I am regularly groped and it doesn't bother me at all. Why?

[Big Marsha]

I am 41 year old recently divorced woman. I have a son.

I often feel powerful and confident, thought sometimes I feel like I can be accidentally intimidating (I’m 6 foot tall”). I’ve learned to be a little extra friendly or goofy with new people so they don’t get that impression.

When I’m feeling low self esteem sometimes I feel too big, and get very self conscious about being larger than other women. But usually I can get out of that headspace by putting on a badass outfit that only a very tall statuesque woman could pull off.
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I identify as straight. I am exclusively attracted to men.

I moved here in this small town about nine months ago. I moved here because is very near my son's boarding school. My parents are extremely rich. I grew up rich.
I am dressing up everywhere (even for grocery shopping ). The whole shebang, satin/leather/shiny pants/skirts, satin/silk blouses, pantyhose, shapewear, high heels, full make up on, be it morning, noon or evening.
Most of my outfits are well-coordinated in terms of color
I love my style and get lots of compliments on my clothes. . But I moved here in this smallish town about a year ago. I moved here because is very near my son's boarding school. My clothing makes me stick out like a sore thumb in this town. I am always dressed up to the max, on high heels, full make up on.

However, some acquaintances here in this town think I overdress for daily activities. Most people here think I am stuck up. 
On the other hand I feel confident this way, so i don't want to dress down . Since i moved here in this small town I keep finding myself in situations where other women just randomly start touching my boobs and butt. I was totally unprepared for that behavior from anyone. I've always had big boobs. I easily had the largest chest in my high school. But I was one of the lucky ones that's never had her boobs grabbed, touched, or jiggled before. Probably because of my size and my bitch resting face. My lack of familiarity with this type of situations was not just limited to being groped either, as so far i had no involvement with lesbians at all.
I’m not even talking about people that I’m familiar with in any way. It usually tends to be older short skinny women. I know it’s a controversial topic , but  many women here in this town are fascinated by me and some ask while others just go ahead and touch my boobs or butt. I am letting them. I realized that I’m not a person who really cares too much about my breasts or butt getting groped by other women as long as you’re not being aggressive or trying to undress me. 

There’s a part of me that realizes that culturally they are probably excited to see something different and not conscious that it is inappropriate.  I identify as straight as I think bisexual implies I'm interested in sex with another woman, and I'm not. These women gropers are physically completely harmless. They are not not tough and strong. They don't look intimidating. They are just short, skinny, tiny women. I am much bigger and physically stronger than these women. Maybe subconsciously i know that these short women are not physically threatening to me at all, and the chances that these handsy women could actually rape me are virtually nil. It's not like they don't have a barrier of clothes between them and my skin anyway. Personally, unless they're hurting me, I'd never take action against some these two women copping a feel.

What am I? 
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I thought this would drive me crazy and it doesn't! I'm not bothered by these small  women who have touched my breasts/butt without asking. I never thought I’d let it happen, but did and i am okay with it ! 
I am regularly groped by these short, skinny, weird,  women and it doesn't bother me at all. If it was men , I would be pissed and smack them. I’m not a super touchy feely person normally, but it gives me the warm fuzzies when other women are so excited about my breasts and butt and sending good vibes. I also never try to touch other women’s boobs/butts and haven’t ever felt the urge, i am strictly heterosexual lol so I guess it’s kind of weird, but yeah overall I don’t mind at all. I don't mind these small skinny women calling me big or massive or giantess eather, I love my big body.



 

I am  ok with this. I got used to  occasional small woman’s hand that reaches for my breasts, usually accompanied with questions like “they are huge, are they real?”, or “do you mind if I touch them?” (Usually they don’t wait for the answer). Mostly they go “oh yes I would ask you first!” (As they had literally just been reaching for my boobs). I always let it slide because I don’t want to come across arrogant. This short skinny old woman who is a small grocery store owner became my regular groper. She  touches my boobs a few times every time I see her. Like, I'll be walking into her grocery store and she'll grab them and comment on them. It's a little jarring, but I'm not offended or anything. She has grabbed my ass plenty of times. 

[meta_male]

This is a pretty bizarre (and familiar) post...

 

[Butters]

44 minutes ago, meta_male said:

This is a pretty bizarre (and familiar) post...

 

Yeah if this isn't a fake account I don't know what is

[Applegarden8]

What the hell. Do women do that? I rarely touch anybody in my entire life. Sometimes a hug or handshake is unwanted. I forgot to even touch people that I am interested. Thanks for sharing.

So, do you still have it as a problem to reflect about, because I see that you still get and at some point got annoyed or it was not something you expected or you are just sharing your story?

