I Hate Women

[Basman]

5 hours ago, WikiRando said:

 

The desire for sex / intimacy is always there, but a low level of development leads one to pursue it imbalanced ways.

It's about being able to meet one's needs in a healthy way. If not, that's when the desperation and bitterness comes

Which is why enlightened Buddhist only stick to molesting one boy instead of a dozen.

[WikiRando]

@Basman Firstly, you don't know if they're enlightened or not, secondly, they are clearly repressed and neglecting their needs.

If you think some mystical states or monkhood is going to automatically cure you of your neediness, that's a fantasy. 

Celibacy and asceticism is real, there schools where that sexual energy can be transmuted, but many schools just don't have the tools to help their ascetics do this. Maybe it was lost along the way, which is why they end up repressed. But all this is irrelevant to us. We are not ascetics nor should we larp or pretend to be one. 

If you're not having sex, at least rub one out, repression is equally dysfunctional, that's taking things to the opposite extreme. Most men are lacking balance, it's either chase and cry about sex like a horny dog, make it a big deal, or become repressed, create a sexual shadow and mess yourself up, there is no groundedness. 

Edited 3 hours ago by WikiRando

[meta_male]

8 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Notice how threads like these that were started by the OP as a way to dump their emotional feelings, they very rarely ever come back and answer any responses or contribute any more to the topic and it's usually the members arguing amongst themselves about the topic. 

Because too many users here use the forum as a way to socialise and vent instead of a tool for growth.

[gengar]

>10.000 years ago, if you were a male, you were hunting all day with your group, you were fit, you were socializing and at night time you had sex with a female.

Why are you assuming there weren't low value guys at that time that got nothing? If you look at documentaries following monkey tribes, it's clear there's always been a hierarchy with the men at the bottom getting nothing.

>I'm exagerating some things here but bottom line is if you are male nowadays life is not easy for you. The most basic thing such as sex is like you are trying to climb Mountain Everest.

Do you think women are also having less sex, but are just better at handling it, or is it just an increase in hypergamy? one of the two has to be true at least, or both at varying degrees, otherwise it's a logical impossibility that men are having less sex but women aren't. I'm interested in your take on it.

I used to be filled with raged to my core about it, and sometimes still am, but it's just my ego making postmortem convulsions, having realized it is totally over for me. I do feel a sense of rage still, of it being so hard for men nowadays, and the disgust that women have for average men; all propaganda induced by our hyperconsumerist, hypercompetitive society. The mistake is to think it's all womens fault. It's no ones fault; just the collective ego of society doing its thing.

It's no wonder figures like Andrew Tate rise up, simply filling a void of demand for a catalyst that allows a young man to sacrifice truth and morality to be more successful with money and women, if he's not dumb enough to disclose his mentality at least. It's like turning to the dark side of the force.

I'm glad I didn't go through with it, although I sometimes fear that if I didn't have my disabilities and crippling anxiety and brain fog, I'd be one of the most horrible men alive, indulging in unethical business, pimping and manipulating women for sex, dominating men, all to feed my ego and distract from my deep-rooted beliefs of being unlovable and unattractive. Hell, maybe I'd even be a rapist. Probably not though, But I've seen dark depths of my soul that genuinely scare me.

In that regard I'm glad God smote me with my issues, humbling my ego to degrees I've never known. My success breaking down has allowed me to hold on to my love for Truth. Getting lost in pleasure and success would have certainly driven me off that path. Although I often hear the devils voice telling me to jump off a cliff, that in the next life all will be better and I'll get everything I've ever dreamed of. The suffering and loneliness is becoming unbearable and I feel like I'm slowly but surely going mad. I don't think I'll make it here any longer; I need to get out of the city and to a remote spiritual location, out in beautiful nature; and live the rest of my days as an ascetic, renouncing all wordly pleasure. I think it's the only way to keep the Devil in the hole.

Edited 1 hour ago by gengar

[gengar]

On 4/23/2025 at 7:46 PM, Leo Gura said:

The suffering a man goes through is a blessing. It's what makes you strong.

Don't wish for the easy life. The easy life is an illusion.

Love the challenging path.

This post implies that you agree that women suffer less than men. Is this your stance?