When should I get married ?

[Someone here]

So I really want a deep romantic lasting connection with a girl who loves me and I love her ...not some one night stand sex with an escort or that kinda bs ..I'm 27 ..Will graduate college and start working in any business company as an employer within two years given that I won't fail any exams and retake some semesters etc

The thing is I go through lots of stress everyday because I basically live alone in my apartment and I have to do everything for myself. I wish I could just go home and find a wife who can cook for me ..sooth me..relax me..give me a massage..suck my "thing "  ...you know basically a wife. 

Also I got over my sexuality confusion..I'm not actually gay or bisexual. It was just that I overused straight porn to the point I wanted to explore gay porn. And now that I stopped watching porn for a while I see men as ugly creatures(no offence)and I don't want to sleep with a guy even if he is Ronaldo or smth . And I'm back to craving having sex with a female .

Now I just want to get a realistic idea of when am I supposed to be ready for marriage. Because marriage is not just sex .It's a relationship that is ought to last for a lifetime .

And BTW I'm not getting a rearranged marriage. I'm not even thinking about marrying an Indian girl ..there is a lot of European girls in my college who i have a  crush on but not the balls to flirt with . So yeah let's talk about this I guess. 

 

Edited Tuesday at 11:30 AM by Someone here

[Princess Arabia]

I feel sorry for that poor wife if those are her duties. Sounds more like a sex maid. Unfortunately a lot of women don't know any better and have been conditioned into thinking they need to be a maid to be a wife. So demeaning. That's why you have a crush on those European girls because they don't remind you of maids. Unfortunately, they won't fit your bill and you'll have to settle for the one that will suck your ting-a-ling when you come home from a hard day's work and open up the massage parlor for you with dinner served on a platter.

Edited Tuesday at 04:20 PM by Princess Arabia

[Schizophonia]

Well when you feel ready 👍

That said, you prefer european girls even though you are Indian is a paraphilia; it doesn't mean that interracial couples can't be happy, but where there is the most love is with those who are most like us, because we understand each other.

Same with your bisexuality story; It's not pornography that is the cause, it would be like saying I'm too greedy when it comes to food so I started sucking stones lol; Pornography is only a possible trigger, the real problem is that your libido takes strange paths, objects to satisfy itself because of limiting beliefs and conditioning in general.

Edited Tuesday at 04:35 PM by Schizophonia

[Elliott]

There's no deadline, you can even freeze sperm if you're getting older and want to have kids.

[Elliott]

17 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

I feel sorry for that poor wife if those are her duties. Sounds more like a sex maid. Unfortunately a lot of women don't know any better and have been conditioned into thinking they need to be a maid to be a wife. So demeaning. That's why you have a crush on those European girls because they don't remind you of maids. Unfortunately, they won't fit your bill and you'll have to settle for the one that will suck your ting-a-ling when you come home from a hard day's work and open up the massage parlor for you with dinner served on a platter.

I have a college educated white american girlfriend and she likes doing those things, liberal feminist anti-trumper even.

[Princess Arabia]

6 minutes ago, Elliott said:

I have a college educated white american girlfriend and she likes doing those things, liberal feminist anti-trumper even.

It's not so much that one likes or don't like doing the above-mentioned chores, it's that they have been made requisites for marriage. I enjoy cooking , but if it's a requisite for a happy marriage then it's a chore. I should be able to do or not do on my own accord. So if she loves doing those things, then that's perfectly fine as long as if she stops, it's not a problem.

Edited Tuesday at 04:42 PM by Princess Arabia

[Elliott]

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

It's not so much that one likes or don't like doing the above-mentioned chores, it's that they have been made requisites for marriage. I enjoy cooking , but if it's a requisite for a happy marriage then it's a chore. I should be able to do or not do on my own accord. So if she loves doing those things, then that's perfectly fine as long as if she stops, it's not a problem.

What else is the point of marriage, if a couple quits working together....

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, Elliott said:

What else is the point of marriage, if a couple quits working together....

Serving dinner, giving massages, and sucking dick is not considered working together. He proposed those things as what a wife does. That's what I'm responding to. If they so happen, that's fine but a wife need not perform chores for her husband to be considered a wife. Notice he mentioned nothing about serving her or what might make her happy to be with him, only what will make him happy. That's not working together.

[Princess Arabia]

Notice how many times the word "I" got used in the OP. Every other sentence has the word "I" in it. 

