Fearing A Relationship?

[Lifes2short]

Hi there,

I've always found relationships in the past to be quite distracting, now that I am really on this path to personal development, I fear that if I'm in a relationship I will lose my path and be side tracked, this ultimately has killed my motivation to want to chase girls. Do I set out to achieve my goals first, then focus on a finding a partner? Do I find a partner first, then go ahead and achieve my goals? Or will this girl somehow gel with my lifestyle, so the best thing to do is just keep going on my path and we will somehow find each other? Does anyone have any experience with this? Being in a relationship and still being able to focus on yourself etc. I would love to hear your advice.

 

Daniel

[electroBeam]

2 hours ago, Lifes2short said:

Hi there,

I've always found relationships in the past to be quite distracting, now that I am really on this path to personal development, I fear that if I'm in a relationship I will lose my path and be side tracked, this ultimately has killed my motivation to want to chase girls. Do I set out to achieve my goals first, then focus on a finding a partner? Do I find a partner first, then go ahead and achieve my goals? Or will this girl somehow gel with my lifestyle, so the best thing to do is just keep going on my path and we will somehow find each other? Does anyone have any experience with this? Being in a relationship and still being able to focus on yourself etc. I would love to hear your advice.

 

Daniel

I don't have a lot of experience in the area, but keep in mind relationships are apart of personal development. Growing yourself can really be accelerated by making a relationship work.

Leo also suggested to start a relationship, it will "bite your ass" in the future if you hold back

[Midlife Crisis]

There is nothing wrong with being on a journey to find your LP and being in a relationship. I think it is good to be honest about the situation and let them know that you are on a quest for your personal development. Things may work out and they may not. Being honest about it eliminates the distraction part of it.

[Lifes2short]

thankyou