Sugarcoat

Duality is so obvious

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5 minutes ago, Nemra said:

Your profile picture is less worrisome than your personal data on this forum.

However, paranoia will also be problematic.

Yea I agree 

I’m not so paranoid but I should be catious

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17 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

That’s so cool

It was so weird, the weirdest place in the universe, the last thing/place you could imagine.

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LSD did that to me too, but it was less of an ego death.

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Haha then we are on same page

They wouldn't even really want me to vape CBD imagine if they stumble upon my posts with my tobacco pipe, my psychedelic experiences, with testosterone, and my perverted jokes 😂

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Some say it’s the same … so you can still feel it all

But God, on a non-dual level, has no agenda; All this ventance is egotistical; Ultimately, we "want" "well-being," "enjoyment," "happiness," and by extension, "to avoid" "suffering."
So I don't see the point of wanting to escape, because there's no point beyond that; There's simply nothing.
Is it even possible to have a non-dual experience? Whether by committing suicide or by dropping enough 5 MeO DMT? If there's always a conscious experience, then there's always an ego clutch.
Does "non-dual experience" even make sense?

 

Anyway, I compulsively wrote this, maybe it's impertinent, I don't know.

 

"I" "will" "eat" "a" "chips" "bag"

Mhhh...

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Nothing will prevent Willy.

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Three quarters or more of forum users have done psychedelics, or said they have. 100% of forum users suffer. Good luck trying to end suffering using psychedelics. 

That said, I love this post. It seemed a bit poetic too. Like describing the self. What it feels like to be a self. Everybody wants enlightenment and speak about awakening but you just described something very wonderful. What it's like to feel like a person. A person that feels trapped in a human body. It's wonderful to me because I sometimes feel that way. Like I don't feel separate; I feel like an individual. All I saw was Absolute perfection. The Absolute speaking. Speaking from a location, a place, limit, here, I am. 

That's why I said it seemed poetic. Like the Absolute writing about itself, with itself, by itself. It wasn't trying to be itself - in a way. It was like one describing what it was like playing a movie role. It was superb. I know I'm exaggerating a bit; but I truly felt that way reading it. 

This isn't even a post that needs advice or anything of the sort. It's one to marvel at. To see and recognize what the fucking Absolute can be. How it can deceive itself. Be anything. Reading your post, to me, was Absolutely freeing. I saw freedom's expression. Abso-fucking-lutely. Excuse my French.

IT IS ONLY ABSOLUTE FREEDOM THAT CAN FEEL TRAPPED. If it weren't Absolutely free and unlimited, it wouldn't even have the desire to feel free. It wouldn't even know it wasn't free and liberated. Your post actually made me realize freedom and liberation more than what an enlightened being can ever reveal. It revealed the true essence of what Absolute freedom, liberation and limitless actually looks like. That's what's obvious. This is awesome. 

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What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. 

 

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Just now, Princess Arabia said:

Three quarters or more of forum users have done psychedelics, or said they have. 100% of forum users suffer. Good luck trying to end suffering using psychedelics. 

Yes, psychedelics are not enough to change self-concept in a lasting way.


Nothing will prevent Willy.

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11 minutes ago, Nemra said:

Who does that? 🙃

A slightly gullible otter.

:ph34r:

 


Nothing will prevent Willy.

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1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

Yes, psychedelics are not enough to change self-concept in a lasting way.

It's not about that. It's that separation is suffering. It feels like suffering. Nothing is actually separate so one cannot "not be separate". One cannot end suffering. Suffering, without diminishing people's suffering or even my own, is suffering being suffering. It's energetic. Happiness is being happiness. No one does either so no one can end either. Let me see you suffer right now on demand. Be happy on demand. Tell me the mechanics of how you're doing that. You can't, so how can you end something you didn't start.


What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. 

 

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 I would say that more than dissolving the self, what we need to do is dissolve the meaning. When they say the self is illusory and that you are the totality, you remain in a mental framework that you are the experience, the totality, etc. What we need to achieve is being here and now without any meaning. The experience must be absolutely empty of interpretation, of rootedness, of relationship with anything else. Meaning relates and implies an endless chain of relationships. If you say: "I am not the self, I am the complete experience," there are a thousand pages behind that, they are there lurking. It's simpler: no meaning. I used to repeat it constantly: nothing means anything, until in my mind the meaning fell away, then your mind falls away, because your mind without meaning is nothing.

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Btw, that doesn't mean that nothing means anything, just that you want to reach a mental state where nothing means anything. Really from an infinite perspective, nothing means anything, but this is a meaning too. It's enough to be now without meaning for a while, absolute empty of the slightest meaning 

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1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

Only 5 MeO DMT supposedly allows for a non-dual experience.

That's not true.

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

Other psychedelics increase the ego.

That's also not true. Why do you think that?


God has always been in front of you, yet you are too blind to see Him.

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Duality is quite obvious. But nonduality is even more obvious. It is so powerfully obvious that it shatters the illusion of Duality.

 

Ta-Daaaa!!!   lol

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saying that there is no self is confusing and false, the same as saying there is no meaning. From an infinite perspective, there isn't ; from a finite or relative perspective, there is. Both perspectives are real. If you hit yourself with a hammer, it hurts. Calling that an illusion or unreal is trying to be psychotic without achieving it.

What you're looking for is to be able to place yourself in an infinite or absolute perspective. This isn't achieved by denying the reality of the relative perspective; it's repressive and doesn't work. You have to understand that you're passing from one perspective to another, not that one is real and the other false. If you deny the relative perspective, you achieve nothing because its reality will trap you.