[Elliott]

7 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Serving dinner, giving massages, and sucking dick is not considered working together. He proposed those things as what a wife does. That's what I'm responding to. If they so happen, that's fine but a wife need not perform chores for her husband to be considered a wife. Notice he mentioned nothing about serving her or what might make her happy to be with him, only what will make him happy. That's not working together.

Why would a guy marry a woman then?

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, Elliott said:

Why would a guy marry a woman then?

Oh my. That's all imma say. 

[Schizophonia]

2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

what might make her happy to be with him, only what will make him happy. That's not working together.

He must imagine having a housewife, which is unlikely even in recent centuries; Most women in Europe have always worked, it was the privilege of a socially favored and religiously inspired caste to be a housewife.

[Elliott]

2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Oh my. That's all imma say. 

If you're just looking for a roommate to split the bills why get married.

[Schizophonia]

7 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Notice how many times the word "I" got used in the OP. Every other sentence has the word "I" in it. 

It's normal, he's talking about himself.

[Schizophonia]

Just now, Elliott said:

If you're just looking for a roommate to split the bills why get married.

You don't take your roommate doggy style after eating and watching a movie with 😂

[Princess Arabia]

16 minutes ago, Elliott said:

Why would a guy marry a woman then?

Do you think Melania is serving Donald dinner, giving him tedious massages and sucking his dick nightly. Do you think the rich wives of rich husband's are doing these things, but they're married anyway. Conditioning my friend, conditioning. This is what has failed us. Using each other as slaves. Men are built for certain things and so are women. A woman can nurture her husband just by being there. But only a masculine man can recognize and appreciate that. When a woman can make a man want to strive for excellence to support her and the family and to allow for her to be in her feminine energy will he learn to love and respect her and want to be with her. Not when he's using her as a sex slave or a maid. His eyes will wander for the princess and queen he wants to work for and who he can go all out for to prove he's worthy of her love.

Ok, I'm back to reality and to all the naysayers, save it and don't even bother because I'm only dreaming.

Edited Tuesday at 05:16 PM by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

7 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

It's normal, he's talking about himself.

Exactly. Why mention a wife then. Only when one is oblivious to the queues in communication styles would you see that as just normal. It is normal when all you're thinking of is yourself not just talking about yourself. There's a difference.

[Elliott]

8 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Do you think Melania is serving Donald dinner, giving him tedious massages and sucking his dick nightly. Do you think the rich wives of rich husband's are doing these things, but they're married anyway. Conditioning my friend, conditioning. This is what has failed us. Using each other as slaves. Men are built for certain things and so are women. A woman can nature her husband just by being there. But only a masculine man can recognize and appreciate that. When a woman can make a man want to strive for excellence to support her and the family and to allow for her to be in her feminine energy will he learn to love and respect her and want to be with her. Not when he's using her as a sex slave or a maid. His eyes will wander for the princess and queen he wants to work for and who he can go all out for to prove he's worthy of her love.

Ok, I'm back to reality and to all the naysayers, save it and don't even bother because I'm only dreaming.

And he's on his what, 4th wife? Doing for the other and working together is the point of marriage. Not many women are going to be fixing the roof or car, they tend to prefer cooking and massage. You're talking about a man being a slave to the woman, the man get's  what, honor out of the relationship, lmao.

Edited Tuesday at 05:21 PM by Elliott

[Hojo]

22 minutes ago, Elliott said:

Why would a guy marry a woman then?

Thats been my point the entire time. Women think men enjoy talking and gossiping. They dont they are programmed with a sex drive and thats the only thing men want. Men dont normally find women interesting. If sex stops men go well wtf. Sex for men is like any other addiction, you can get it 1000000 times and you want it 1 more. Its not worth chasing you will be chasing forever.

Edited Tuesday at 05:23 PM by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, Elliott said:

And he's on his what, 4th wife? Doing for the other and working together is the point of marriage. Not many women are going to be fixing the roof or car, they tend to prefer cooking and massage. You're talking about a man being a slave to the woman, the man get's  what, honor out of the relationship, lmao.

2 minutes ago, Elliott said:

 

Ok. Depends on where you're from. Doesn't matter if it's his 4th wife. That wasn't the point. He's still not looking for women to serve him. Most men aren't who can serve themselves or hire someone to. I'm not referring to sexually here. 

I'm just going to leave this section alone and just wait for the ass whooping by Someone here, when he sees my comments. 

Who let the boys out.