How to escape my abusers (complex situation)?

[Never_give_up]

I (30 male) want to escape my abusers. I am thinking of going to another country that is in the EU like I am in a country in the EU.

Here is the problem, when I went my abusers to the district attorney 5 years ago, the district attorney just didn't care of the abuse, said to me ''you have to learn respect'' and put me in psych ward(after talking secretively with my abusers). My country is so backwards so generally you can't be a victim if you are an adult child.

So I am thinking of going to France, I am from Greece, I just started to learn the language. But I am scared they will trace me with the help of authorities (if authorities didn't help back then but further abused me, why they won't do it again?) . They will find where I live and start abusing me and stalking me and screaming and hiting me again as they always do.

 

Why I haven't left all those years? because I was scared that they are going to destroy me. I am still scared but I won't live this miserable life any longer even if they succeed destroying me. I am on welfare for psychological anxienty (that was caused by my abusers) but in 1,5 years it stops and I won't be given welfare any longer cause I no longer have anxienty (although I have anger living with my abusers). How do I know that they won't use this against me? ''he was on welfare so he can't take care of himself he is danger to himself, put him in ward'' or ''he has asperger put him in ward'' (they diagnosed me with asperger I doubt I have it but maybe I do) or ''he was in hospital in the past, that means he is unstable'' (although the authorities, my abusers(that poisoned cats among other things), and the psychiatrists were the unstable ones, I remember the main psychiatrist in particular that told me ''we all beat our children, it's normal'' ). 

How do I know it won't happen also in France? How do I fight this? Will I be able to do it or I am stuck to live this hell in this lifetime?

I think going to France will be  my freedom but that doesn't mean they won't actually trace me. Anyway, any thoughts? Also any site I can write this for additional help and venting?

[Raze]

Call a French abuse hotline 

[ted73104]

How were you brought to the district attorney in the first place? Could you let us know what happened between you and your so-called abusers?

[shree]

On 8.3.2025 at 11:00 PM, Raze said:

Call a French abuse hotline 

No French person in this world speaks English. 😆

 

@Never_give_up

You've shared a lot about your fears..

Would you be open to sharing more about your background? What happened?

Edited Monday at 10:35 AM by shree

[Schizophonia]

11 hours ago, shree said:

No French person in this world speaks English. 😆

You're jealous of our sexy accent. 

Edited Monday at 06:22 PM by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

Everything you write is weird, are you sure you don't suffer from schizophrenia or something like that? 

It really sounds like something someone with untreated psychosis might say, even in the construction of the sentences.