Best sex you've ever had?

[Schizophonia]

27 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Damn you really admitted to one of your shadows. I’m confused so it was a lie.

Yes

27 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Cuddling and kissing sounds nice btw 

I mean, it was a hug and a smack 😂

21 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Doesn’t sound very virgin of you 

Don't make me reveal my search history 🫨

11 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

I don't understand? 

You have to stick a 0.5ml needleless syringe up your anus.
That was already complicated, so I can't imagine what it's like to get fucked in the ass.

11 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

I've never done DMT or psychedelics besides shrooms

Are you calling me gay lol? 

Admit the joke is suspect.
I know I'm attractive  but no one's going to touch my rectum.

11 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

Yeah It was when I actually went clubbing

Ok

11 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

That's what I thought as well, but doggy is kinda shitty because you don't see her face and there's no eye contact, you can't even see if she's enjoying it. 

I'm actually apprehensive about eye contact because I don't want to be seen looking ugly.
My partner i doesn't mind, quite the opposite, but I intuitively fear looking like an idiot and that it might make her lose interest, or even disgust her.

 

[MarkKol]

4 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Admit the joke is suspect.
I know I'm attractive  but no one's going to touch my rectum.

I thought you were bi

5 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I'm actually apprehensive about eye contact because I don't want to be seen looking ugly.
My partner i doesn't mind, quite the opposite, but I intuitively fear looking like an idiot and that it might make her lose interest, or even disgust her.

Idk, acting stupid in a relationship is part of the chemistry, it's what creates very fun times.

I can't think of a single example where you disgust a girl out of a relationship by doing something stupid and funny

[Nilsi]

Of course, being with a new woman you just picked up in a club or wherever is hot and gives a big novelty kick. But the best sex is still with someone you deeply love, know, and trust.

Even then, you can have really dirty and rough sex with a long-term partner, of course - but the best is passionate and loving. And that’s the best kind of sex I’ve ever had. Though, admittedly, getting to that level of intimacy is hard, and I usually end up flaking before I ever get there with anyone.

Also, I’m pretty interested in BDSM and some really rough shit, but I haven’t really had much of an opportunity - or, to be honest, the balls- to fully live those fantasies out. I think there’s a lot of profound and sublime experiences to be had there.

[Schizophonia]

20 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

I thought you were bi

Why ?

I'm an eternally curious person, it's my vice, so there are certain profiles of men who are not very androgenous that I could kiss "to see," lol, but I'll probably never have sex, even less as bottom.

I have photos of myself on this forum, but I'm clean-shaven and have a polished face; Otherwise, I have a prickly beard and i dont look particularly neotenic.

If your anima is regularly put into denial, it may seek an external animus, which can lead to homosexual behavior because women "don't seem enough," or some strange logic of the sort. 🤔

 

tldr : You're going to have to buy me enough alcohol 😂

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Idk, acting stupid in a relationship is part of the chemistry, it's what creates very fun times.

I can't think of a single example where you disgust a girl out of a relationship by doing something stupid and funny

Yes.
It's just a reflection of my stupid neurotic prejudices.

Edited 19 hours ago by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

5 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

BDSM

Seems awfull. 

[Nilsi]

16 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Seems awfull. 

Seems hot as fuck.

Read some Georges Bataille!  

Edited 19 hours ago by Nilsi

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, Nilsi said:

Seems hot as fuck.

Read some Bataille!  

Good if it suits you lol.

But I don't want to whip, punish, call my girlfriend a "little slut" or stuff like that; Unless it really pleases her, but still...
It's not me; What attracts me is being directive but protective.

[Nilsi]

2 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Good if it suits you lol.

But I don't want to whip, punish, call my girlfriend a "little slut" or stuff like that; Unless it really pleases her, but still...
It's not me; What attracts me is being directive but protective.

Lol, I’ve called my girlfriends "little slut" all the time - that’s pretty tame. But I think there’s something profound in pushing each other’s limits, physically and psychologically, in such a primal way. It’s like entering a sublime altered state of consciousness together, breaking out of the psychologically constructed framework of what’s considered civilized.

This should interest you as a Lacanian, too. That would be a real encounter with the Real - where the Big Other completely collapses. A controlled pathway into insanity.

[Sincerity]

I had my first sex with my current girlfriend. We've been in the relationship for over a year, living together for 8 months.

Each month we're having the best sex we ever had. It's amazing, really. Discovering the ever deeper meanings of masculinity and femininity together.

[Nilsi]

7 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

Lol, I’ve called my girlfriends "little slut" all the time - that’s pretty tame. But I think there’s something profound in pushing each other’s limits, physically and psychologically, in such a primal way. It’s like entering a sublime altered state of consciousness together, breaking out of the psychologically constructed framework of what’s considered civilized.

This should interest you as a Lacanian, too. That would be a real encounter with the Real - where the Big Other completely collapses. A controlled pathway into insanity.

This track always gives me inclinations of what something like this would feel like - even though it's about femdom, which isn’t really my kink. But I guess I’m cool with BDSM going both ways, and even the whole man-woman/master-slave dialectic dissolving into some kind of orgiastic egalitarian ecstasy.

