The value gap: are you a liability for the men and women in your life?

[LordFall]

I find it best to reduce dating mostly down to economics, the term being defined as Alfred Marshall beautifully puts it:

"Economics is a study of man in the ordinary business of life. It enquires how he gets his income and how he uses it. Thus, it is on the one side, the study of wealth and on the other and more important side, a part of the study of man."

We all have 24 hours in the day and how we use that define over periods of time defines how much of an asset we end up being to the women and men in our lives. Life is hard and at the end of the day everyone but especially valuable people can't afford to have useless people in their lives. Which most men are.

What does it mean to be a liability? It means that it would be better for me not to spend time with you. One time might not make a difference but if we spent 6 months, my life would be significantly worse as a result.

Think about other men that you've seen and some of them literally if you spend 180 days in a row(6 months) you would end up broke, homeless or in jail because they operate in a downward spiral that will inevitably drag you down.

Some men are quite the contrary and if you spent 6 months with them you would end up starting a new business, making a lot of money, travelling the world, hosting cool events, meeting the top women in your city, etc.

I've been blessed to meet some men that did that for me. Introduced me to some of the hottest women I've ever met, got me laid with some of them, started businesses with me, got me to speak at events with them, etc.

Some other people I ended up doing drugs with, fucking around in the street being degenerates, questioning the point of life, wasting all my money on nonsense, etc.

This is just men by the way. I'm not looking for you to impregnate me and for us to raise our heirs together. Do you understand that the stakes would be even higher in that regard? Why do you think women hate low value/beta/blue pill men? Because they are liability and are dangerous to them and their children.

Take a few hours and look through the relationship advice/purple pill/antiwork/collapse and other mainstream subreddits and see the stories women report living with and raising kids with those men. You'll throw up and hopefully be inspired that you're on the right path.

I've seen:

1) Men with multiple children living with their wives and his own parents because they don't have an income complaining that their wife won't let them play enough video games and stresses them out.

2) Men getting into heated debates and making posts way longer than this one on why it's impossible for them to make it and they can't start a business/have a good career and you're a piece of shit supporting a rigged system if you offer them constructive advice. Okay bro.

3) Men gaslighting women that they're trying to control them when they're broke and doing drugs to escape from their shitty life.

4) Men losing their jobs and having a woman provide for them and raising their kids and doing household chores while they don't do much and just play video games.

I could go on and on but you get the point. I sympathize with these men but I do not empathize with them. Life is hard and our job is to deal with it and provide for our society and women. The system is not rigged, we build the system. You can now watch a free 5 hour course on selling AI services for FREE on youtube, you don't need a private Ivy league college to become a top performer. Whenever I tell these guys this advice they never take it though.

I have myself dealt with mental blocks but through trying to help other men dealing with theirs I've lost all empathy for them. I've had good friends that I literally tried teaching how to film content and invite to events with MODELS tell me I'm being a dick and being rude. I've had guys that I tried to mentor and help build cashflow out of nothing try to backstab me and take my shit.

Most men are a liability and if you hold liabilities you end up broke and miserable in a good scenario and probably even worse. Women get that subconsciously and thus why they stay the fuck away from losers and more power to them otherwise our society would've collapsed a long time ago.

Become an asset for yourself and others otherwise good luck brother, you'll need it as well as divine intervention/AI utopia otherwise you're fucked.

NOTE: This is an individualistic stage orange critique of men, not a collectivist prescription for society. I made one post for my suggestions for humanity as a whole that is more Stage Yellow in the life purpose subforum. 

[enchanted]

Yes we need to serve the other. 

We need to focus on keeping our partners happy to have satisfying relationships