An ex mod abused me.

[Rishabh R]

NoSelfSelf  abused me few months ago.

Here is the screenshot of whole conversation. I once started talking to him about game so that he could help me. However, regarding his approach to game it felt like narcissism.

Thanks.

 

[Yimpa]

This makes my blood boil. 

But also, why does he poo? Is he claiming that he’s full of shit?

Do not take it personally.

[Yimpa]

I POOOOOO!

[Schizophonia]

You are too fragile, and it is quite depraved to take advantage of someone not being around anymore to get some attention by crying with the wolves.

As for the game, I don't know what its approach is, but for me you have to see yourself as an algorithmic function of love.
So you will offer you to women; The whole more or less conscious game consists of grasping the insecurities of women and coming as a "corrector" in different ways. Humor is effective with women precisely because it is affirming out loud (and taking responsibility) a reality that the woman does not assume.

Of course in reality a relationship is not completely split like that, but it is generally in this sense.

Then well, there are girls who are incompatible with your algorithm, neutral women, and compatible women; It's up to you.

There's no reason to be afraid, most girls are nice, or at least avoid making waves; And what do you care about being rejected, you've probably experienced much worse things; We don't care.

Edited Wednesday at 12:40 PM by Schizophonia

[Ulax]

35 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

You are too fragile, and it is quite depraved to take advantage of someone not being around anymore to get some attention by crying with the wolves.

Depraved? It’s not depraved.

The dude has every right to protest against this sort of behaviour from an only recently demoted mod

[Rishabh R]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

You are too fragile, and it is quite depraved to take advantage of someone not being around anymore to get some attention by crying with the wolves.

I don't know why people think that I am crying when I tell that they are hurting me. 

I am not taking advantage of someone who is not around here but just delivering the message here regarding his behaviour.

As per my weakness I have completely owned my weakness by getting bullied , abused in the past by both men and women or more precisely boys and girls.

Thanks.

[Peo]

Your not going to learn game through discord. Discord is a waste of time. Get a wingman or go out solo. 

[Yimpa]

Time to set a strong boundary here. No need to fan the flames anymore. They only have power when you continue fueling them.

[Schizophonia]

39 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

I don't know why people think that I am crying when I tell that they are hurting me. 

I am not taking advantage of someone who is not around here but just delivering the message here regarding his behaviour.

As per my weakness I have completely owned my weakness by getting bullied , abused in the past by both men and women or more precisely boys and girls.

Thanks.

Personally I wouldn't have said "I thought you wanted to win at life", "you're lying to yourself" and that kind of sentence; It's useless, petty, and a projection of one's own helplessness.
I would have just given advice and then said nothing, or given an invoice if it starts to become energy-consuming to coach you (therefore a job).

But, recognize that this post is a way of creating drama, and that NoSelfSelf is not a tyrant either, you shouldn't be so reactive; It's not masculine, mature in general and you're hurting yourself for nothing; It's just a random on the internet.

I'm sorry if you've been traumatized or whatever, now there are psychologists/psychiatrists/psychiatrists for that.

Not someone on a forum who doesn't follow ethics, insofar as it's not his work.

👍

1 hour ago, Ulax said:

Depraved? It’s not depraved.

The dude has every right to protest against this sort of behaviour from an only recently demoted mod

This is indeed depravity; a stupid way to create drama.
"Look what this guy did".

There are more constructive things to do.

Edited Wednesday at 02:38 PM by Schizophonia

[meta_male]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

This is indeed depravity; a stupid way to create drama.
"Look what this guy did".

It's fine to speak out about people who treated you like shit without being blamed for doing so. One day he won't care anymore.

[Rishabh R]

@Schizophonia Isn't setting boundaries a constructive thing ? Is hiding abuse a form of inauthenticity ?

I didn't have the intention to create drama but being honest.

2 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

 

 

[Ulax]

21 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

This is indeed depravity; a stupid way to create drama.
"Look what this guy did".

You are being harsh and dramatic here imo

[Hojo]

He gave me a warning too for something very dumb.

[Schizophonia]

48 minutes ago, Ulax said:

You are being harsh and dramatic here imo

Op is a mirror; I remind myself through it to stop extracting energy from conflict situations.

55 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

@Schizophonia Isn't setting boundaries a constructive thing ? Is hiding abuse a form of inauthenticity ?

I didn't have the intention to create drama but being honest.

 

Yes, but here you are still feeding your victim character, while your ego complains about it.

If I didn't agree with the way a person interacts with me, I would just stop communicating with him in the context concerned, and I would move on.

Because I want to identify with a character who is not a victim, and to manifest this, everything that is not this character will have to die.

1 hour ago, meta_male said:

It's fine to speak out about people who treated you like shit without being blamed for doing so. One day he won't care anymore.

It's just a few passive aggressive sentences on Discord, it should be forgotten in a few minutes.

Op must be thinking "Would my ideal self care?" and the answer is obviously no, because your ideal self is not fragile and dependent on others' opinions like that; Your ideal self is strong and abundant.
Here you continue to identify with someone made of sugar.

I mean, tomorrow you might have generalized cancer, a car accident or something like that, plus just everyday problems; And the clock is ticking while you still deal with chronic dissatisfaction on the financial, sentimental/sexual, friendship or whatever.
Is it worth wasting time making this a topic; Two poor sentences on Discord.
It's like stopping the railway system of a country and making a report because there is a piece of wood on a rail.

 

Edited Wednesday at 03:48 PM by Schizophonia

[Applegarden8]

What better series you need in actualized.org franchise than the 3 part series of how to get laid and "Go Out!"

Best wishes.

Edited Wednesday at 03:53 PM by Applegarden8

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Once again, a question thats never been answered by him just offers itself on a silver platter here - who the fuck is he? LOL he's literaly just some random dude. Random ass dude. LOL

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Random ass dude. LOL

Me too  

[Beans]

Stop the abuse!

 

[Leo Gura]

That Mod was problematic, but what exactly is the abuse here?

If you didn't like his vulgar way of speaking to you, why did you engage his coaching services?

Edited Wednesday at 07:34 PM by Leo Gura

[Princess Arabia]

Seriously? From Dec 2023. OP, you need to learn the art of letting go. Especially from someone you don't even know. I'm saying this with love in my heart. Almost every post from you is about someone abusing you. Not to mention the women in your past. Please understand that life isn't about you but how you respond to it. Life is cruel and will eat you alive if you let it.

You have every right to feel the way you do, but understand that "the feeling is the secret" slogan is exactly what life is about. We're trying to feel a certain way but life isn't cooperating because life is neutral and doesn't base how it operates on feelings, we do. THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE TO MASTER IN LIFE IS YOUR FEELINGS TOWARDS IT. That's it. Everything else is happening on it's own. This is what "the feeling is the secret" actually means.