Edited 19 hours ago by Nilsi

[Schizophonia]

10 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

Lol, I’ve called my girlfriends "little slut" all the time - that’s pretty tame. But I think there’s something profound in pushing each other’s limits, physically and psychologically, in such a primal way. It’s like entering a sublime altered state of consciousness together, breaking out of the psychologically constructed framework of what’s considered civilized.

This should interest you as a Lacanian, too. That would be a real encounter with the Real - where the Big Other completely collapses. A controlled pathway into insanity.

 

I totally understand what you mean, but I don't really find that in my sexuality.

It's more something I find in violence; Like i understand the incredible pleasure a person can get from going crazy and killing the entire neighborhood with a shotgun while dressed as Santa Claus.

I will never do that obviously, I'm just saying in case lmao.

10 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

This track always gives me inclinations of what something like this would feel like - even though it's about femdom, which isn’t really my kink. But I guess I’m cool with BDSM going both ways, and even the whole man-woman/master-slave dialectic dissolving into some kind of orgiastic egalitarian ecstasy.

I don't support BDSM in general, I see no interest in it; I'm very vanilla.

I just think I have a little trouble getting excited and enjoying myself, without it being a handicap, because I have trouble knowing how to "enjoy the other," knowing what to do with it.
Like the path between representing the other and enjoying myself—there's ignorance there; If what i said makes sense.

[Schizophonia]

17 minutes ago, Sincerity said:

I had my first sex with my current girlfriend. We've been in the relationship for over a year, living together for 8 months.

Each month we're having the best sex we ever had. It's amazing, really. Discovering the ever deeper meanings of masculinity and femininity together.

It's cool.

[Basman]

2 hours ago, MarkKol said:

I lost my virginity at 20, twice with one girl and once with the second.

So you lost your virginity thrice? Are you like a cat that has nine virginities.

[Nilsi]

10 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

 

I totally understand what you mean, but I don't really find that in my sexuality.

It's more something I find in violence; Like i understand the incredible pleasure a person can get from going crazy and killing the entire neighborhood with a shotgun while dressed as Santa Claus.

I will never do that obviously, I'm just saying in case lmao.

I don't support BDSM in general, I see no interest in it; I'm very vanilla.

I just think I have a little trouble getting excited and enjoying myself, without it being a handicap, because I have trouble knowing how to "enjoy the other," knowing what to do with it.
Like the path between representing the other and enjoying myself—there's ignorance there; If what i said makes sense.

You're still young. It makes sense to first get comfortable with intimacy before diving into some crazy transgressive territory.

I’m still a bit too vanilla for this myself - I need a lot more experience, and obviously the right partner, to act out such extreme fantasies.

But I’m really turned on by the idea of extreme sex where all boundaries between self and other - and, of course, the Big Other - completely collapse into this sublime ecstasy that can’t be contained by the structures of human psychology or institutions anymore.

And I think radical sexual transgression, which is really what I mean when I say BDSM, is the pathway there. Maybe that's not the right terminology though, because implicit in BDSM is still a symbolic structure with negotiated rules and designated roles, which is precisely what I want to escape. 

Edited 19 hours ago by Nilsi

[Nilsi]

18 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

It's more something I find in violence; Like i understand the incredible pleasure a person can get from going crazy and killing the entire neighborhood with a shotgun while dressed as Santa Claus.

I also find that perversely fascinating, but obviously, I don’t want the repercussions of something like this.

I guess sex is a good way to experience temporary dissolution - one that doesn’t leave your life, or the lives of innocent people, in shambles once you inevitably come down from the high.

Also, you know, you need to get very fucking aroused to enter the mindspace of even wanting to transgress such fundamental taboos, and sex offers this naturally (as do hard drugs, including psychedelics).

You must be seriously fucked in the head to be able to hype yourself up into committing a mass shooting.

Edited 18 hours ago by Nilsi

[Hojo]

The woman give me blowjob then vomit on my penis and then apologized. It woke a disturbing fetish within me. I didnt even know that could happen. Massive karma.

Edited 18 hours ago by Hojo

[Schizophonia]

23 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

I also find that perversely fascinating, but obviously, I don’t want the repercussions of something like this.

 

You must be seriously fucked in the head to be able to hype yourself up into committing a mass shooting.

I assume most of mass shooters are psychotics.

[LifeEnjoyer]

I nutted on her back and licked it off her

Fr tho the best sex I’ve ever had was with the same girl and I had Taken ayahuasca Beforehand. It was like pure primal fucking

Edited 18 hours ago by LifeEnjoyer

[MarkKol]

1 hour ago, Basman said:

So you lost your virginity thrice? Are you like a cat that has nine virginities.

What I meant was that I was a virgin until 20, and then that year I had sex 3 times likely because I started drinking and clubbing for the first time in my life.

We're clearly beyond this thread getting locked with us admitting our worst crimes, the best part about sex is just the smell, It's the ignition that starts the nitric oxide engine  The sweat, breath, armpits!, hair smell, that's where all the juice is boys.

[ExploringReality]

Best sex I had was with a Mexican girl, we had sex for an hour very passionately and aggressively with candles from bath n body works, sex songs. We were dripping sweat and cuddled afterwards naked. We stayed up till 3am rubbing each other sensually. We woke up laughing and kissing.

 

Edited 17 hours ago by ExploringReality