The best way to get laid

[Schizophonia]

16 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

@Majed I think the best way is to be comfortable with never finding a partner. I know it sounds foolish on the surface but maybe isn't there is something to it -- When you stop looking for love , love finds you.

Check out this video.

 

You lack a father figure and/or have trauma in denial to wallow in the fringe of learned helplessness to this point.
There is no problem with that, but you have to deal with it.

Because, even if you are cynical and admit that you are very ugly (which is certainly not the case) you can put a few thousand euros aside or even take out a loan to do deep cosmetic surgery, it remains a cheap investment compared to a quality car or buying a house; It can be a motivation to work for money.

Basically it is a question of learned helplessness and confidence, much more than material conditions in absolute terms ; Your system needs reassurance about future results.

Fight fight fight.

 

 

[Rishabh R]

@Schizophonia sorry dude but I think that video which I linked changed my perspective on life. As per father figure I do have my father for which I am grateful. 

As per learned helplessness I am also aware that I attracted girls in the past which will happen in the future and is also present reality.

[Schizophonia]

3 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

@Schizophonia sorry dude but I think that video which I linked changed my perspective on life. As per father figure I do have my father for which I am grateful. 

As per learned helplessness I am also aware that I attracted girls in the past which will happen in the future and is also present reality.

No otherwise it would be integrated and you wouldn't talk about it.

Btw the op's post is just a hidden cry for help; Because it's illegal in his system to complain and ask for help.

[AION]

On 28-2-2025 at 3:19 PM, Princess Arabia said:

I wish you would stop insulting women as much as you do by insinuating such things all the time. This is a very minute few and from very unstable women. As far as abusers,lots aren't aware until they've had contact and are already in the relationship. I won't even address the serial killers part, because that's just so ludicrous. 

Sounds like you took it personal 

[Rishabh R]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

No otherwise it would be integrated and you wouldn't talk about it

So , sharing something which you find good online is neediness according to you. 😂

 

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, AION said:

Sounds like you took it personal 

Well, I don't intentionally go for abusers or serial killers but I am a woman, so that's as personal as it gets. 

Nothing wrong with women speaking up for women, and on this forum, not many guys will, especially you.

Edited March 2 by Princess Arabia

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia they are sticking up for the woman that like to do that you are putting them down.

[Schizophonia]

2 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

So , sharing something which you find good online is neediness according to you. 😂

 

? I said that nowhere. 

 

Edited March 2 by Schizophonia

[Rishabh R]

@Schizophonia Sorry , I misunderstood you.

[Sugarcoat]

This works if you don’t desire any emotional connection through sex, and authentic sexual tension/connection, or feeling desired. Which to me seem like the best parts of sex, but if you can do without them and only desire the physical part then yes escort will get you that, and probably in a good way too because the escort has a lot of sexual experience so will be good in bed. So it has its pros and its cons. Also you don’t get that personal development that comes from the process of attracting women 

[Schizophonia]

7 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

@Schizophonia Sorry , I misunderstood you.

👍

[Schizophonia]

57 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

This works if you don’t desire any emotional connection through sex, and authentic sexual tension/connection, or feeling desired. Which to me seem like the best parts of sex, but if you can do without them and only desire the physical part then yes escort will get you that, and probably in a good way too because the escort has a lot of sexual experience so will be good in bed. So it has its pros and its cons. Also you don’t get that personal development that comes from the process of attracting women 

No lol; Precisely because as you said they are only there for money.

+ “Good in bed” doesn’t mean much.

 

[Sugarcoat]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

No lol; Precisely because as you said they are only there for money.

+ “Good in bed” doesn’t mean much.

 

When I say good in bed I mean the physical pleasure aspect. It’s just my assumption because their job is to please their customer and they have a lot of sex with many different people maybe they become good at that physical aspect of sex, but what do I know 

[Schizophonia]

51 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

When I say good in bed I mean the physical pleasure aspect. It’s just my assumption because their job is to please their customer and they have a lot of sex with many different people maybe they become good at that physical aspect of sex, but what do I know 

believe me it's wrong

[Sugarcoat]

8 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

believe me it's wrong

Ok so they don’t have to “be good “ to please the customer so they just do the bare minimum you mean?

[Schizophonia]

2 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Ok so they don’t have to “be good “ to please the customer so they just do the bare minimum you mean?

Yes.

I know several people (including in my own family without saying more lol) who told me the same thing.

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Schizophonia said:

Yes.

I know several people (including in my own family without saying more lol) who told me the same thing.

Ok you’ve got some input from real life experience. Maybe it varies though depending on the escort and the circumstances surrounding their “work” , what got them in it, how “luxurious” they are etc

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

Ok you’ve got some input from real life experience. Maybe it varies though depending on the escort and the circumstances surrounding their “work” , what got them in it, how “luxurious” they are etc

It's also 200 euros per hour, btw 😅

Edited March 3 by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Schizophonia said:

It's also 200 euros per hour, btw 😅

Doesn’t the price vary too?

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

Doesn’t the price vary too?

Very very little.