When should I get married ?

[Elliott]

1 minute ago, Hojo said:

Thats been my point the entire time. Women think men enjoy talking and gossiping. They dont they are programmed with a sex drive and thats the only thing men want. Men dont normally find women interesting. If sex stops men go well wtf.

Even if the woman is interesting, hopefully she is, the guy still wants sex.

[Elliott]

1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

Ok. Depends on where you're from. Doesn't matter if it's his 4th wife. That wasn't the point. He's still not looking for women to serve him. Most men aren't who can serve themselves or hire someone to. I'm not referring to sexually here. 

I'm just going to leave this section alone and just wait for the ass whooping by Someone here, when he sees my comments. 

Who let the boys out.

So, why would men get married then.

[Princess Arabia]

Like I said, who let the boys out. Thank God real men are out enjoying women and having a blast in their company. They can't even get enough, from what I've heard. I'm out. Can't let the energy vampires drain my feminine energy today. 

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia Wheres your real man? Its a fiction, a fairy tale. This isn't disney.

Edited Tuesday at 05:30 PM by Hojo

[Someone here]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

Well when you feel ready 👍

That said, you prefer european girls even though you are Indian is a paraphilia; it doesn't mean that interracial couples can't be happy, but where there is the most love is with those who are most like us, because we understand each other.

Same with your bisexuality story; It's not pornography that is the cause, it would be like saying I'm too greedy when it comes to food so I started sucking stones lol; Pornography is only a possible trigger, the real problem is that your libido takes strange paths, objects to satisfy itself because of limiting beliefs and conditioning in general.

The whole point is how is this readiness determined ?

If I go to the family of one of those European girls and I ask them that I want your daughter basically as a fiancé they would demand from me lots of things like a high income and such . I don't even have a job in the meantime . So would you say I will be ready when I earn decent money monthly or start a business? 

About the gay stuff ..no I'm sure It was because of porn . Bro I almost watched the entire porn content in the whole Internet 😂..to the point my hard drive was about to explode . So I needed to think of some novelty .that's my theory at least of why I got into gay porn months ago .

@Princess Arabia why you mad ?

Edited Tuesday at 05:45 PM by Someone here

[Schizophonia]

10 minutes ago, Hojo said:

Thats been my point the entire time. Women think men enjoy talking and gossiping. They dont they are programmed with a sex drive and thats the only thing men want. Men dont normally find women interesting. If sex stops men go well wtf. Sex for men is like any other addiction, you can get it 1000000 times and you want it 1 more. Its not worth chasing you will be chasing forever.

I love being interested in women, of course the frequency of her problems has an influence on her attractiveness to me, but it's much less her subjects than the fact of helping her that interests me; I feel like a father (surrogate, in this case) who is tenderly interested in his daughter.

 

[Schizophonia]

48 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Notice how many times the word "I" got used in the OP. Every other sentence has the word "I" in it. 

I mean it's okay to say "I" a lot in a context where you're talking mostly about yourself, rather than some other random topic like politics, the weather, or my mom's lemon meringue pie. Yum.

[Someone here]

20 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Like I said, who let the boys out. Thank God real men are out enjoying women and having a blast in their company. They can't even get enough, from what I've heard. I'm out. Can't let the energy vampires drain my feminine energy today. 

You're becoming a drama queen. Watch out .

[Elliott]

8 minutes ago, Someone here said:

. So would you say I will be ready when I earn decent money monthly or start a business? 

For most people it will be just having a direction you're headed where you can afford a decent living for your family, you could still be earning little money even, so long as you seem responsible. 

[Someone here]

I clearly said in the first paragraph that the girl has to be into me just like I'm into her . Of course just as I demand from her her feminine energy I must also protect her with my masculine energy.  If she doesn't feel like sexy times tonight ..then no worries at all . Its not like anyone in the whole world wants to have sex every single day . Any experience if prolonged long enough it becomes boring.  But ladies must understand that men have second brains "down there ". And when he thinks of marriage and honeymoon then it's no brainer a sex overload must happen .

