Female Dating Advice

[Raze]

Just now, Rishabh R said:

This is what makes me suffer and feel like I can't get someone as a man.

Don’t do what women say women should want to attract women. It isn’t what women normally go for, which is why it needs to be stated as advice. 

[Majed]

@Raze When i made the post about being a virgin i was in a terrible depressed mood, and so i interpreted my situation based off this mood. Now i am in a better mood, i interpret my situation as very fortunate seduction wise.

[Schizophonia]

20 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Emerald That's true for like 10% of women. 90% of women are ugly, and guys find them repulsive. I know it sounds harsh but hey it ain't easier for us, as men we have to approach thousands of girls to have enough experience to deal with women. So it is hard for both, but i would say men have way more room of improvement compared to women, however most men will never know or do serious pick up, so it ain't easy for them either. 

Either you are trolling, either you have a very ridiculous and in bad faith way to cope with the real.

[Raze]

Just now, Majed said:

@Raze When i made the post about being a virgin i was in a terrible depressed mood, and so i interpreted my situation based off this mood. Now i am in a better mood, i interpret my situation as very fortunate seduction wise.

Bullshit. You are either a virgin or you aren’t. Drop the games before I report you. I am sick of the larpers on here.

[integral]

9 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Raze Men don't sleep with women who are above average, they sleep with the hottest girls. 

Nope. Try again? 😵‍💫

[Majed]

@Emerald

8 minutes ago, Majed said:

Well i guess since you think of yourself as average and you had hundreds of men being interested in you, that says that those men are weak, since they go for a woman that is average, hence making them overall unattractive. Look you ain't gonna give women the superiority in terms of dating, most women i am not attracted to, nor do i want to have sex with. I only want the hottest girls, and i think men who are experienced in pick up, think the same. It's only men who haven't attracted lots of hot girls that will go for an average woman.

 

[Rishabh R]

@Raze Thanks. I remember Leo's 3 part series in which he tells that if you ask a woman what she likes she will give the list of things which she is attracted to while in practice she would act otherwise.

But it's not worth demonising women as there is assymetry between male and female attraction.

[Emerald]

3 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Emerald Well i guess since you think of yourself as average and you had hundreds of men being interested in you, that says that those men are weak, since they go for a woman that is average, hence making them overall unattractive. Look you ain't gonna give women the superiority in terms of dating, most women i am not attracted to, nor do i want to have sex with. I only want the hottest girls, and i think men who are experienced in pick up, think the same. It's only men who haven't attracted lots of hot girls that will go for an average woman.

So, those men are weak because they were attracted to me? I think they're just heterosexual men and that that's what heterosexual men are wired up biologically to do.

I'm an average woman... and the average woman is attractive in the eyes of the average man. 

But no one is saying what you have to do. You don't have to sleep with average women.

If you want to go out and only have sex with 10s, then make merry about it.

But weren't you the one saying that you were struggling to have any women attracted to you? Seems like you're so attached to that idea that you're not open to connecting with women who would like you.

[Majed]

@Raze Actualized.org is all about deconstructing reality, including virginity being a mental and social construct. Do you think for a dog virginity exists lmao, stupid way of thinking about reality. You need to see deeper. 

[Majed]

@Emerald 

4 minutes ago, Majed said:

When i made the post about being a virgin i was in a terrible depressed mood, and so i interpreted my situation based off this mood. Now i am in a better mood, i interpret my situation as very fortunate seduction wise.

 

[Princess Arabia]

@MajedI disagree with EVERYTHING you've said in this thread. Seems like you're in Planet Zeus.

 

[Emerald]

11 minutes ago, integral said:

@Emerald I would add

Find an environment where men who share similar values to you are likely to be.

It’s unlikely the guy you’re looking for is at a bar or in a club, so that’s probably not the target location. Maybe go to a book club maybe go to yoga maybe go to meditation retreat…

Also, if you’re using online dating apps filter out men based on values and not just appearance, look for words like (spiritual) in their profile so that there’s some compatibility.

Of course this still doesn’t work very well and you’re gonna get plenty of immature men.

But most women don’t understand spiral dynamics or integrity or self development, and really don’t understand how to filter.

That's a good one too. If you can find like a context... like a book club or something like that, you can sort for guys who have similar interests.

Though I probably wouldn't use dating apps if I should end up single ever again. I need to get a sense of what the rhythm of his personality is. That gives off a lot of information.

[Majed]

@Princess Arabia I am just honest. I find most women ugly and repulsive, and i think of men who would go for them as weak, inexperienced and unattractive.

[Rishabh R]

@Emerald You can add vibe to the compatibility part.

[Emerald]

11 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

This is what makes me suffer and feel like I can't get someone as a man. 

Even though females get showered from attention right and left for them to find a meaningful connection they must sort out the attention which they don't like.

My advice on this is just to socialize with women... and people in general.

Eventually, if you make a human-to-human connection a woman will reciprocate your feelings... and things can develop from there.

Now, you can try pick-up. But I do recommend sorting for it because it's spammy attention. And there are better sources to pull from that are more intertwined in her social circle. 

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, Emerald said:

But weren't you the one saying that you were struggling to have any women attracted to you?

This is it right here. Most of these guys struggle because they're looking for only hot women and when they're not attracted to them, they claim they're having problems attracting women. 

[Rishabh R]

@Emerald Thanks.

@Princess Arabia By the way I remember that once you talked about intention. So intention to connect with a female rather than getting her is a good way to find a healthy relationship right ?

Edited Sunday at 07:53 PM by Rishabh R

[Majed]

@Princess Arabia

13 minutes ago, Majed said:

When i made the post about being a virgin i was in a terrible depressed mood, and so i interpreted my situation based off this mood. Now i am in a better mood, i interpret my situation as very fortunate seduction wise.

 

[Schizophonia]

Just now, Majed said:

@Princess Arabia

 

I'm sure that if tomorrow a nice 5/10 with a flower dress invites you to her house you will become hard as rock.

[Princess Arabia]

5 minutes ago, Majed said:

I find most women ugly and repulsive,

Maybe where you live. 

 

6 minutes ago, Majed said:

, and i think of men who would go for them as weak, inexperienced and unattractive.

I don't see the correlation.