Marriage Relationship

[Dharam]

Hi , I am married we have a normal marriage life . it was an arranged marriage . We both seem to be of different personality . I am introverted and feel like being judged in a group of extroverted people . I had 2 relations before my marriage and both the relations got broke up because both the girls we having relations with others as well so now I am concerned if my wife is also having relation with others because she seems to be checking boys when I am along with her 

[Prabhaker]

9 minutes ago, Dharam said:

she seems to be checking boys when I am along with her 

Do you never check out girls when you are along with her ?

Edited May 30, 2017 by Prabhaker

[Nahm]

@Dharam talk with her about it. You can see truth or lack of in anyone's eyes. Talk through it. Get back on the ame page. 

[Destroy_]

Being jelaous is the sign of neurotic brain. Leo made several videos about how to handle relationships and women(and also being neurotic). You have to understand what women wants from a man. If you can't trust your wife that means you are being jelaous. Jelaousy comes with needeness. If women feel your needeness she will eventually leave you. You have to work on yourself not on your relationship. Seriously marriage won't change women psychology. 

Edited May 31, 2017 by Destroy_

[Loreena]

On 5/30/2017 at 4:58 PM, Prabhaker said:

Do you never check out girls when you are along with her ?

I'm your girlfriend and I've checked you out.  

[Prabhaker]

1 minute ago, Loreena said:

I'm your girlfriend and I've checked you out.  

@Dharam You can see now, girls check out guys, it is perfectly a natural phenomenon ! 

[Loreena]

7 minutes ago, Prabhaker said:

@Dharam You can see now, girls check out guys, it is perfectly a natural phenomenon ! 

This is a forum where everyone checks each other out once in a while. 

 

[Dharam]

But isn't it something unusual when your wife is engaged looking seriously into another men in your presence and u feel embarrassed how to behave in that situation ?

[Prabhaker]

@Dharam Love is not possessiveness , love gives freedom.