Hot but Atheist

[PsychedelicEagle]

I'm talking to a really hot girl but her dating profile says "Atheist". What to do?

Edited Tuesday at 09:39 PM by PsychedelicEagle

[SamC]

Feel it in instead of thinking about it logically

Edited Tuesday at 11:18 PM by SamC

[Yimpa]

Go on a trip with her, it’ll change her mind very fast. 

[Hojo]

Athiest are smart but wrong. Nothing wrong with an athiest you find God by being an athiest. If you cant see God the logical step is to be an athiest. If you want to talk about God it might not be a good match but it also could be.

Edited Wednesday at 12:09 AM by Hojo

[something_else]

I mean it’s a step up from being a fundamentalist Christian.

But I don’t even have a problem with atheists really. The issue is that the ones who talk about it a lot are usually annoying and if the only thing you can say about yourself is that you’re an “atheist” then you’re probably going to fit that annoying stereotype pretty accurately.

[Leo Gura]

What you will learn is that anything a girl writes on her dating profile is completely irrelevant and you should not waste 10 seconds of your life thinking about it.

Edited Wednesday at 02:16 AM by Leo Gura

[Husseinisdoingfine]

Stop using dating apps and meet friends irl.

[Princess Arabia]

Humans are the only species that creates a problem out of everything. A problem just appears outta nowhere. 

Why be concerned about what to do, she isn't. Beats being a stage green weed smoking hippie.

[gettoefl]

Atheists are more open minded than theists. They think about stuff. Proceed accordingly.

Besides, beliefs about and against God need no airing in public.

I haven't spoken the G-word in public in years.

If someone asks do I believe in God, I will ask them what they mean by the term and how does it influence their life. When they ask the question, they are more interested in speaking their views than hearing yours.

I like an atheist. It is easy to persuade one that everyone has a god of some form or other. This can lead to fruitful conversations.

Edited Wednesday at 10:41 AM by gettoefl

[Something Funny]

11 hours ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

Stop using dating apps and meet friends irl.

Why?

[Hojo]

A big chunk of people who awaken are atheists who spend their time arguing with people on the internet or irl that God isnt real. That is what seeking is. Even talking about it and being interested in it shows God you are interested in it. Arguing about it is faith even against it.

Edited Wednesday at 04:15 PM by Hojo

[Husseinisdoingfine]

4 hours ago, Something Funny said:

Why?

There's many issues with dating apps. First, they're very skewed against men. Women can expect several thousands of matches, and men eak out a like here and there.

Women are so flooded with matches, its crazy. I will usually be texting a girl on a dating app, only to be ghosted within a day. I presume its because she matched with someone better than me. 

[Something Funny]

@Husseinisdoingfine yeah, but it's just an additional option so why not use it if it takes literally zero effort. Spend 10 minute a day/week/whatever swiping on people you like and then just see if someone happens to text you

[PsychedelicEagle]

22 hours ago, SamC said:

Feel it in instead of thinking about it logically

Great advice!

22 hours ago, Yimpa said:

Go on a trip with her, it’ll change her mind very fast.

You mean a non-psychedelic trip, right?  

18 hours ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

Stop using dating apps and meet friends irl.

Fair. I just happen to keep the dating apps on for the extra coverage. But regularly I do "daygame" - whenever I see someone I'm attracted to I go talk to that person.

[PsychedelicEagle]

20 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

anything a girl writes on her dating profile is completely irrelevant and you should not waste 10 seconds of your life thinking about it.

Fair.

17 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Why be concerned about what to do, she isn't.

Haha I decided to post it because I found it an interesting thought experiment; also wanted to hear your opinions. Seeing the word "atheist" ringged a bell. It gives off the vibes of someone who's too certain of their own beliefs - perhaps less likely to be open-minded. Could just be my personal projection too.

Anyway, it wouldn't prevent me from meeting up with those kinds of people, so it's not really a "problem".

Edited Wednesday at 10:17 PM by PsychedelicEagle

[PsychedelicEagle]

2 hours ago, Something Funny said:

just an additional option so why not use it if it takes literally zero effort. Spend 10 minute a day/week/whatever swiping on people you like and then just see if someone happens to text you

+1