I Hate Women

[PenguinPablo]

42 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Unless a woman is a sex addict, they're not caring about the fruits of sex. A woman likes a man, she feels something for the man, she wants to have sex with the man. A man sees a woman and it's immediate. That's hard to accomplish. He needs to do something to get it. A woman has to feel something. Feeling to have sex with a particular man doesn't come like your attraction to a skirt. It takes time and energy and a bit of reservation and whatever else that goes through her mind. 

Sorry to tell you this, but most women don't see sex like men do and aren't seeing as lots of sex for me. For us, it's a fucking challenge to even want to have sex with a man. That's why it's easier at drunken parties with booze and drugs where inhibitions are in place and regrets appear in the morning. 

What about hookup culture in bigger cities like Sex and the City?

Tbh I do see what you describe being the case with the women I have observed.

When you watch the pickup artist stuff or spend time at night clubs it gives the impression that women are highly promiscuous.

But that's an illusion as well. An extreme version of reality.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Do you have any sisters? Women close to you? 

You are looking at this through a single lense. 

You will need to consider the challenges women face, else you will be alone for a long, long time. 

[Schizophonia]

44 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Why do you want to have sex with women then. Why are you complaining about the fruits of sex and how it's plentiful for women if you feel this way and you hate women. Should be obvious to you then, by this statement, that women's needs isn't having lots of sex with strangers because we would be sexing left and right to get those needs. I

Women shouldn't have to think about much and survival because of how they're wired. That's what the masculine is wired for. Go study evolution and you'll understand this dynamic. It's precisely that women are out there thinking and hustling and trying to make ends meet why they've become masculine in their behavior and the man feel emasculated. It's very feminine to want a woman to do and complain about having to think, compete and provide. 

 

Behind this is the fear of getting fucked.

You don't want to work your ass off if you get nothing, or with difficulty and finally seeing your wife ends up cheating on you with the gardener.

[Eskilon]

That's why spirituality is essential. Once you have a few awakenings you will see how silly chasing women is. Not saying you can't enjoy them or have a good time while around them, but you won't be this needy.

The reality is that men are needy as fuck.

Edited yesterday at 10:06 PM by Eskilon

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia Woman do think about survival. Men dont do identity politics like women. Mens survival is physical and womens survival is mental gymnastics. Men use logic so they have to think the least amount. Woman unconciously break this to make mental gymnastic arguments because its their survival mechanism.

A man will be sitting logically in an empty cave with nothing in it and a woman will come in with mental gymnastics and say its not homey. The man wont know what they are talking about logically and say it dosent matter. This is the womans survival she will come in and make it look nice and smell nice and the man will like it and keep her and take care of her cause that is easy for him. He becomes to like the womans touches but the man wont do this on his own and if the woman didnt do these weird things he wouldnt like her enough to keep her.

This is ultimately the downfall of man because now he is hurt when its gone.

 

Edited yesterday at 10:15 PM by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

24 minutes ago, Hojo said:

This is ultimately the downfall of man because now he is hurt when its gone.

Are you hurt when yesterday is gone. Is one hurt when the car goes by and is out of sight and is gone. No. The downfall is not that it's gone but that it believes it was there to begin with and happening to a "him". 

[Princess Arabia]

37 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Behind this is the fear of getting fucked.

You don't want to work your ass off if you get nothing, or with difficulty and finally seeing your wife ends up cheating on you with the gardener.

Ok but one can feel fucked by losing their job, do they remain jobless because of that. 

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia The woman tricks the man out of this state with 'home' her survival. You have to lose your 'home' to awaken.

Edited yesterday at 10:48 PM by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, PenguinPablo said:

When you watch the pickup artist stuff or spend time at night clubs it gives the impression that women are highly promiscuous.

I didn't say they weren't promiscuous. This is not about promiscuity, it's that for women, most times it's not just I want to have sex and anybody will do, or if they feel horny, they'll go get dressed and go to the club because they are sure to get laid because it's easy for women.  Finding somebody to even want to have sex with that night would be the issue. For men, that part is easier. Her looks would be enough. For us it's way more complicated. That's why date drugs were invented and a drunk woman is easier to bed, now all the stuff that gets in the way isn't there. 

Bottomline is men have way more options with whom they want to have sex with than women do. That's what guys don't understand and it's not that we're holding back it's just the way it is.

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia Literally men daterape women because they cant figure out how to have sex with them. You contradict yourself so much. If men could just go to the club and get laid pick up wouldnt exist. Do women have pick up? There is an entire industry around men not knowing how to get with women probably more than a billion dollars. If they could just go to a club and pick up drunk women very easily they would. You guys go to clubs like you are going to be attacked by wild animals.

I have been date raped as a man and anyone could have fucked me. Luckily I just ripped all my clothes off and got arrested. Date rape is not being drunk. Its like 1 drink then blackout.

If woman gave it up so easy they wouldnt feel like they have to daterape them.

