Social Circle 101

[LordFall]

Someone added me on Instagram and asked me social circle questions and I figured I'd make a post about it since that's been my area of focused for the past 5 years.

Social Circle game is one of the most powerful way to gain value as a man and meet women because it recreates the original tribal/communal dating strategy but on your own terms. 

You're in no doubt in many various social circles already or possibly just friend groups(I define social circle as group where all the members gain transactional value from eachother unlike a friendgroup where a lot of times it's actually negative sum) but you're probably at the effect and not at the cause of them.

The most powerful type of social circle is one that has some type of professional/business component to it because it can then tie into an overall lifestyle design strategy and combine business and pleasure unlike let's say an AI engineer that can make $30k/month WFH and not know a single woman. 

The goal of this social circle will be to create mutually beneficial activites that you host on your own turff(notice how a nightclub is a private venue owned by a group of men that charge you for entry, and for drinks and for bottle service for the privilege of courting the women they assemble) and to include that as a foundation of your dating and social life. 

The main leverage point of this social circle is to position you as a leader in a group of people(and of course attractive women) so that you're in a better position to hit on them without being gatekept, other guys having higher status than you or HR terminating your source of income. 

The second leverage point is to make female teammates from your social circle. These are women with which you have goals in common that you can transactionally help you achieve. This can be you going to events together and them getting you status/access and you helping them make connections, can be you supporting their projects they have as their own girlfriends tend to be lacking in that type of support, etc. Good example of this is Dan Bilzerian has a model manager named Masha Diduk who recruits models for his company Ignite and saves him from having to manually DM all the girls and who's probably gotten him laid hundreds of time. 

Myself I am a photographer that has hosted photoshoots with many models(shoutout to Luke Krogh and Michael Sartain for putting me up to this) and am now transitioning into operating my own media/modelling agency. 

Other examples that can work wonders for this can be a run club, entrepreneur club, investing group, college parties, parties in general, group travel, book clubs, etc.

The key to this is to not fake it til you make it. You must create an actual group that offers genuine value to people and not try to pull girls on day 2 before anything of substance has been created. Think of the reaping too early before you've sowed enough and you've beared fruits.

I'll write another post or update this one with Social Circle 102 on how to find a lot of women to invite to your social circle. In 2020 I moved to downtown Toronto and had the chance to live with and work with a few club promoters and learned their secrets. The teaser I'll give is it's mostly like sales.