Clarence

I Am Transgender

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18 hours ago, UnbornTao said:

Don't people adopt various roles as they see fit, like the clothes that you wear? If you are indeed meant to play a unique role, what is that determined by? Who determines that?

Who you are is unique. The unique qualities that you have makes you fit for a unique role to play in God's plan. 


Imagine for a moment, dear friends, that you are Conciousness, and that you have only this one awareness - that you are at peace, and that you are. 

 

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1 hour ago, Salvijus said:

Help me see it, if it's so. 

You are telling people how the game of life is made to be played, and that:

« the role that has been given you cannot be changed and you should honor it, that's what truly defines you. Start focusing more on your life purpose than your appearance. »

And you defend your view with a passion.

But, your vision of how the game is meant to be played is yours — perhaps also the one of people around you, but it's not universal.

I don't have the same vision as you. I believe people can change, and that they have the right to focus on whatever they want in their life. I needed to focus on my identity before focusing on my life purpose. Why should I not, if it brings me peace for the next 60 years of my life? Who are you to tell people what they should do with their life, and to think that you know better than them? This is your ego speaking.

If your heart were open, you would realize that people transitioning is about bringing more harmony and peace in their life, and reducing chaos. Isn't love about wanting peace and harmony for people?

You brought up the example of people detransitioning, but do you truly care about their suffering? Wise, loving people do. They don't use these cases to spread fear or hatred toward all transgender people, wishing that they didn't exist for their own selfish reasons.

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58 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

I wouldn't worry where it's coming from. Worry if it makes sense or not instead. 

You are literally changing your own rules along the way to suit your ego as best you can.

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15 minutes ago, Clarence said:

You are telling people how the game of life is made to be played, and that:

« the role that has been given you cannot be changed and you should honor it, that's what truly defines you. Start focusing more on your life purpose than your appearance. »

And you defend your view with a passion.

But, your vision of how the game is meant to be played is yours — perhaps also the one of people around you, but it's not universal.

I don't have the same vision as you. I believe people can change, and that they have the right to focus on whatever they want in their life. I needed to focus on my identity before focusing on my life purpose. Why should I not, if it brings me peace for the next 60 years of my life? Who are you to tell people what they should do with their life, and to think that you know better than them? This is your ego speaking.

If your heart were open, you would realize that people transitioning is about bringing more harmony and peace in their life, and reducing chaos. Isn't love about wanting peace and harmony for people?

You brought up the example of people detransitioning, but do you truly care about their suffering? Wise, loving people do. They don't use these cases to spread fear or hatred toward all transgender people, wishing that they didn't exist for their own selfish reasons.

I think you're misrepresenting what I stand for. First of all I'm not against any changes in appearance, congrats to you if it brings you happiness. All I said is follow your heart and double check if what you're pursuing is actually coming from the heart or if it's a egoic fantasy. The only reason I brought up "detransitioning" videos is because you've asked "what other reasons could there possibly be to wanting be trans". Well I gave you an answer to your own question. The answer is in those videos. 

12 minutes ago, Clarence said:

You are literally changing your own rules along the way to suit your ego as best you can.

Okay sorry, do it your way. 

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Imagine for a moment, dear friends, that you are Conciousness, and that you have only this one awareness - that you are at peace, and that you are. 

 

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@Salvijus Wasn't it clear to you, from my opening post, that my motivations come from the heart?

I honestly don't know how it isn't obvious to you.

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39 minutes ago, Clarence said:

@Salvijus Wasn't it clear to you, from my opening post, that my motivations come from the heart?

I honestly don't know how it isn't obviously to you.

Not every desire that pops into your head is the true heart's impulse. To differentiate the difference between egoic impulses and heart impulses is not an easy task. It takes a lot of vigilance. A LOT. But if you're confident you've got it right, then I won't interfere, and wish you good luck on your journey to continue following your heart 🙏

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Imagine for a moment, dear friends, that you are Conciousness, and that you have only this one awareness - that you are at peace, and that you are. 

 

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@Salvijus Glad you finally realize that your interference isn't needed.

There were many contradictions in the way you conveyed your message.

39 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Not every desire that pops into your head is the true heart's impulse. To differentiate the difference between egoic impulses and heart impulses is not an easy task. It takes a lot of vigilance. A LOT. But if you're confident you've got it right, then I won't interfere, and wish you good luck on your journey to continue following your heart 🙏

This alone, you know, was sufficient. It says it all clearly and simply, with no egoic agenda being pushed forward.

