Is nightgaming everyday sustainable/doable?

[Magnanimous]

If I do 20 approaches everyday, I'll hit 10,000 in 500 days, under two years. My intuition says my Life Purpose will be about people and I'll need to develop a world class social skill of some kind (eg leadership, charisma, charm). I'd like to finish pickup ASAP so I don't have to do it along with major LP work which I wanted to begin no later than 21. Turning 18 this year. If anyone had to game everyday it would be me.

 

So is nightgame everyday sustainable/doable?

[Leo Gura]

No, you will burn out.

Stop trying to get things done faster, rather enjoy the process and do it slow but more consistently and at higher quality. Stop rushing.

Your attitude is too mechanical and will produce worse results.

Edited Saturday at 01:25 PM by Leo Gura

[Rishabh R]

@Leo Gura How to deal with rejection ? Is stop thinking about it is better or is being hopeful again for the next opportunity better ?

[Mannyb]

Do it when you feel it.

[Peo]

46 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

How to deal with rejection ? Is stop thinking about it is better or is being hopeful again for the next opportunity better ?

Just don't care, after 100 rejections you will get used to it. At least that how it was for me. I have mostly forgotten most of the girls i have talked with. Just forget about those that rejected you and focus on next girl you talk with. These days rejection does not even enter my mind. 

[Rishabh R]

3 minutes ago, Peo said:

Just don't care, after 100 rejections you will get used to it. At least that how it was for me. I have mostly forgotten most of the girls i have talked with. Just forget about those that rejected you and focus on next girl you talk with. These days rejection does not even enter my mind. 

That's a great advice. Thanks.

[Raze]

 

Edited Saturday at 03:03 PM by Raze

[Schizophonia]

This topic has a hysterical vibe.

By symbolizing what you supposedly must become, you actually make real what it tacitly signifies in the present moment; that is, what you think of yourself at this very moment, that is, saying you're a loser; It's a trap.

You must embody your "ideal" self right now, right here, right now.
Of course, it's easier said than done, because of the ego, but oh well.

[Sugarcoat]

I feel like this could work if you’re naturally super extroverted and thrive from interactions but if you’re introverted it might be draining and difficult to sustain a good level of energy to be able to do so many good approaches without becoming like a robot just mechanically repeating yourself 

[Schizophonia]

56 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I feel like this could work if you’re naturally super extroverted and thrive from interactions but if you’re introverted it might be draining and difficult to sustain a good level of energy to be able to do so many good approaches without becoming like a robot just mechanically repeating yourself 

Once i approached a girl in my class and said, "Heyyyy, do you want to have an ICE CREAM (said the word in English but with a very caricatured French accent) with me?"

She accepted. 

Edited Saturday at 06:41 PM by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

Once i approached a girl in my class and said, "Heyyyy, do you want to have an ICE CREAM with me?"

She accepted. 

Who would say no to *french chad* I mean ice cream 

jk

Edited Saturday at 06:41 PM by Sugarcoat

[Schizophonia]

7 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Who would say no to *french chad* I mean ice cream 

 

jk

One does not prevent the other.

 

Two scoops and a banana for this pretty croatian. 

[Sugarcoat]

9 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

One does not prevent the other.

 

Two scoops and a banana for this pretty croatian. 

Right 

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

I feel like this could work if you’re naturally super extroverted and thrive from interactions but if you’re introverted it might be draining and difficult to sustain a good level of energy to be able to do so many good approaches without becoming like a robot just mechanically repeating yourself 

Even as an extrovert this would be very cumbersome btw.

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

Right 

Maybe it was too much for here lol.

Nevermind.

[Hojo]

How to handle rejection. Don't put anything in the basket to begin with. When you approach you are putting something into the basket that you wish to take back out. When rejection hits you feel like you cant take back what you put in . This leaves you with the feeling like you lost something.Don't put anything into the interaction you wont lose anything. Don't put woman on pedestal. Look at what you are doing at face value you are fishing. Are you rejected when a fish bites your line takes your worm and leaves? No you just put another one on and keep fishing. You have infinite worms and are thinking you are running out.

Edited Saturday at 07:31 PM by Hojo

[Schizophonia]

17 minutes ago, Hojo said:

How to handle rejection. Don't put anything in the basket to begin with. When you approach you are putting something into the basket that you wish to take back out. When rejection hits you feel like you cant take back what you put in . This leaves you with the feeling like you lost something.Don't put anything into the interaction you wont lose anything. Don't put woman on pedestal. Look at what you are doing at face value you are fishing. Are you rejected when a fish bites your line takes your worm and leaves? No you just put another one on and keep fishing. You have infinite worms and are thinking you are running out.

Above all, wanting is a feeling of lack.
What does it really mean to feel love, to possess? What's the difference between it and indifference?
I'm indifferent to BMWs, I'm not attached to them, but I haven't ended up owning one.

[Hojo]

@Schizophonia Its probably the most disgusting emotion you can feel and will consume you. But its important to go through so you can lose it and see what you did. To possess a woman and have her be possessed by you destroys your mind.

I had a dream of an ex the other night. A woman I possessed at some point. We were in a theater watching a movie and having sex I would leave and come back and we would do it again she just sitting there. I leave and come back she is looking at me like she loves me we start having sex I look down. Her vagina torn and I could see her vagina was just a penis device for me to use and her face a comfort of love I would use to feel like I was loved by something beautiful. I am disgusted to have turned a human into a possession.

Possessing a human is manipulation and wanting to have one is rape. We can't know the other person we can't ever know they exist we use humans sexually like toys when God is in there.

Pick up is rape.

Edited Saturday at 07:58 PM by Hojo

[Sugarcoat]

48 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Even as an extrovert this would be very cumbersome btw.

Maybe you’d need to be extreme extrovert. But thing is that such a person would already be good socially so won’t need that many approaches 

[something_else]

I’ve had a few weeks here or there where I’ve partied a fair bit, maybe almost every night. But it’s pretty hard on your sleep pattern and on your body in general.

It’s better just to make some friends and go out at the weekends to have fun with them and then maybe the occasional weeknight