Trusting People

[CuteCornDog]

It's difficult to trust people, especially with very serious family problems.

[egoeimai]

Don't you trust yourself? 

[CuteCornDog]

3 hours ago, egoeimai said:

Don't you trust yourself? 

I have a crazy family member who knows how to manipulative my gut feelings.

[egoeimai]

57 minutes ago, CuteYTDawg said:

I have a crazy family member who knows how to manipulative my gut feelings.

I have manipulative pigs in my circle,too. SO WHAT? let them be. They will regret it.

[CuteCornDog]

20 hours ago, Hungry_Duck said:

If you can't trust your own family, it will be difficult to trust others. Even if you leave the situation and are around emotionally stable people, it will take time to adjust because as a defense mechanism your mind will keep telling you the person is lying, or you are being played, or you will be betrayed. It could take years of positive reinforcement to get back to homeostasis; to realize not everyone lies and manipulates.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Great thing to say. Thanks so much.

All the evidence I need for sexual assault, and I'm in trouble on August 12th 2013? County Deputy Sheriffs

All the evidence I need for assault, and I'm in trouble on March 7th 2014? City Police Officers

I wish I was making this up.

By the way, my brother is an extremely confrontational person.

He lets politics get to his head too.

The way he interprets things.

Thinks he's protecting mom from when he's hurting me. Most recently, he sexually assaulted me on Mother's Day in front of the fridge at night when I was legitimated concerned about him, and I didn't do anything because the Cops where I live are liars.

Edited May 16, 2017 by CuteYTDawg

[Nahm]

@CuteYTDawg My intention is that this helps you like it helped me......

What is trust, really? 

It's just a prediction or guess on if someone will do something desirable or not desirable on your behalf. Right?

Looking at it that way freed me.