Treat Women Like Children

[Someone here]

@Natasha Tori Maru i get a classy etiquetteical 90s vibes from you . And if you're wondering what the heck is that supposed to mean then don't worry it's a compliment 😂. 

[Clarence]

@Leo Gura Do you plan on making new videos to explain the feminine and the masculine?

And on how to build and maintain healthy, mature romantic relationships?

It's a very complex topic, and I really appreciate your understanding in this area.

[AION]

We live in an age of femininity (feminism) and the masculine perspective is being downplayed. The result is black pill and other red pill as a response. I think Leo is right about men not being taught about male/female dynamics with the result of men becoming desperate resulting in toxic masculinity. To be honest I think this suffering of men is part of the process. At the end the masculine and feminine need to find a win-win formula because currently women think they are winning and pushing their narrative on men and putting up a hissy fit when other perspectives are put forward but it is not in their best interest because at the end they will find soy boys like this who they don't want to date anyway:

4 hours ago, yetineti said:

I am extremely disappointed with the men here.

Men:

If you are right. You should’ve kept your mouths shut.

If you are wrong. You should’ve kept your mouths shut.

Make sense? Good.

And the thing is what men and women say in this thread is not even mutually exclusive. Men can still do their anima integration and still use those social-mental-emotional tactics.  In an ideal world men and women are mature and we wouldn't need to play these games but the reality is that most women are not mature. It is as preposterous as US going to Afghanistan and forcing democracy down the throats of the Afghani's. At the end man have to play with the toys that are given to them, in the same way, women have to play with the toys that are given to them.  

[Alexop]

58 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

You're just reinforcing what I said.

Implying the presence of the skirt decision related to her being assaulted.

Miss-attributed responsibility 

Do you deny that clothing does not affect the situation? Lol 

[Alexop]

dudes, in what fantasy world you live in? I see most men being even more immature than most women. I see women face the truths of life while men increasingly escape the world through gaming, porn, shitpill, men apologetic ideologies. Even most men on this forum are very immature. Look at relationships, men destroy relationships because of their immaturity in most cases.

 

 

Edited yesterday at 08:36 AM by Alexop

[NoN-RaTiOnAL]

what I think women here forget about leo is that his bias is truth, he doesnt care much about how the truth coming out of his mouth makes others feel. this makes his statements SOUND or FEEL mysogynistic or condescending or cruel or judgemental, however as a long time follower i know that when he says women are like children he is not being mean but just emphesizes a certain truth.

yeah, he might have used his words more carefully, thats a valid point because when you deliver a truth you want to balance its harshness with some gentleness and appropriate words. the same as with a friend that you want to tell him an honest opinion about his life that might hurt him, being gentle about it might make him more receptive to the message. 

Consider the same harsh truth could be said about men - they are like an autistic child aswell that cant figure out basic social dynamics and handles emotions poorly. I dont get offended by such a statement cause i see the truth in it and not take it personally. and i think women here should aswell. you do care about how you and others feel more than the truth being delivered. this conversaton is a very good demonstration of that - your certainty of leo being judgemental just based of the kind of words he used instead of his intentions just shows that so clearly. you project too much around that (that his massages are hurting and creating suffering for men.. he's never been in a long term relationship..) and accuse him of talking with certainty about a subject he is not a professional in.. arent WE all the same on that front? just forming opinions that make sense to us based on previous expereinces? dont you see you act with the same arrogance? 

PS
I know this is only my limited perspective.. this is not a valid argument... 

[yetineti]

2 hours ago, AION said:

soy boys like this who they don't want to date anyway: ‘my quote’

@AION

You’re upset because the women are on my side. 😘

Of course Leo’s right. He should embody it.

Edited yesterday at 10:25 AM by yetineti

[yetineti]

“Abusive relationships happen to irresponsible people who allow themselves to get boiled alive like frogs.”

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

This is the type of argument rape apologists make when they blame the woman for being raped.

2 hours ago, AION said:

I don't see the connection

The connection is you’re both blaming her for her actions and implying an inability to solve them as well.

This logic creates an unworkable, disempowering paradigm and is ultimately self full filling. 

And if you men believe your own words, that ‘responsibility’ lies with you and it should say:

“Abusive relationships happen when irresponsible men who allow themselves to get boiled alive like frogs.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited yesterday at 09:20 AM by yetineti

[Miguel1]

So, who here ACTUALLY has the experience & data of approaching thousands of girls?

Who here has tried to attract thousands of girls?

Who here has successfully attracted hundreds of women, if not thousands?

I have.

And I'm telling you: you either make them feel emotions or they bounce. Hard, cold, dry, and painful logical truths are the death of your dating as a man.