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On 4/15/2025 at 0:23 PM, Yimpa said:

I'm starting a religion called All-Duality

All human rats welcomed xD

 


I AM PIG
(but also, Linktree @ joy_yimpa ;-)

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11 hours ago, Breakingthewall said:

nothing means anything

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Imma get it tattooed on my chest :D

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18 hours ago, Breakingthewall said:

 I would say that more than dissolving the self, what we need to do is dissolve the meaning. When they say the self is illusory and that you are the totality, you remain in a mental framework that you are the experience, the totality, etc. What we need to achieve is being here and now without any meaning. The experience must be absolutely empty of interpretation, of rootedness, of relationship with anything else. Meaning relates and implies an endless chain of relationships. If you say: "I am not the self, I am the complete experience," there are a thousand pages behind that, they are there lurking. It's simpler: no meaning. I used to repeat it constantly: nothing means anything, until in my mind the meaning fell away, then your mind falls away, because your mind without meaning is nothing.

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A Day Lived in No-Meaning Awareness

Wake up and remember: "I don’t know what anything, including this day, is for." (release meaning immediately)

Notice thoughts arising — and softly recognize: “This thought tries to give meaning. I release it.”

When emotions arise, instead of analyzing them, simply allow them without labeling — no story, no "why."

During conversations, listen without silently interpreting or judging — let words be just sounds.

Encounter situations (good or bad) and practice saying inside: "This means nothing. I give it to my higher self."

Let go of goals for the day — move through tasks functionally but without believing they define you.

Practice short pauses often — a breath, a glance — remembering: "Nothing I see means anything."

In moments of tension, say: "I do not understand what anything is for. I am willing to see differently."

Feel into Presence itself — awareness with no agenda — experience the emptiness as fullness.

End the day in gratitude, not for "what happened," but simply for the chance to remember meaninglessness again.

In spirit:
It’s not nihilistic ("nothing matters"); it’s pure availability to what is, without ego interpretations.
That openness lets the higher self gently fill the space with peace and true vision.

-AI

 

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What do you hope to achieve through that experience? Nondual experiences won't replace the need for the daily, balanced, concious, wise lifestyle, if your goal is to have a gracefilled, smooth, enjoyable life. Really those experiences are of no consequence whatsoever. "Total bs" is what I like to call them. 

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Imagine for a moment, dear friends, that you are Conciousness, and that you have only this one awareness - that you are at peace, and that you are. 

 

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22 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Three quarters or more of forum users have done psychedelics, or said they have. 100% of forum users suffer. Good luck trying to end suffering using psychedelics. 

That said, I love this post. It seemed a bit poetic too. Like describing the self. What it feels like to be a self. Everybody wants enlightenment and speak about awakening but you just described something very wonderful. What it's like to feel like a person. A person that feels trapped in a human body. It's wonderful to me because I sometimes feel that way. Like I don't feel separate; I feel like an individual. All I saw was Absolute perfection. The Absolute speaking. Speaking from a location, a place, limit, here, I am. 

That's why I said it seemed poetic. Like the Absolute writing about itself, with itself, by itself. It wasn't trying to be itself - in a way. It was like one describing what it was like playing a movie role. It was superb. I know I'm exaggerating a bit; but I truly felt that way reading it. 

This isn't even a post that needs advice or anything of the sort. It's one to marvel at. To see and recognize what the fucking Absolute can be. How it can deceive itself. Be anything. Reading your post, to me, was Absolutely freeing. I saw freedom's expression. Abso-fucking-lutely. Excuse my French.

IT IS ONLY ABSOLUTE FREEDOM THAT CAN FEEL TRAPPED. If it weren't Absolutely free and unlimited, it wouldn't even have the desire to feel free. It wouldn't even know it wasn't free and liberated. Your post actually made me realize freedom and liberation more than what an enlightened being can ever reveal. It revealed the true essence of what Absolute freedom, liberation and limitless actually looks like. That's what's obvious. This is awesome. 

I wonder if permanent non dual state is one of no suffering, not even physical pain. It makes sense the self could desire that state. But who knows, we have ideas of it

Very beautifully written

I reflect a lot on the self lol because it dominates my life

i like having a self honestly , being able to experience but I don’t like suffering

It is like the absolute writing about itself!

Yea it was just my free expression! Which is pretty much all I do on this forum, I don’t need any answers I’m content not knowing

Absolute freedom can appear as trapped

I mentioned this somewhere but once during sleep paralysis a voice told me reality is love. It was cool

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14 hours ago, samijiben said:

Duality is quite obvious. But nonduality is even more obvious. It is so powerfully obvious that it shatters the illusion of Duality.

 

Ta-Daaaa!!!   lol

Someone on reddit said “non duality is this experience without the doubt about it” I resonated

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3 hours ago, Salvijus said:

What do you hope to achieve through that experience? Nondual experiences won't replace the need for the daily, balanced, concious, wise lifestyle, if your goal is to have a gracefilled, smooth, enjoyable life. Really those experiences are of no consequence whatsoever. "Total bs" is what I like to call them. 

I like having a self to be honest. I just wanna escape suffering . 

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5 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I just wanna escape suffering . 

What are you suffering from?

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14 minutes ago, Nemra said:

What are you suffering from?

It’s odd i don’t talk about it anymore outside my family and doctor. Of the more “normal” things I suffer from is emptiness, dullness, apathy, anhedonia, low libido. Basically like a living zombie

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