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Collective Male Shame Patterns - Elon Musk and Mark Zuckerberg

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2 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

I could care less about your personal attacks. You don't know anything about me anyway and you never will. And even if I had the so called "victim mentality", whatever that even means, that doesn't change anything about what I've said. My points still stands independent of who I am, whether I am a millionaire self actualized playboy or a brokie debbie downer, doesn't matter at all. All you can do is make empty vague meaningless assumptions and psychoanalysies anyway. Maybe you should stick to that

I'm saying that I'm observing you doing victim's mentality in your previous posts with precisely the words you're saying.

So, it's not a personal attack... just an observation about your behavior in those particular posts. And I was drawing your attention to the fact that you had slipped into victim's mentality.

It would be wise to question why you jumped to vaguely gesturing at non-descript problems in society and blaming women for those vaguely gestured at problems, when I was just talking about collective male shame dynamics and never engaged in blaming men for these dynamics.

There was clearly something you found offensive about what I said... and that caused you to jump to projecting some generic internet-Feminist perspective onto what I was saying.

And you jumped right into victim's mentality and scapegoating women for generalized societal problems.

You seem to perceive me to be firing shots at you... so you tried to fire them back at women as a general group by proxy of referring to me as "your gender".

But I'm not interested in getting on gender teams and being like "Yeah well... men this..." and "Oh yeah. Women that..."

The male shame dynamic I mentioned is just important to draw attention to, as it is often misdiagnosed in more surface-level ways.


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