How many girlfriends to get before marriage?

[Moon]

14 hours ago, integral said:

Date a girl for at least five years before getting married to her.

Unnecessary imo

If you have the experience and know exactly what you want then you won’t need this long. 

[Twentyfirst]

14 hours ago, integral said:

Date a girl for at least five years before getting married to her.

What if at the end of the 5 years you decide not to marry her?

You just waste her youth and fertility years?

[integral]

13 minutes ago, Twentyfirst said:

What if at the end of the 5 years you decide not to marry her?

You just waste her youth and fertility years?

If the relationship is going to last then waiting 5 years is not a problem.

Besides that It will likely end before 5 years, it's a trade-off you can either wait for the right partner or Gamble and start a family Young. 

The probability of you finding someone who your compatible with and you correctly identifying them as a healthy long term partner when you yourself are not healthy is near zero.

You attract Who You Are.

The problem is you have to grow up and mature as a person before you could even identify another quality person to marry.

@Moon the advice I gave was to a 20-year-old virgin with no experience thinking he could just have sex with random hookups and that's going to prepare him for a relationship. Or that he has the ability to identify long-term partners.

The only strategy for this guy is to get into a relationship and wait and that's going to be the test to see if this relationship is sustainable long-term and healthy.

He has no other way to identify if a relationship is sustainable long-term, he doesn't have that intelligence built yet.

Edited 21 hours ago by integral

[LifeEnjoyer]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Follow the way of Bin Laden.

6 wives.

I’m going for Chinese emperor vibes. 6 side girls and 1 main

 

[UnbornTao]

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[Twentyfirst]

1 hour ago, integral said:

If the relationship is going to last then waiting 5 years is not a problem.

Besides that It will likely end before 5 years, it's a trade-off you can either wait for the right partner or Gamble and start a family Young. 

The probability of you finding someone who your compatible with and you correctly identifying them as a healthy long term partner when you yourself are not healthy is near zero.

You attract Who You Are.

The problem is you have to grow up and mature as a person before you could even identify another quality person to marry.

@Moon the advice I gave was to a 20-year-old virgin with no experience thinking he could just have sex with random hookups and that's going to prepare him for a relationship. Or that he has the ability to identify long-term partners.

The only strategy for this guy is to get into a relationship and wait and that's going to be the test to see if this relationship is sustainable long-term and healthy.

He has no other way to identify if a relationship is sustainable long-term, he doesn't have that intelligence built yet.

I think the people who game and start a family young are much happier than those who wait for perfect circumstances which may not come and if they do it's already pretty late