[Someone here]

2 minutes ago, Elliott said:

For most people it will be just having a direction you're headed where you can afford a decent living for your family, you could still be earning little money even, so long as you seem responsible. 

Thank you . So working on being a good provider and responsible. 

[Schizophonia]

3 minutes ago, Someone here said:

The whole point is how is this readiness determined ?

When you are in a situation (health, money, job) that will allow you to have a cool, fluid relationship.

I wouldn't go flirting if I know I have a drug addiction problem for example, or if I'm homeless ; It's a recipe for disaster.

3 minutes ago, Someone here said:

If I go to the family of one of those European girls and I ask them that I want your daughter basically as a fiancé they would demand from me lots of things like a high income and such . I don't even have a job in the meantime . So would you say I will be ready when I earn decent money monthly or start a business? 

You can find a woman who accepts a fairly precarious lifestyle, but do you want to ?
I think most men would like to be able to take their wife to do activities, things that require money. Or btw just be able to pay rent together lol.

3 minutes ago, Someone here said:

About the gay stuff ..no I'm sure It was because of porn . Bro I almost watched the entire porn content in the whole Internet 😂..to the point my hard drive was about to explode . So I needed to think of some novelty .that's my theory at least of why I got into gay porn months ago .

I watched a lot of porn but I never watched weird stuff 😅

What energy were you looking for in relationships with men that you (thought) you couldn't get with women?

[Elliott]

@Princess Arabia surely you don't think we're suggesting an abusive relationship where a man demands sex and food when the woman is tired or sick of cooking or sex. Men tend to like fixing and building things for women, women tend to like to cook and massage. Many men tend to like to cook and massage too. A guy, or girl, is not going to marry purely for love though, even your shining knight trump doesn't.

Marriage is transactional, otherwise, there's no point to get married. That comes off more sterile than reality though, people do like helping eachother.

Edited Tuesday at 06:14 PM by Elliott

[Princess Arabia]

32 minutes ago, Someone here said:

You're becoming a drama queen. Watch out .

Only on a forum filled with testosterone and the women aren't allowed to speak up. Switch the gender with half the shit said here in this section and the responses will.be like what you just gave. Imagine women saying all they want is money from men and men ain't worth shit their time like what @Hojoboy said earlier about women. Or I look at men as ATM machines like Mr Manuel bon says how he see women as objects and Mr Aion says, he plays women for sex and pays for their meals until he gets into their pants. If I said I play men for their money until I get it then treat them like shit, I'd be ostracized and told I'm a whore or whatever. I see how you guys can get away with saying pretty much anything you want to about women and us ladies have to WATCH OUT.

I'm getting sick and tired of this forum's misogyny and hatred of women talk and as soon as I open my mouth I better watch out or tone it down or don't answer too much. One response is enough. 

Gtfoutta here.

Edited Tuesday at 06:21 PM by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

10 minutes ago, Elliott said:

@Princess Arabia surely you don't think we're suggesting an abusive relationship where a man demands sex and food. Men tend to like fixing and building things for women, women tend to like to cook and massage. Many men tend to like to cook and massage too. A guy, or girl, is not going to marry purely for love though, even your shining knight trump doesn't.

I never mentioned anything about love, but it certainly ain't for slaving either. 

[Princess Arabia]

55 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@Princess Arabia Wheres your real man? Its a fiction, a fairy tale. This isn't disney.

Out making money to pay the bills.

[Hojo]

5 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

 Imagine women saying all they want is money from men and men ain't worth shit their time like what @Hojoboy said earlier about women. Or I look at men as ATM machines

 

Just now, Princess Arabia said:

Out making money to pay the bills.

 

[Princess Arabia]

@HojoLiving with a man and expecting him to pay the bills is not using him as an ATM. Im so tired of explaining things to you in this field. You'll get it in a few years....or not.

[Hojo]

@Princess Arabia Same for man and sex. You are also the definition of entitled.

Edited Tuesday at 06:31 PM by Hojo

[Princess Arabia]

I don't expect guys in their 20's to get me so ill just have to understand that. It's a total different world. Go sow your oats a bit until reality kicks in when she starts to look at you differently and you realize your masculine power and how to utilize it.