Posted 23 hours ago 10 minutes ago, Emerald said: I've made the mistake before of choosing a partner based on purely chemistry and feelings... and it's no good. I wouldn't necessarily label this as a mistake or not good- humans are biologically wired for selfishly craving & pursuing positive emotions..99% of attraction and sex is based on this. Of course it opens the door for narcissist and master manipulators to take advantage, especially with more feminine leaning women. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago (edited) 8 minutes ago, Leo Gura said: . I just stated how stuff works. Ever consider that you might be wrong or mistaken; especially in this field where you're no expert, never lived with a woman (as far as I know, at least), never been married and usually only coach your male audience on how to get laid, not how to get, have and sustain a long-term relationship. You teach experience is king. Where is your experience in this field when it comes to REALLY GETTING TO KNOW AND UNDERSTAND WOMEN. Asking for a friend.😏😜 Edited 23 hours ago by Princess Arabia What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago 2 minutes ago, Emerald said: irresponsible frogs in boiling water. If a frog is placed in boiling water, it will jump out immediately, but if the water is heated gradually, the frog won’t notice the danger and will be boiled alive. It illustrates how people may fail to notice gradual, harmful changes until it's too late. StopWork.ai - Voice Everything Browser Extension How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago Just now, Terell Kirby said: I wouldn't necessarily label this as a mistake or not good- humans are biologically wired for selfishly craving & pursuing positive emotions..99% of attraction and sex is based on this. Of course it opens the door for narcissist and master manipulators to take advantage, especially with more feminine leaning women. I don't really view anything that happened in the past as a mistake truly.... because it's all been a learning experience and it's just part of the great curriculum that God has given me to sharpen my sword on so that I may do the great work. But it would certainly be a mistake to make that decision again... now that I know better. First time's a lesson... second time's a pattern that must be worked through. Are you struggling with self-sabotage and CONSTANTLY standing in the way of your own success? If so, and if you're looking for an experienced coach to help you discover and resolve the root of the issue, you can click this link to schedule a free discovery call with me to see if my program is a good fit for you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago Just now, integral said: If a frog is placed in boiling water, it will jump out immediately, but if the water is heated gradually, the frog won’t notice the danger and will be boiled alive. It illustrates how people may fail to notice gradual, harmful changes until it's too late. Yes, I'm aware of that phrase and what it means. Are you struggling with self-sabotage and CONSTANTLY standing in the way of your own success? If so, and if you're looking for an experienced coach to help you discover and resolve the root of the issue, you can click this link to schedule a free discovery call with me to see if my program is a good fit for you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago Dear Fabled Folk of Actualized.Org You are all Lovely, Beautiful Women and Strong, Masculine Men. Now Get Over Your Identities and Let's Get to The Fucking! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago 26 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said: You're hilarious. 😅 You too ! . "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago None of you would get a date with a lady with these tones. 😉 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago Just now, yetineti said: None of you would get a date with a lady with these tones. 😉 Alrighty then, Judge NetiBeti. Sitting on the bench with your smart, but witty remarks, cracking me up.😛 What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago 8 minutes ago, Emerald said: That's precisely what I mean. You're not actually viewing her in a truly subordinate position or like she's a child. I still kind of am. It just needs to be balanced. It's a nuanced issue. In the past, men have made mistakes both being too authoritarian and being too egalitarian. I'm interested in helping guys to correct both of those. "Finding your reason can be so deceiving, a subliminal place. I will not break, 'cause I've been riding the curves of these infinity words and so I'll be on my way. I will not stay. And it goes On and On, On and On" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago Emerald I think you need to relax a little bit and stop playing Tom & Jerry with Leo. . "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago @Someone here rule #1 never tell a woman to relax lol "There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so." Shakespeare https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCqtX3EPGsnmWjK76m5Vpbw Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago (edited) 20 minutes ago, Terell Kirby said: I wouldn't necessarily label this as a mistake or not good- humans are biologically wired for selfishly craving & pursuing positive emotions..99% of attraction and sex is based on this. Of course it opens the door for narcissist and master manipulators to take advantage, especially with more feminine leaning women. It's not necessarily a positive thing when we follow our sexual instincts and immature cravings for spontaneous sexual desires. Women are especially prone to the negative aspects of these as we fall in love more easily based on emotions and feelings rather than what's in our best interest. We need to stop, look, discern and think more in this field rather than just going with feelings and that comes with maturity and experience to realize the difference. It's hard, but can be learnt. That's why I call it a lesson. You're right, though about the high percentage, but it doesn't usually turn out well in the end for long-term. Edited 23 hours ago by Princess Arabia What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago 12 minutes ago, Someone here said: Emerald I think you need to relax a little bit and stop playing Tom & Jerry with Leo. . There you go. Always tryna silence the woman. This ain't the middle east. This the internet. What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago 6 minutes ago, MsNobody said: @Someone here rule #1 never tell a woman to relax lol We all need to relax. maybe she needs getting a massage etc? Simple fun things like that can be big feeling game changers very outta nowhere . She has been roasting everyone on this thread it made me jealous i want to roast people on the internet like her .she’d flip anyone’s life inside out. "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago (edited) 35 minutes ago, Emerald said: You said that people in abusive relationship are irresponsible frogs in boiling water. Can't you be honest and admit that that's a judgment? No. I stand by my statement. It's harsh but truthful. Which is exactly the kinda thing women dislike. Edited 23 hours ago by Leo Gura You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago 9 minutes ago, MsNobody said: @Someone here rule #1 never tell a woman to relax lol Tell a man to relax, he takes the opportunity to ask for a foot massage. Tell a woman to relax, she massages you with her mouth. What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago (edited) 37 minutes ago, Emerald said: victim blaming. He's talking about taking 100% responsibility for your life. Which is a core self development concept. Regardless of how you got yourself into the mess of an abusive relationship which was likely not your fault it is now your responsibility to get yourself out of it. If you are ignorant and don't understand your own mechanisms that are keeping you in that relationship or if you don't even recognize that you're in abusive relationship these are all aspects of your own lack of self-awareness and development. None of this is "your fault", none of this is "blame", it's just what it is. your lack of development hit reality in a way where you got hurt. Like you said you learn from your mistakes which is responsibility and you didn't make that mistake again. Edited 23 hours ago by integral StopWork.ai - Voice Everything Browser Extension How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago 1 minute ago, Leo Gura said: No. I stand by my statement. Still a judgement you stand by. Smart of you to elude the question. What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted 23 hours ago @Someone here yes we all need to relax. You go first I don’t see her roasting anyone, she has been extremely respectful and quite logical for a woman. "There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so." Shakespeare https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCqtX3EPGsnmWjK76m5Vpbw Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