Of course, there are always a rare exception or two with unique differences from the norm, but we are discussing it generally here. We are discussing what actually helps and benefits guys in dating.

[Miguel1]

2 hours ago, TheEnigma said:

One of the greatest mysteries in my entire life is that I've always wondered... why is it that men and women have such a difficult time seeing eye to eye on reality? It almost always feels like we couldn't relate nor just be on each other's paths together.

Different roles & survival functions.

Ever wonder why we are not attracted to people who are very similar and close to us like family members?

Why are we so attracted to exoticness? It is nature's way of increasing the chance of survival by spreading DNA.

[yetineti]

2 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

So, who here ACTUALLY has the experience & data of approaching thousands of girls?

Who here has tried to attract thousands of girls?

Who here has successfully attracted hundreds of women, if not thousands?

I have.

Once you eat one Dorito, the whole bag is gone.

Show me the man who can eat one Dorito and I’ll take you as more credible than anyone else here.

Otherwise we’re just arguing over who can eat more Doritos.

 

 

 

[yetineti]

Men, if girls are so simple, why do you need all this data?

Sounds like you all cracked the code already 😉

Aren’t you happy going through your endless women?

[Miguel1]

@yetineti You try to be cheeky and insightful with your response, but the underlying agenda is as bright as day.

[gambler]

1 hour ago, Alexop said:

What you described there is not maturity man, it is the opposite

She is not an immature woman. She’s a stable and sharp woman. Isn’t an angry person, isn’t neurotic, isn’t impulsive, isn’t abusive, is empathetic, understanding, self-accountable, has healthy relationships with all the people she knows, etc. etc. She’s far from what BlessedLion would call a child. It’s paradoxical but when it comes to certain things she has no tolerance for it and would rather just self-deceive. But this doesn’t mean overall she isn’t extremely mature. Just imagine a very religious boomer who is overall a mature person and has incredible self awareness and emotional intelligence except when you tell him his religion is fake and you see he can’t detach and would rather self deceive. Doesn’t mean he’s an immature person. Same concept except my mom has a few other things she can’t tolerate and needs to be in fantasy land instead, like the religious in my example. 

[yetineti]

Everyone talks about evolution. Nobody mentions mating. Look into mourning doves for example.

Evolution didn’t just shape us Men to dominate and Women to submit. 

Don’t @ me about the data or trends.

Look into the evolution of mating, pairing, co-op, etc.

Maybe it applies to you, maybe it doesn’t. 

But preaching about how women are is an obvious trap.

Not because you’ll hurt their feelings.

But because you are not appreciating your own desires and the beauty of a ‘woman’s abstraction.’

 

Edited yesterday at 09:41 AM by yetineti

[yetineti]

@Miguel1

Then tell me my agenda.

No really, I’m curious. 

Tell me how much you’ve connected with thousands of women.

You were being Braggadocious; arrogant.

 

Edited yesterday at 09:56 AM by yetineti

[AION]

55 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

So, who here ACTUALLY has the experience & data of approaching thousands of girls?

Who here has tried to attract thousands of girls?

Who here has successfully attracted hundreds of women, if not thousands?

I have.

And I'm telling you: you either make them feel emotions or they bounce. Hard, cold, dry, and painful logical truths are the death of your dating as a man.

Of course, there are always a rare exception or two with unique differences from the norm, but we are discussing it generally here. We are discussing what actually helps and benefits guys in dating.

This is why autistic people fail with women. And that is why incels fail with women. It is not that they failed to integrate their anima. I know tons of scum bag **** boys who haven’t integrated their anima and they are slaying because they consciously or unconsciously understand her god is her emotions. I think saying women are children is kind of degenerating. So the truth can be said without hurting the other sex. 

[yetineti]

1 hour ago, Alexop said:

dudes, in what fantasy world you live in? I see most men being even more immature than most women. I see women face the truths of life while men increasingly escape the world through gaming, porn, shitpill, men apologetic ideologies. Even most men on this forum are very immature. Look at relationships, men destroy relationships because of their immaturity in most cases.

Yep

[yetineti]

1 minute ago, AION said:

This is why autistic people fail with women. And that is why incels fail with women. It is not that they failed to integrate their anima. I know tons of scum bag **** boys who haven’t integrated their anima and they are slaying because they consciously or unconsciously understand her god is her emotions. I think saying women are children is kind of degenerating. So the truth can be said without hurting the other sex. 

Yep

[nerdspeak]

9 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Most male abusers start out as being very charming, respectable and likeable; they usually show their true colors afterwards when it's sometimes too late and now the female has to strategize a way out.

This is true of female abusers too, although of course the risk of physical abuse is much lower. 

But most men are children too, the management and/or manipulation tactics you use with them are just slightly different. 

Edited yesterday at 10:35 AM by nerdspeak