Sex After Long Time

[makedonche]

Hey guys!

I have been following Leo for quite a while now. The problem i am facing is abit complex, and i would like to get your opinion on it.

I have had fimosis from my birth, but my parrents were uneducated to tell me about that problem. When i started dating girls in my 16-17 's i lost my virginity with lots of pain. I was also unaware that i had problems and i had less and less desire for sex and girls. Now i am 35 and i just went to operation and get rid of the fimosis. I was with girls and talked with them , but i was unable to have sex beacuse of the pain., and my confidence suffered.

I need an advice where to start to have sex after the operation. Should i tell some random girl about my problem, and ask her to help me out, or i just go and pay for sex to some hooker.I haven't had sex for more than 6 years, and i am abit affraid to start having it again even after the operation. I don't even know if i am able to get it up infront of a girl. When i watch porn my dick is getting up, but that is another issue, its not the same when you are with real girl.

Any sugestions?

[Gladius]

In my opinion it looks a bit tricky to ask for help to a woman in this issue. It might be a good idea to get a prostitute to decrease the pressure on yourself.

[makedonche]

I was thinking this also. 

[electroBeam]

@makedonche Why don't you just go for it with a random girl? I lost my virginity and had my first kiss at 20, when everyone else did it at 14. I just pretended that I was like everyone else, and when the girl noticed that the kiss and sex was awkward, I blamed it on the girl, literally. I told her "wow why are you so awkward?" And with enough conviction, you can get her to self doubt herself, and really think it is her that's making it awkward. 

[Anton Roos]

On 6/4/2017 at 5:20 PM, makedonche said:

Hey guys!

I have been following Leo for quite a while now. The problem i am facing is abit complex, and i would like to get your opinion on it.

I have had fimosis from my birth, but my parrents were uneducated to tell me about that problem. When i started dating girls in my 16-17 's i lost my virginity with lots of pain. I was also unaware that i had problems and i had less and less desire for sex and girls. Now i am 35 and i just went to operation and get rid of the fimosis. I was with girls and talked with them , but i was unable to have sex beacuse of the pain., and my confidence suffered.

I need an advice where to start to have sex after the operation. Should i tell some random girl about my problem, and ask her to help me out, or i just go and pay for sex to some hooker.I haven't had sex for more than 6 years, and i am abit affraid to start having it again even after the operation. I don't even know if i am able to get it up infront of a girl. When i watch porn my dick is getting up, but that is another issue, its not the same when you are with real girl.

Any sugestions?

I think that you should take it easy, try learning from PUAs and just fuck random girls until you are strong enough to settle down. Before you do that you should watch Leo's video on not giving a fuck. If the pain persists rather go to a doctor again.

[Dan Arnautu]

@makedonche Talk to your doctor, lol. We don't know better than him.

[Spiral]

Stop watching porn and you will remove the problem with el

On 2017-06-04 at 5:20 PM, makedonche said:

When i watch porn my dick is getting up, but that is another issue, its not the same when you are with real girl.

Any sugestions?

 Stop watching porn and that problem will go away. You will also get more motivation to get laid if you stop.