opposite sex .

How should I deal with it?

 

 

Call 911! Tell them you want to go to a mental hospital.

The mental hospital I recently got out taught me everything I know about talking to the opposite sex.

Police took me there too, and yeah.

YOU SHOULD DO IT!

Edited June 18, 2017 by CuteCornDog
I have Language Processing Disorder!

[Prabhaker]

35 minutes ago, Ritu said:

How should I deal with it?

Don't deal with it. Self-confidence is not a quality for the inner journey, it is a barrier. In the outer world self-confidence is a help, is a must. Without it you cannot go anywhere in the outside world, because ego is needed, a sort of madness is needed. But when you move to the inner, all the qualities that are helpful in the outer journey become obstacles. Self is not needed, self-confidence is not needed. One should completely lose the self, only then is there a possibility of enlightenment.

 

[Spiral]

@RituUsing open body language it will you more relaxed, could it be social anxiety?

[cetus]

@Ritu Whenever that starts happening  see it, slowww down, and breath. Simply notice your breath.

[Deep]

@Ritu It sounds like you're a people-pleaser. You have to get in touch with your heart and stop looking outside yourself for approval. Not everyone will like you, even if you're the nicest person in the world. Be okay with that. 

[Ritu]

Thank you everyone ☺  I will keep these things  in mind ..but I am really glad that you all responded

@Deep , @Morrtiz , @cetus56,  @Spiral , @Prabhaker

@CuteCornDog