Antor8188

Good looking guys getting rejected at clubs

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@Leo Gura if average lookin guy like me gets rejected OK understandable but I've even seen decent lookin guys 7/10 getting brutally rejected told to f off. I mean women don't wanna get approached at all at clubs seeing them getting rejected made me less motivated I was like if this dude gets told to f off I have no chance. 

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This should actually motivate you. It means that looks aren't the thing determining factor in whether you get rejected or not. It's often more about your vibe.

I'm pretty good looking, to the point where I'll get approached first in clubs a fair bit. Yet still probably 80%+ of the time, if I approach first it's a harsh rejection. 

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1 hour ago, Antor8188 said:

I mean women don't wanna get approached at all at clubs

That's where single girls go in hopes a high value man approaches them.

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I've been openly hit here and there on by 8/10s and rejected by average women.

That doesn't mean much.

Edited by Schizophonia

Nothing will prevent Willy.

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@meta_male @Antor8188

If your Oedipus complex has gone badly (very present and often authoritarian mother, bad relationship with the father then father substitutes (teachers, friends...)), you will be tempted to ruminate and seek to demonstrate the proof that you are useless, of the vanity of your existence in general, to finally be able to recover your power (=phallic position) inhibited by the unconscious, repressed incestuous temptation.

You have to learn to be phallic; And that translates into a querulous masculine energy that resembles a god syndrome.

Edited by Schizophonia

Nothing will prevent Willy.

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It means looks is not all that matters. Sometimes girls just don’t like getting hit on they wanna get to know a guy through other means like organically through social circle the very act of getting hit on can be tad uncomfortable I think 

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8 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

It means looks is not all that matters. Sometimes girls just don’t like getting hit on they wanna get to know a guy through other means like organically through social circle the very act of getting hit on can be tad uncomfortable I think 

True. Sometimes they just go out with the girls for the girls. Most men are more focused on the other sex which can be a turn off if she can feel the neediness. 


Wanderer who has become king 

 

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1 minute ago, AION said:

True. Sometimes they just go out with the girls for the girls. Most men are more focused on the other sex which can be a turn off if she can feel the neediness. 

Yea exactly. She might not be in the mood for flirtatiousness with a stranger, as you said she’s out with the girls for the girls. So sometimes it’s not about the guy, the guy can be decent and she can still reject

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11 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Sometimes girls just don’t like getting hit on they wanna get to know a guy through other means like organically

If I do that, I'll be found boring and the girl will run away.

Unless she's a very hypomanic girl, because they tend to like stoic men.


Nothing will prevent Willy.

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1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

If I do that, I'll be found boring and the girl will run away.

Unless she's a very hypomanic girl, because they tend to like stoic men.

What was your interpretation of me writing “organically” like you and your chemistry talk?😹

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3 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

What was your interpretation of me writing “organically” like you and your chemistry talk?😹

Lol, I just thought it might mean I interpreted organic as "I prefer to meet men by touching them/making love", a bit like bonobos.

 

Sometimes I imagine if we were like cats and in the middle of class in high school there were grooming poses.
Imagine licking your friend to groom her/him.

 

What am I talking about 

 

Edited by Schizophonia

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47 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Lol, I just thought it might mean I interpreted organic as "I prefer to meet men by touching them/making love", a bit like bonobos.

 

Sometimes I imagine if we were like cats and in the middle of class in high school there were grooming poses.
Imagine licking your friend to groom her/her.

 

What am I talking about 

 

Yea that’s not what I meant😹

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Women will deny the good looking man in order to save face for themselves or the group.

Edited by Hojo

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2 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

Yea that’s not what I meant😹

Too bad 

Jk.

Edited by Schizophonia

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1 hour ago, Hojo said:

Women will deny the good looking man in order to save face for themselves or the group.

What do you mean ?


Nothing will prevent Willy.

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Looks are not enough for most women unless you're dealing with someone really thirsty like a high schooler.

Someone with better looks than you deals with the same problems as you just to a lesser extent, It's not so black and white.

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19 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

Looks are not enough for most women unless you're dealing with someone really thirsty like a high schooler.

Someone with better looks than you deals with the same problems as you just to a lesser extent, It's not so black and white.

Yes of course, women also look for intelligence, humor, kindness, money etc.
Just like men actually, with a different order of priority.

 

 

Edited by Schizophonia

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@Schizophonia if a 10 came up to you at the bar severly confident and determined to sleep with you you would think its a prank. If it happens to a woman its an existential crisis she is not ready to handle and deny to save herself any humiliation.

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Just now, Hojo said:

@Schizophonia if a 10 came up to you at the bar severly confident and determined to sleep with you you would think its a prank. If it happens to a woman its an existential crisis she is not ready to handle and deny to save herself any humiliation.

You’re twisted.


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33 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Yes of course, women also look for intelligence, humor, kindness, money etc.
Just like men actually, with a different order of priority.

I don't like to think about exhibiting some fake virtuous qualities, girl attraction is directly correlated with how much you go out with your friends and how much fun you have with them, that's pretty much how every generation got laid, from the short bald ones to the ultra chads.

With friends there also comes status, which is like gasoline to the fire of attraction.

Status and friends are old-school ways that got everyone laid. All this provided you look at least average, I don't know how bad it might be for the worst-looking guys.

That's what I think at least, I'm not trying to convince anybody, It's just my experience.

Edited by MarkKol

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