Would You Link All These Problems To Some Disorder

[MoneyTime]

Dangerous driving, nearly accident like

Three relationships with women:  two online, the other one that lasts for a year 

Tattoo of a cross, Going to Church but not complying to rules, haven't read a line of Bible in my entire life

Getting fired from the only two jobs I had

Not showing up for interviews

Showing up for interviews, agreeing on something then cancelling

Cancelling arrangements

My word doesn't mean sh**

Binge eating

Drinking

Gambling

Porn addiction

Serious Back issues

Depression

Attending 3-month  Support group for people with emotional problems

Social Phobia (although supposedly cured)

Different study majors, abandoning them abruptly

Problem with peers, women

Pee shy

On medication, can’t blast a load on a girl, can’t get erect at times (aged 24)

Feeling inferior, dumb in comparison to others

Getting off easy with parents, being extremely spoiled by them

Bad relationship with brother

Bad grades

Laziness

Procrastination, being always in a hurry

Sleeping in

Can’t decide on career

Can’t decide on anything

Can’t stick to anything

Self-help theory junkie

Clumsy, awkward, dumb in social situations

Addicted to Internet

Suicidal thoughts at worst times, albeit short and vanishing

Hyperactivity when drunk – punching friends for no reason

Being 24 and feeling 14, overprotective mom

Dad being kind of a reflection – not working, although the difference is that he's smart

Not talking to parents really

Offending people

Chronic tiredness

Addicted to coffee

Eating same sh** every day

Can’t keep a conversation

Jealous of brother

Addicted to talk shows

Being relatively quiet in group conversations, gatherings

Can’t truly confide to nobody

Spending majority of life alone in a room

 

Hello 

[Epiphany_Inspired]

I am not a doctor, and can't make a diagnosis....but what I can say is ...that you likely wouldn't have asked this/ be on this forum, if you didn't want to evolve...right? I can also say, that it's my experience that much of society has these types of addictions and behaviours...it does not mean that they are not destructive....just that you may not be some extremely odd example of humanity....I personally do not agree with mental institutions and pharma- drugs for the mind in general. In fact at least 1/2 of these "symptoms" could be the result of gut- disbiosis. Would you be willing to try a few things for 60 days?

*Reduce to minimum, sugar and processed foods (no fast food, diet soda etc), eat more raw fruit/ veg (no sugar in coffee, tiny raw honey ok)

*Take strong pro-biotics from a health-food store, or eat unsweetened keifer/ sauerkraut/ etc 3 times a day

*Take a supplement like Empower Plus (something with strong minerals etc ...one meant for people with mental function issues)

*Walking in, and appreciating,  Nature

 

[Shin]

At that point, I would leave everything and go into a Zen monastery and tell the master to chain me to a rock for the next 5 years.

You either need a miracle, or years of hardcore self-developement.
That's why being a nobody for a few years would be the best thing that could happen to you, and I mean that literally.

So either you go to a Zen monastery and you surrender, or you overcome all these addictions by yourself.
You can try the second one for a year, and if you didn't even overcome one of them, then you should definitely go to a monastery.

[Epiphany_Inspired]

@MoneyTime , I think @Shin is right...my idea will likely improve things...but there is likely a deeper root cause that you will have to deal with eventually...that said, there are more neuro-transmitters in your gut than your other head-brain....and it's a good choice to start by fixing your gut...if you don't have access to a zen master...there may be other holistic treatment options to help you find the root causes....if you make the effort....

[Capethaz]

@MoneyTime Meditate at least 45 minutes a day and go to therapy.

[Nahm]

Sounds like you're holding anger for something that someone did. Then eating poorly which prevents you from having the clarity to see that you are the one hurt by holding the anger. Not that it's easy to let go of, but in the end, all else is procrastination.

[Natalya]

It's not a disorder. It's the lack of discipline. You want someone to tell you it's a disorder, so that you can relax and continue living a lazy victim-minded life. But I'm here to tell you: you're not sick, and you need to lift your butt off the couch and start making serious efforts before you find yourself being 60 years-old and having missed all the opportunities.

Edited May 23, 2017 by Natalya