Am I Too Mechanical?

[Jordan wang]

I want to be a highly productive person. I want to hang out with people who are ambitious and committed to self-development, like Leo. But unfortunately, there are not many people around me who's like him.

Now I walk on the street, eat at the dining hall... I see people and I judge them, I want to know that it is beneficial for me to talk to them before talking to them, or else I'll just walk past them.

I don't want to waste any time, therefore, I am determined to drive the "losers" out of my life, but the thing is: there are not a lot of winners. Now that the "losers" are gone, I find myself friendless. What should I do? Should I make friends with the people who I used to hangout with? (those people are not productive at all, they eat dinner together and talk useless shit for an hour, then they go to parties. I bet they get really low grades.)

When I see girls, I usually stare at them for around 3-8 seconds before making a judgement of whether I should approach her or not. (I look at her breast, face, and butt). 

Am I treating life too seriously? Should I just be chill and talk to anyone?

Jordan wang

[SFRL]

Idk man. Too me there is nothing more annoying then people yapping away. And I am not even a shy person. 

[Shin]

Focus on yourself.

You don't need anyone to be what you want to be.

If you feel the need to have people around you to succeed, you already failed.


I would suggest to take care of your judmental behabviour though, because that will fucks you in the long term, in every area of your life.

 

https://zenhabits.net/a-simple-method-to-avoid-being-judgmental-yes-that-means-you/

 

 

Edited May 16, 2017 by Shin