Edited yesterday at 01:13 PM by Applegarden8

[Salvijus]

Thank you for sharing your story. I feel like I really needed to hear this. ❤️

[Sugarcoat]

Do people genuinely read such long posts?

I’ll just reply to your title. Yea I don’t care either although I don’t get harassed . I can’t really get humiliated it doesn’t feel personal to me if someone touches me, it’s just a body 

Edited yesterday at 06:08 PM by Sugarcoat

[Hojo]

You probably get off on feeling better than other people. You said the words small many times when referring to others around you and your home and big and rich and luxurious when referring to yourself. It is running from being nothing. 

Yes touch my breasts feel small you tiny worm. It happening everytime you go to the grocery store is not natural and is fetish behavior. Like you want it but you aren't gay. What else could it be then? 

Edited yesterday at 06:25 PM by Hojo

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

I never see women invading anyone's personal space, it's always men who do annoying weird shit like that. But I guess you are an interesting specimen to these women due to your bodily proportions, and since they know 100% they can get away with it, they're using that opportunity, maybe out of fascination, their way of showing friendliness, or even attraction. Can't say I don't understand them LUL

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

Do people genuinely read such long posts?

I’ll just reply to your title. Yea I don’t care either although I don’t get harassed . I can’t really get humiliated it doesn’t feel personal to me if someone touches me, it’s just a body 

No lol + It's pretty India + Why does she put big shemales in her pps.

 

[Schizophonia]

It bites 🐟😂

 

@Big Marsha gg

[Applegarden8]

4 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

No lol + It's pretty India + Why does she put big shemales in her pps.

 

Acctually when you say that, it starts making sense, you could be right... Who would complain about about something they don't really care about in the end, but I will give her benefit of doubt until I will see something fishy.  

Edited yesterday at 07:35 PM by Applegarden8

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

If you tried to sniff out Pretty India in any slightly weirder post, you'd eventually go crazy

[Sugarcoat]

10 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

No lol + It's pretty India + Why does she put big shemales in her pps.

 

Why always the same person

[Applegarden8]

13 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

It bites 🐟😂

 

@Big Marsha gg

What blew off the cover in your opinion? I am just interested.

Nevermind, I image searched. Yeah, got em.

Edited yesterday at 07:47 PM by Applegarden8

[Schizophonia]

8 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Why always the same person

The account mentioned in the first post, with the big blonde shemale lol, is mutually following Pretty India.
And usually when there's a troll account like that, it's her.

I personally have nothing against her but well.

[Sugarcoat]

13 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

The account mentioned in the first post, with the big blonde shemale lol, is mutually following Pretty India.
And usually when there's a troll account like that, it's her.

I personally have nothing against her but well.

Maybe

[martins name]

I hope this is fictional because it would be so bizarre and funny if this were someone's hobby.

I'd personally find this dehumanizing, but I think this wouldn't bother a more secure person.
 

[Schizophonia]

38 minutes ago, Applegarden8 said:

What blew off the cover in your opinion? I am just interested.

Nevermind, I image searched. Yeah, got em.

 

3 minutes ago, martins name said:

I hope this is fictional because it would be so bizarre and funny if this were someone's hobby.

I'd personally find this dehumanizing, but I think this wouldn't bother a more secure person.
 

It's ofc a troll.

[LordFall]

I've seen women do this a lot especially grabbing eachother's butts, I don't think it's a troll post.

It's interesting from a metaphysical point of view because the concept of personal space relates a lot to the concept of safety and as long as you're not threatening to someone's survival they're usually quite open to you. 

Being a man relates to danger though which I do like and appreciate. I've hunged out in feminine and sometimes LGBTQ circles and there's this vibe of friendliness and harmlessness that's pleasant and healing to be around but it feels good to have dangerous energy as well.

 

[Big Marsha]

6 hours ago, LordFall said:

I've seen women do this a lot especially grabbing eachother's butts, I don't think it's a troll post.

It's interesting from a metaphysical point of view because the concept of personal space relates a lot to the concept of safety and as long as you're not threatening to someone's survival they're usually quite open to you. 

Being a man relates to danger though which I do like and appreciate. I've hunged out in feminine and sometimes LGBTQ circles and there's this vibe of friendliness and harmlessness that's pleasant and healing to be around but it feels good to have dangerous energy as well.

 

@Butters Thank you. I definitely feel safe with these small tiny women  because they are physically harmless. But i admit to you that if a tall, fat or muscular woman starts groping me , i will get upset. I literally had these women my gropers tell me that before they met me they hated me because I was overdressed which means I must be a high maintenance bitch, snob, and diva, and they were “surprised” to find out I’m letting them to grope me in public