Looking for band mates or to create a duo

[Tboy]

I've been working on living my life purpose for a while now (which is centred around music and comedy video content but to a lesser extent) and relatively recently I've had a big realisation that my problem is that I've been trying to do this all by myself when my 2nd top value is connection. I've done a lot of different music projects as small bets to try and work out what my life purpose is in the music umbrella and now I realise I should try and make a band or at least a duo, every small bet so far has just been me making and producing everything myself.

I wish I could do it all by myself like Leo does his but If I'm honest with myself that isn't my authentic desire. It's kind of hard though because I have to find the right business partner(s) now and I do have to rely on others.

This is a call to anyone else who has a similar purpose to me and is dead serious about truly living and actualizing it. I'm 29 and will make this happen or die trying. I've got myself to a much more grounded place in the past couple of years, with daily satisfaction meditation, trauma healing exercises as habits and a weekly journal reflecting on my week. Also doing psychedelics and did a retreat recently. (+ have complete the life purpose course)

I'm a music nerd and listen to lot of different stuff but right now I'm trying to make music sort of like those lo-fi indie artists who were categorised as bedroom pop a few years ago. So people like Clairo, MICHELLE, Jakob Ogawa etc. I listen to a lot of hip hop, R&B and Jazz as well so those styles come out in my music naturally too. The good thing about the bedroom pop type music is that it can include other genres fairly seamlessly, I find, its not as rigid. You can move into a boom bap hip hop beat or pop song or just a straight indie rock song quite easily. This is what I'm making now but I would want our music to evolve into something different, am also open to making something different now as well if we both like it.

I wanna make stuff in the same room as someone, bounce off each other rather than on the Internet so Ideally you live in London too but if we're very compatible and it's an online thing its not the end of the world.

 

One of my main concerns is finding a long-term business partner. I do a lot of work on myself and I want to find someone who is ideally serious about healing themselves as well. Most bands seem to break up because people have all sorts of psychological issues, addictions etc. and aren't able to have conscious communication and recognize egoic patterns that are hurting others. I want at least one other core member of my band to be aware of this stuff and as I said working on healing. 

 

Once again, calling all people who wanna make it happen, ideally we make a duo but a band would be cool too.

 

I will keep reposting this

[Yimpa]

Perhaps @ivankiss would be interested in collaborating or has referrals for you:

 

[Tboy]

13 hours ago, Yimpa said:

Perhaps @ivankiss would be interested in collaborating or has referrals for you:

 

ah thank you!