The best way to get laid

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

Very very little.

Ok 

[integral]

@Majed the only benefit I can see for an escort is if you’re a virgin with major confidence problems it might help to practice with escorts.

And maybe that will translate to having more social confidence with real people you’re more relaxed and naturally you’ll find yourself with an organic partner.

it can be useful to help loosen people up and relax them.

Men temporarily get confidence after sex. And if you’re a virgin or very inexperienced and only have bad experiences, then you probably have a bunch of pent-up stress conditioning.

So maybe an escort could help you uncondition yourself.

That being said a real woman is a whole different animal. And they are not paid to be nice to you. And you still have a long way to go before you can deal with the complexity of a real relationship.

Edited March 3 by integral

[Tenebroso]

Would never see an escort even if it was the only way to have sex. Would rather die alone untouched. Mutual desire is a big part of the allure of sex, paying turns the act into something robotic and pathetic.

[EternalForest]

Hard disagree. Having empty, transactional sex with no genuine connection behind it for the rest of my life sounds like hell to me.

[Schizophonia]

On 03/03/2025 at 4:35 PM, integral said:

 

That being said a real woman is a whole different animal. And they are not paid to be nice to you. And you still have a long way to go before you can deal with the complexity of a real relationship.

It's the opposite, escorts will often treat you like shit while taking your money

A relationship isn't complex; you spend time with someone for their looks and to be less bored, and sometimes to fuck.

[Carl-Richard]

Next up: going to the urologist is the best way to get your dick and balls touched.

[Princess Arabia]

On 3/11/2025 at 4:07 PM, Schizophonia said:

It's the opposite, escorts will often treat you like shit while taking your money

I'm in the escort industry and i've never heard a man say that escort treated him badly or was mean to him. Every time, or 95% of the times when I hear a man speak of a date he had with an escort, except in rare circumstances, they usually say they had a good time or she was very nice. It's all empty because it means nothing, but in the same way how I make no difference to you if I like you or not. It's only good while it lasted or lasts. An escort has no reason to treat their bread and butter in a mean way and for no reason. You might say, well, that's because she's taking your money. Go to the doctor and see how well he treats you or go to the CEO of Walmart and see if you're not treated with respect as a customer. Same goes for just about every company in most cases that you're giving your money to, so don't limit it to escorts. 

I tire of seeing how escorts get a bad rap when it's the guys that will treat the girls badly most of the time and be mean. 

Edited March 13 by Princess Arabia

[Schizophonia]

15 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

 

I tire of seeing how escorts get a bad rap when it's the guys that will treat the girls badly most of the time and be mean. 

It's both. 

[Tenebroso]

Never used an Escort but from what I see they are generally repulsed by their clients. I don't know how guys do it, would rather die a virgin than deal with that lack of desire. 

[something_else]

57 minutes ago, Tenebroso said:

Never used an Escort but from what I see they are generally repulsed by their clients. I don't know how guys do it, would rather die a virgin than deal with that lack of desire. 

A lot of guys can completely detach themselves from the emotional component of sex and just view it as something mechanical. In which case, if you can afford it, an escort starts to look like a good option for you.

But in with you, as much as I enjoy casual sex, there needs to at least be some kind of energetic connection for it to be remotely enjoyable.

[Consept]

1 hour ago, something_else said:

A lot of guys can completely detach themselves from the emotional component of sex and just view it as something mechanical. In which case, if you can afford it, an escort starts to look like a good option for you.

But in with you, as much as I enjoy casual sex, there needs to at least be some kind of energetic connection for it to be remotely enjoyable.

Some guys but I really feel in that instance it's just using someone's body to masturbate. If I don't feel like they really want me that's off putting 

[something_else]

24 minutes ago, Consept said:

Some guys but I really feel in that instance it's just using someone's body to masturbate. If I don't feel like they really want me that's off putting 

There are a lot of guys who think this way. Just ask any women. The majority of guys she will have been with only care about their own pleasure.

[Nilsi]

On 27.2.2025 at 6:56 PM, Majed said:

 it doesn't require much money.

Lol, I don’t know where you live, but in a first-world country, even just one hour with a high-class hooker will set you back a few hundred dollars.

That’s hardly sustainable for most people - even if you were only indulging once a week.

Edited Friday at 06:57 PM by Nilsi

[Schizophonia]

29 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

Lol, I don’t know where you live, but in a first-world country, even just one hour with a high-class hooker will set you back a few hundred dollars.

That’s hardly sustainable for most people - even if you were only indulging once a week.

What a scam.

[Carl-Richard]

6 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

It's both. 

👌 People need to say these two words more.

[LordFall]

On 2/27/2025 at 11:01 AM, Average Actualizer said:

Best way to get laid is to increase your own vibration so much that your dream/reality starts to completely compliment your thoughts and you start to "manifest" anything you think of, including a partner. And the thing is most people in spiritual communities know about this it's just that they don't know the best ways to increase vibration.

wtf idk where you took that from but it's literally happening to me. Beautiful.

@Majed Not bullshit. I've done it all, escorts, porn, pickup, girlfriends, fwbs, etc. Best way to get laid long term is to align your dating life and business with a social circle/social media. Check my instagram for an example of what I mean. 

[Schizophonia]

3 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

👌 People need to say these two words more.

Soon i will end up just spamming one-word phrases of holistic concept like "non-duality" or "ego." as a response. 

[Nilsi]

8 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

👌 People need to say these two words more.

No, they don’t. Those are just empty words.

The real beauty and profundity of the human condition lie in the ability to speak to opposing realities with full sincerity - completely giving yourself to a cause, only to later confront how wrong and limited that view was. That cycle of devotion and disillusionment is where real depth emerges.

If you just hover above it all with a detached “both sides are kinda true” perspective, you’re missing the raw emotional intensity and the tragic weight of life.

[Carl-Richard]

2 hours ago, Nilsi said:

No, they don’t. Those are just empty words.

The real beauty and profundity of the human condition lie in the ability to speak to opposing realities with full sincerity - completely giving yourself to a cause, only to later confront how wrong and limited that view was. That cycle of devotion and disillusionment is where real depth emerges.

If you just hover above it all with a detached “both sides are kinda true” perspective, you’re missing the raw emotional intensity and the tragic weight of life.

If I say "people need to say 'it's both' more", am I saying they should always say it's both or is it possible that it depends on the situation? And if I'm saying it depends on the situation, am I being detached and empty or am I drawing a firm line in the sand?

Edited Friday at 11:32 PM by Carl-Richard

[Nilsi]

9 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

If I say "people need to say 'it's both' more", am I saying they should always say it's both or is it possible that it depends on the situation? And if I'm saying it depends on the situation, am I being detached and empty or am I drawing a firm line in the sand?

You tell me.

I think you understand my argument. Whether it applies to you, I can’t say, but I still find it valuable to point out, even if only as a reminder to myself.