Need Some Advice

[Stiliqnnnman]

Hi guys , im really struggling with the people around me. This includes all of my friends , family , teachers etc . I cant stay around these people anymore , they are all stuck in the past or in the future they have about 0,5% counsciousness everything else is just robotic BS . People i used to spend tons of time with now i cant stand spending an hour without getting drained of eneregy , you have absolutely no idea how annoying this is getting for me . The only way i can relate to others these days is if i go down on their level of counsciousness and have the same mindless conversations and laugh at their dumb jokes  and if i dont then they start to give me that "look" like im some F'd up lunatic . Everyone around me is an energy vampire basically even the people closest to me and all they do is just suck the life out of me , and this leads to me getting depressed , feeling alone in the world , feeling like a victim and then i go back to my old habits of smoking cigarettes , weed drinking , basically anything to escape the emptyness left when all of my life energy is drained to bits . This is really getting in the way of my personal development and life in general and now the only option i see is to minimize if not cut out all contact with the people from my past so i dont go back into their sad little monkey world , and at this point i dont mind doing it  im not afraid of living my life alone im getting pretty used to it But if anyone has a better idea or any advice in general i would much appreciate it  

[TruthSeeker]

Seems simple to me. Ditch all these people..you have no obligation to spend time or communicate with them. Search for a friend or spouse who you relate to and develope your relationship with them...search hard and I believe you will find a person you can relate to...during this search spend lots of time developing yourself....the more developed of a person you are the more developed person you'll attract and be attracted to.

Congrats on your mature developed mind set!!! You're ganna do great!

[Stiliqnnnman]

@TruthSeeker Thanks man rly appreciate it I guess in situations like these you just have to burn the boats ,  life is just too short to spend with toxic people , time to man up and do the right thing !  Peace.

[TruthSeeker]

Just one more thing...

I too had a very similar part of my life...I started seeing life in a different way than all my friends and family. I left the country for 5 years to do spiritual searching and studying. I basically didn't talk to these friends of mine at all for that time and haven't spoken to them since. On the other hand I am very close with my family. I just deal with them because their my family and I wouldn't be comfortable doing otherwise and they are there for me and I am there for them. But I don't let them interfere with my growth. 

Ok what I want to say is...I sometimes think if I should have every TOLD my friends that I was "leaving them"...sounds crazy but I just stopped speaking to them cold turkey... dont know if that was the best thing to do. It might have hurt there feelings. Feelings are real. I dont know what you should do...you have to decided for your self or wait for someone else to post lol

Either way its the same its just a matter of HOW to leave them (i.e. by telling them or not.)

peace

[Midlife Crisis]

It depends on each of the individual friends. And what levels of friendship. It sounds like this is pretty toxic to you so you should be ok with just telling them to fuck off. If you want to leave an explanation, that is entirely up to you. But life is too short to be around people who do not value you. Or you can just not talk to them again.

[DanoDMano]

@Stiliqnnnman  Personally I don't find anything wrong with being alone for awhile. It will give you the time and space to evaluate your life and where you want to go in your future without any outside influences. However, you still may have to go to work and make money for your own survival. You also need to get groceries, take a walk or simply sit on a park bench and just observe life. But even doing these things will provide insight and growth for you over time.

Stop watching television and all the negative media that surrounds us every day. Strive for your own personal growth. Become positive energy.

Start your personal life anew and clear your reality of any negative influences. Soon you'll begin noticing others with this same positive energy that you yourself possess. They'll begin entering your life with no effort at all. We call this the Law of Attraction.