Edited 23 hours ago by Hojo

[Basman]

Getting sex for women is not the challenge nor as meaningful to them as it is for men. For them, the challenge is finding someone who is good for them beyond just the bedroom. It can be a real challenge to sort for a good man when nearly every man is yes to sex but not necessarily even clear on if they want a serious relationship.

If you want to understand the asymmetry of human mating then it is not sufficient to only see it from a male lens. A lot of guys seem to get bogged down in a male-centered perspective and get resentful when female behavior doesn't make sense to them in combination with their failures.

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Never_give_up said:

They say in general women are more neurotic(anxiety and depression) than men. 

I don't know if this helps, but it's the only thing that comes to my mind that men have it better (and it's a big one in my opinion but still I don't know what's better , to be a man or a woman?  I think a woman but I hope I am wrong)

I mean the first one that comes to mind for me is that most women can't safely walk around on their own in many places after dark. In general sexual assault is a massive problem women face.

They're also taken less seriously in most business/work contexts.

Much of the effort of household labour is also placed upon them, even when they're working full time.

There are plenty more, but it can be summarised quite nicely as: 

Women are viewed as precious objects, while men are viewed as disposable agents.

Men enjoy the privileges of agency and women enjoy the privileges of being seen as valuable by default. But men also suffer from being treated as disposable unless they prove their worth, and women suffer from being treated almost as though they are children, with no independent thought or competency.

Neither side is very aware of the drawbacks the other faces, they only see what the other gender has that they don't. This is the dynamic that causes almost all gender wars.

[Princess Arabia]

49 minutes ago, Hojo said:

If woman gave it up so easy they wouldnt feel like they have to daterape them.

If a "date raper" wanted to have sex with me and he didn't want to put in the energy to try, then that's why he used that drug. Another reason maybe he didn't want any resistance. A date raper is just a date raper, nothing to do with women not giving it up easy. If a woman wanted to have sex with a man, and was willing to, and she let him know, there wouldn't be a need for the drug.

Women give it up easy all the time. What you're failing to understand is that she wants to have sex with whom she wants to and will give it up easy then. It's not that women don't give it up easy, it's that it's not easy to find a man she wants to give it up to easily. Women are very easy, if they want to be. They're just more pickier in their reasons while with men, it's just who they're physically attracted to. If I'm horny, I have no reason to want to have sex, only if there's a particular someone I want to have sex with. 

[Princess Arabia]

47 minutes ago, something_else said:

I mean the first one that comes to mind for me is that most women can't safely walk around on their own in many places after dark. In general sexual assault is a massive problem women face.

They're also taken less seriously in most business/work contexts.

Much of the effort of household labour is also placed upon them, even when they're working full time.

There are plenty more, but it can be summarised quite nicely as: 

Women are viewed as precious objects, while men are viewed as disposable agents.

Men enjoy the privileges of agency and women enjoy the privileges of being seen as valuable by default. But men also suffer from being treated as disposable unless they prove their worth, and women suffer from being treated almost as though they are children, with no independent thought or competency.

Neither side is very aware of the drawbacks the other faces, they only see what the other gender has that they don't. This is the dynamic that causes almost all gender wars.

Nicely put.

[Princess Arabia]

Men put it as "getting sex"; for women, it's "having sex". Figure out why that difference is there and that'll answer (somewhat) how the sexes view sex. 

[Princess Arabia]

57 minutes ago, Basman said:

Getting sex for women is not the challenge nor as meaningful to them as it is for men. For them, the challenge is finding someone who is good for them beyond just the bedroom.

That's when she's looking for marriage or long-term. For interest in casual sex, women aren't thinking that far; all that's needed is for a particular emotion to be felt. Just as music can do that for some, it's the same way. Men's misunderstanding is thinking all women need to feel love or have some logical explanation as to why she should sleep with him. No. It's simpler than that, it's most men don't touch that emotional spot "on the spot" like women do for men with their looks. A man's best bet at getting laid is not to chase women but to attract them.

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia A date raper dosent spawn into existence. Everything you think you know about men reverse it.

Edited 22 hours ago by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Basman said:

It can be a real challenge to sort for a good man when nearly every man is yes to sex but not necessarily even clear on if they want a serious relationship.

Not all women that want casual sex is looking for serious relationship. Those are two different things for a woman. She can have casual sex too. The player might touch those emotions easier than the more serious type guy for casual sex. That's why they usually get laid more easily. Players are having sex with women who don't care for serious relationships most of the time.

[Princess Arabia]

6 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@Princess Arabia A date raper dosent spawn into existence. Everything you think you know about men reverse it.

It's OK. I don't need to reverse anything. They're not that complicated as I'm the one dealing with them, have dealt with them and will deal with them on a sexual level both personally and professionally. I'm not saying I know men what I'm saying is I'm the one dealing with them on an intimate level, unless you're gay, you're not. You can tell me about men but I can tell you what it's like to interract with them. It's like direct experience VS intellectually knowing.

[Yimpa]

6 hours ago, SQAAD said:

That's why Spartacus's story is such an inspiration for me.

Highly recommend "Be Here Now". Cancer fucked him up bad