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Thank you to everyone who contributed to this thread. I'm really happy about all the positive messages that were posted.

I tried to reply to all, but I'm a slow writer and wasn’t quick enough to post all the messages I wanted to.

Still, the vibe was very positive, and I really appreciated that. So, thank you!

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30mins in. Absolutely life shattering interview about souls and transgenderism. Recently released video. Talk about synchronicity huh. 

 

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Imagine for a moment, dear friends, that you are Conciousness, and that you have only this one awareness - that you are at peace, and that you are. 

 

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1 hour ago, Salvijus said:

30mins in. Absolutely life shattering interview about souls and transgenderism. Recently released video. Talk about synchronicity huh. 

That's an insane case. It goes beyond transgenderism. Do they even consider themselves transgender? Did you specifically hear about this in the video?

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10 minutes ago, Clarence said:

That's an insane case. It goes beyond transgenderism. Do they even consider themselves transgender? Did you specifically hear about this in the video?

They don't consider themselves transgender but the video gives many insights into the topic. They touch on the transgenderism subject there a little bit. 

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Imagine for a moment, dear friends, that you are Conciousness, and that you have only this one awareness - that you are at peace, and that you are. 

 

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3 hours ago, Salvijus said:

Who you are is unique. The unique qualities that you have makes you fit for a unique role to play in God's plan. 

What do you mean by who you are, unique qualities and role, and God's plan? 

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@Salvijus Their situation is very interesting indeed. It's mind-blowing. I also gained insights on my own life experience which stem from my soul's purpose, or something along purpose those lines.

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4 minutes ago, Clarence said:

@Salvijus Their situation is very interesting indeed. It's mind-blowing. I also gained insights on my own life experience which stem from my soul's purpose, or something along purpose those lines.

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16 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:

What do you mean by who you are, unique qualities and role, and God's plan? 

The video I linked talks a bit about the soul's plan. How souls have agreements before they incarnate. It's thought provoking. 

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Imagine for a moment, dear friends, that you are Conciousness, and that you have only this one awareness - that you are at peace, and that you are. 

 

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4 hours ago, Salvijus said:

Good grief... 

To tell you the truth, I haven't read the whole thread. But it sounds like what you are saying relates to beliefs regarding how a person should show up or behave -- or, in other words, "what clothes they should wear."

The assertion here is that we don't know who we are as an entity, and everything else is secondary, up to the individual, and often flexible in various ways.

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18 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:

To tell you the truth, I haven't read the whole thread. But it sounds like what you are saying might relate to a belief of how a person should show up or behave -- or, in other words, "what clothes they should wear."

The assertion here is that we don't know who we are as an entity, and everything else is secondary, up to the individual, and flexible in many ways.

Fair enough. I edited the previous answer a bit to give more substance to it. 

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Imagine for a moment, dear friends, that you are Conciousness, and that you have only this one awareness - that you are at peace, and that you are. 

 

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8 hours ago, Salvijus said:

Okay... But how do we conclude if the premises are true or not? 

There are different approaches to determine relative and absolute truths of things.

Determining relative truth is about accurate thorough observation and insights derived from observation. Like, the Scientific Method is a good example of this. This only works with things that are actually observable.

But with absolute truth, we cannot know it as human beings. We can only experience it.

And the more valuable thing is to recognize the limits of the mind to peal away beliefs and assumptions from the reality itself. 

This enables us to subtract the mind's projections from the experience and observation of reality... which allows more room for insight and a clearer perception of reality.

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46 minutes ago, Emerald said:

There are different approaches to determine relative and absolute truths of things.

Determining relative truth is about accurate thorough observation and insights derived from observation. Like, the Scientific Method is a good example of this. This only works with things that are actually observable.

But with absolute truth, we cannot know it as human beings. We can only experience it.

And the more valuable thing is to recognize the limits of the mind to peal away beliefs and assumptions from the reality itself. 

This enables us to subtract the mind's projections from the experience and observation of reality... which allows more room for insight and a clearer perception of reality.

"To gain knowledge, add things every day. To gain wisdom, remove things every day." - Lao Tzu

You win this one. 

Until next time 

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Imagine for a moment, dear friends, that you are Conciousness, and that you have only this one awareness - that you are at peace, and that you are. 

 

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@ClarenceTHE most important question of your life, more important then soul or God or life purpose......are you getting bald? :D

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Wrong @user

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